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    I like many guys have an Asian fetish, although unlike others i'm not afraid to admit it. But why do most Asian women who dance not want to play up their heritage when there is a huge market of men interested in Asian women? I'm not talking about doing anything degrading, but things like wearing a kimono, eye shadows/eye liner to make your eyes more almond shape, speaking with an Asian accent, etc.

    It seems Asian women think doing that is stereotypical, but most stereotypes men have of Asian women are positive. They're in shape, they're seductive, they age well, they have better attitudes, etc.

    I just think some may be missing the boat.

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    Default Re: Why do Asian women have a problem playing up their Asianess?

    Is this for real?

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    Default Re: Why do Asian women have a problem playing up their Asianess?

    I think you actually answered your own question when you mentioned that they don't want to be stereotyped. Maybe I'm having a much different experience due to my location, but I agree with you in that men do tend to stereotype Asian women and it often works in the woman's favor financially. I don't think all of these sterotypes are positive, however, as (here, at least) they usually include the thought that the Asian woman will, without any questions, fuck them in exchange for money (usually this is something they've experienced in Thailand or the PI and they therefore think all asian women are like that)--however, if you are looking at it from a financial perspective this assumption that most guys tend to have works out so well for my asian coworkers.

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    Default Re: Why do Asian women have a problem playing up their Asianess?

    Would you also like them to say something to you like, "sucky sucky five dolla, me love you long time"?


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    Quote Originally Posted by MyButter View Post
    I think you actually answered your own question when you mentioned that they don't want to be stereotyped. Maybe I'm having a much different experience due to my location, but I agree with you in that men do tend to stereotype Asian women and it often works in the woman's favor financially. I don't think all of these sterotypes are positive, however, as (here, at least) they usually include the thought that the Asian woman will, without any questions, fuck them in exchange for money (usually this is something they've experienced in Thailand or the PI and they therefore think all asian women are like that)--however, if you are looking at it from a financial perspective this assumption that most guys tend to have works out so well for my asian coworkers.
    Its just like when some women dress like cheerleaders or librarians when they dance, its just something to enhance a customers fantasy. It can especially be lucrative if the woman is dancing somewhere where there are few Asian women.

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    Hire someone who will do your roleplay on a one-on-one basis so she can return to the real world where your racist fantasies expire after an hour bc she knows it wouldnt have univer$al applicability in a group environment? aka why you dont see many even doing this? Problem solved.

    Stripping in an expensive intricate-ass kimono and speaking with a contrived "Asian" accent for one dude's comfort woman boner. Amazing. I cant.





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    Default Re: Why do Asian women have a problem playing up their Asianess?

    ^It's not precisely like the cheerleader or librarian thing. It's a racial thing. I can see why many women may not be interested in doing what you suggest.

    I've had a few drunk men ask if I'm half-Asian, so maybe I'll throw on a kimono and request the numa numa song for my stage next weekend. I'll let you know how it goes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roast View Post
    Hire someone who will do your roleplay on a one-on-one basis so she can return to the real world where your racist fantasies expire after an hour bc she knows it wouldnt have univer$al applicability in a group environment? Problem solved.

    Stripping in a kimono and speaking with an "Asian" accent, I cant.
    Racist fantasy? Thats a little much don't you think? As Jerry Seinfeld said "If I like their race, how can it be racist?".

    Like I said many women wear different costumes or uniforms while dancing, so why would this one be a big deal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuesdaymarie View Post
    ^It's not precisely like the cheerleader or librarian thing. It's a racial thing. I can see why many women may not be interested in doing what you suggest.

    I've had a few drunk men ask if I'm half-Asian, so maybe I'll throw on a kimono and request the numa numa song for my stage next weekend. I'll let you know how it goes.
    If they're uncomfortable doing it than of course they shouldn't do it, but I'm sure theres plenty of Asian women open to doing it as well. In adult videos Asian pornography is a giant money maker mostly because they heavily play up the Asian angle.

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    Default Re: Why do Asian women have a problem playing up their Asianess?

    Maybe you could become a regular of a particular girl and then ask if she would be willing to cater to your fantasy. Some dancers will do this if it's not too much effort or prepararation. If you want her to wear special clothes, you should be willing to buy them or visit her often enough and spend an amount of money that would make it worth it for her.

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    Default Re: Why do Asian women have a problem playing up their Asianess?

    Not true. I take advantage of my Asian heritage. Hell, in fact I'm rocking up next saturday in a tarty traditional chinese dress. & I DO plan to use "me love you long time".. Even though I speak perfect english. But that's my choice. I think it's fun pigeon-holing myself. Lol.

    But that doesn't mean I can speak for all Asians. Whether she chooses to dress all typical or not... Does it matter? It's gonna all come off anyway

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    Default Re: Why do Asian women have a problem playing up their Asianess?

    for reference - Asia


    Home to about 4 billion people and has many countries and races(!) within it. Im guessing youre in the US? So since the US is one country on a continent - North America about 350 million people. I can think of about 10 different regional accents within North America alone. So .... an "Asian accent" means jack balls.


    While we're at it, kimonos? Kimonos are traditional to Japan. One country in all of Asia. One country of about 127 million people (to Asia's 4billion). See, see how small it is in comparison to the above map?



