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    I've been escorting and dancing for quite awhile now. When I first started escorting I got a lot of negative feedback from friends and people I worked with (at other jobs). All I heard all the time was it's so dirty and nasty to do that type of work etc.

    Well, i had some rough times because of all the criticism and other issues. If it wasn't for my daughter I probably would have killed myself just because I hated how everything in my life was going. I quit escorting and ended up losing a lot of money because of it, i became more miserable. I was just dancing and that alone wasn't cutting it. But then I had the opportunity to move and I took advantage of it. When I moved I got a job dancing again and met somebody who also escorted. She got me in contact with an agency. I figured I'd give it a shot. It only took 1 date to realize that I felt so much better. I know it's weird but it's like getting back into it was just a relief and I was happy doing it. Then I realized that if I just faced the facts and realized that this was something I actually enjoyed I'd be happy. A lot of people think I'm crazy because I say I love my job as an escort because it comes with such a bad stereotype. But I've realized that stereotype comes from people who believe in certain things. Aka religious people is a good example. They'd hate my line of work. But if you take younger generations and future generations I think our job will be more excepted among many people.

    Dancing and escorting is all I've ever done. Since turning 18. I never cared for college. I'm smart with my money and feel like i have a nice cushion. I'd like to stay in shape and hopefully do this for as long as I can.

    But a big reason I posted this was to see if anybody else was some what in the same situation as me. Basically turned this profession into a career. You feel that you'll be doing it for awhile but most importantly you actually love doing this! It would be awesome to find somebody else to relate too.

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    It has come that way over time from boucing from minimum wage jobs to working in the sex industry I went from webcamming, porn vids, massage, stripping, escorting, now I just escort and do webcamming, but I have noticed after about 10 years of doing it its not really what I thought it would be before I go into it. the money people are claimining we make isn't true and I am in a place where I want more out of my life, even though I still do very much enjoy escorting and camming. now I am conisdering university which means I need to think about what else is out there for me. I didn't like school either it was horrible for me as a teenager, so I gave up on it and went with what I knew sex.
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    thanks girl...i'm the same way..was horrible at school..so I went with what i was good at...sex

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    I agree with you. I'm in college and work an OK job but my first job post high school was escorting and I want to get into it again. I feel that it is my calling in some weird type of way. Maybe not weird, but not like "everyone else" that I know. I enjoyed it when I did it, made lots of great money, met cool people and had a flexible life during the day.

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    let me start by saying in my experience / opinion - the money was better before the internet and just at the beginning - (no offense to indie chicas) - before - there were just a handful of escorts - now you can find escorts all over the internet - and as you said more younger ladies dont care what other people think so more ladies have entered the profession - web cams took some of the business too - i made all the money i wanted in the 90's - then it slowly began tailing off - not just for my self but others as well - the money just started getting spread thinner - I have worked since the 80's -

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    yea, we need that negative stereo type. The more mainstream it becomes the less money we will make.. more girls, lower prices, you girls all know what i mean. that being said, i fucking love my job too!!

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    let the haters hate so we can have all the money - lol

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    Im loving this post right now! YES let haters hate. I work a regular part-time job for the insurance. Other than that I hustle to get mine. Women at my regular job are so nosy wanting to know how I maintain. I am a private person, but they suspect I have sugar daddies and things (part true) and its none of their business. AGAIN WE LET THE HATERS HATE.....in my situation, they are just mad they have to sit in the office all day and they know deep down they hate that or they wouldnt be worried about me.I bounce in and quickly out with a smile. I personally do love the freedom and options my hustles give me. I feel empowered.....

    Other people (especially these jealous Bitches) should not feel ANY way about what we do... OUR BUSINESS NOT THEIRS.
    Rather than focusing on what we do, they should figure out a way to come up!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by SabrinaStar View Post
    thanks girl...i'm the same way..was horrible at school..so I went with what i was good at...sex
    i escort part-time, but i do love it. i'm leading a double life and i'm not sure how long i can do it, but i think that even after i finish school i will escort from to time to time. escorting being considered wrong, forbidden and taboo is appealing to me. it's exciting and dangerous and i love playing the bad girl. dressing the part is so much fun. btw, i was never a good student in hs. going to school now is part of living a double life.
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    For me it's much less about loving or hating school - I did very very well in school - the problem is our society has lost a middle class. Unless you have a PhD it is very hard to have any money at all, unless you're white and get lucky. I am white, and I was lucky for a bit, but you can't bank on luck. So I decided fuck if the system won't work for me anymore, screw the system! I make a shitload of money working my ass off (I worked my ass of in my vanilla jobs too but the work was never rewarded like it is in escorting for me) and if it were decriminalized you bet your ass I'd be bragging about how successful I am - I'm proud to be good at what I do.

    Fuck the system. The system is broken so I'm not taking part in it anymore! My cover business lets me pay my taxes and I've truly never been happier.

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