    If youre going to be a proud twat with a twatty sexual preoccupation, at least try to be an mildly informed twat of your twattage, I mean really. Perhaps this is why dancers dont listen to you when you give your business advice. Or theyre just in the DR sharpening their ... chopsticks.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Su Su View Post
    Not true. I take advantage of my Asian heritage. Hell, in fact I'm rocking up next saturday in a tarty traditional chinese dress. & I DO plan to use "me love you long time".. Even though I speak perfect english. But that's my choice. I think it's fun pigeon-holing myself. Lol.

    But that doesn't mean I can speak for all Asians. Whether she chooses to dress all typical or not... Does it matter? It's gonna all come off anyway
    It just makes perfect business sense, theres a huge market for it so why not profit off it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by (OYO) View Post
    I like many guys have an Asian fetish, although unlike others i'm not afraid to admit it. But why do most Asian women who dance not want to play up their heritage when there is a huge market of men interested in Asian women?
    Bro, Asian strippers are not stupid. If they thought they could bank dressing like a geisha they would all be doing it. I'm sure there are fetish girls who will do it in a private sessions but you will pay by the hour for it, not by the dance.

    Sorry, but I really don't agree with you that anyone is missing the boat. I know lots of Asian dancers and they all do pretty well. I've never heard any of them mention customers asking them to dress in any sort of traditional Asian attire so I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that your "fetish" may not be all that common...

    By the way, not all Asians share the same heritage. Kimonos, eye shadow/liner are not universal all over Asia and accents vary quite a bit as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by roast View Post
    for reference - Asia


    Home to about 4 billion people and has many countries and races(!) within it. Im guessing youre in the US? So since the US is one country on a continent - North America about 350 million people. I can think of about 10 different regional accents within North America alone. So .... an "Asian accent" means jack balls.


    While we're at it, kimonos? Kimonos are traditional to Japan. One country in all of Asia. One country of about 127 million people (to Asia's 4billion). See, see how small it is in comparison to the above map?



    If youre going to be a proud twat with a twatty sexual preoccupation, at least try to be an mildly informed twat of your twattage, I mean really. Perhaps this is why dancers dont listen to you when you give your business advice. Or theyre just in the DR sharpening their ... chopsticks.
    When I hear some one calling themselves Asian its rarely some one from Russia or Turkey which is also technically Asia. Being Asian in the US is synonymous with people of East Asian descent such as Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Thai, ect. You can try and get as technical as you want but I think everyone but you understood the question.

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    Default Re: Why do Asian women have a problem playing up their Asianess?

    ^I think the OP was using a kimono simply as an example...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MyButter View Post
    ^I think the OP was using a kimono simply as an example...
    Right, an example of what he wants...
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    Default Re: Why do Asian women have a problem playing up their Asianess?

    But I do understand how everyone can be worked up. Just because they're Asian doesn't mean they should dress Asian. Or just because she's French she should dress in stripes with a beret on her head, and say "hor hor hor" all night.
    I am not Japanese, but when I dress in my tarty kimono, I just say that I am, and they love it.
    No offence to westerns, but a majority of them can't tell what is what. That's what makes it an advantage for me. & I do bank from it.
    But not that I don't bank in my nurse outfit, or secretary either.

    It all comes to personal taste.

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    Default Re: Why do Asian women have a problem playing up their Asianess?

    And moments later the kimono would be off anyways........

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    The reason Asian women don't wear cheesy stripper ripoffs of traditional garb and don fake accents for you in the club is because, well, they are already fucking Asian, right? I thought the skin/eyes/lips/hair was enough

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    Quote Originally Posted by Swagz View Post
    The reason Asian women don't wear cheesy stripper ripoffs of traditional garb and don fake accents for you in the club is because, well, they are already fucking Asian, right? I thought the skin/eyes/lips/hair was enough
    Many men prefer Asian women that aren't Americanized. Like the ones that dye their hair blond and wear colored contacts.

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    ^ Ohh ok, I think I see what you're saying. Then you like natural beauty??

    An Asian-American girl with untanned skin, natural hair, and a feminine affect sounds nicer to me than just throwing on a dumb outfit and faking an accent (although that could be FUN, I don't personally see how it would be generally preferable)

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    Quote Originally Posted by (OYO) View Post
    Many men prefer Asian women that aren't Americanized. Like the ones that dye their hair blond and wear colored contacts.
    You keep using the phrase "many men". I'm assuming you've conducted some sort of research on the topics of Asian dancers and their customers?
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    You keep using the phrase "many men". I'm assuming you've conducted some sort of research on the topics of Asian dancers and their customers?
    Just an observation from the other guys I know about what they like in Asian women. I'm sure if I did do a poll it would confirm my assumption.

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    Quote Originally Posted by (OYO) View Post
    Just an observation from the other guys I know about what they like in Asian women. I'm sure if I did do a poll it would confirm my assumption.
    Sure, if you did a poll among your like-minded friends they would most-likely agree with you. The key word here is assumption. I happen to like Asian dancers as well. I've never really tried picturing any of my favs as acting more "Asian". In any event, you aren't going to find what you are looking for in a strip club and it has nothing to do with Asian dancers denying their ancestral heritage. In strip clubs, especially in the 21st century, costumes are not much of a draw. Naked works a lot better.
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