Sorry for the post length in advance thanks to all who read.
Hi i was hoping for an answer from the dancers perspective because I have never been in this particular situation. I would like to first state i was not actively trying to get her number and had no intentions of picking anyone up when i entered the club. I had just gotten my tax return and have been going through a stressful time and figured i'd have some fun. I had been sitting in the club for about an hour before the girl in question (who i will call Jane) came to the stage I had been at a table in the back and moved up and through a few dollars on the stage during her final show she asks if i want to go with her for the promo before leaving the stage i agree.
When she returns from backstage we head to a booth. She asks where I'm from i tell her and she asks if i'd ever been to a club in town, I told her I hadn't which is true, she asks if I had been to the club before i tell her once for a bachelor party also true. She asks if i smoke a specific green illegal substance and i do she says me too. Next she starts with typical Flattery that I had encountered in my previous visit I like your hair your beard is manly etc etc, while playing with my hair (which really gets me going), and licking my ear. Enjoying the dance and her company i suggest vip (which was more or less the plan on entering the club) and she says "you read my mind don't be surprised if I cum on you in there" which i also figure to be typical seduction attempts, nothing i wasn't expecting just enjoying the fantasy if you will.
Now it gets a little confusing for me we get back to vip and start small chat and she shares information about her family, her mother and how she started dancing, what happened at her old club all more or less unsolicited by me. The waitress returns with my card I tip her and Jane jumps on me as soon as the waitress leaves and begins where she left off in the booth. She is sitting on my left leg we're basically forehead to forehead, and i can feel my pants getting wet (full nude club) I make some sort of joking comment after which she open mouth kisses me now I'm confused but I'm into it so i kiss back and this continues for a while, as she continues grinding my leg she says we should get together for coffee and we fit well together. I say I'll give you my number not really expecting her to remember at the end of the half hour, as well as i don't even know your real name she tells me. so more of the same we start talking more where she went to school why she dropped out of college why I'm still in school regular small talk. I'm into the dance as i said before and I'm mouthy i start kissing her neck and stop and apologize say i have an oral fixation (true) she says it's ok that's not a bad thing more of the same continues. Just for full context i do not cum nor did i want to she does i believe as she started moaning my pants got very wet and warm (not sure if it matters sorry if it's too graphic).
So the waitress says times up while shes getting dressed and I'm collecting the contents of my pockets she says aren't you going to give me your number i say you don't really want it she says no give it to me i'll give you mine just text me i say ok hand her my phone and she enters her info i text her (she replies 5 min later while backstage so real number.) While I'm expressing doubt about her desire for my number she says she feels bad i don't find myself good looking and brushes my hair out of my face saying I'm handsome.
She runs up to me and jumps in my lap later after while i had returned to a table and says she's going for a cigarette and will be right back the dj sends her on stage before she got to the dressing room and she returns later after she did a few more dances saying she's tired and doesn't want to go back stage i say well why not do one more dance she asks if im serious and we talk some more basically about basic stuff where i work and i don't remember i was tired. she says i made her night and she'll be in my town this week (she lived there briefly) says she'll call me i say please do. Next afternoon she texts me saying she had a good time hope i did too and have a nice day i respond with something similar and she doesn't respond i then text her the next day with a generic "hey" also no response so just an opinion is she really interested? I have my doubts but from the conversation we had she seems like a bright and fun girl that i would love to get to know.
So just wondering from a dancer's perspective what is her motive. she knows i don't have a lot of cash as I'm a college student and work retail, and that i don't often go to strip clubs. She didn't mention anything to make me think shes doing anything illegal. As far as physically I'm tall 6'2 but overweight (260) and she is 20, local and really attractive I cant see her being interested in me so what do you think, sorry for invading your forum and thank you for taking the time to read this and any insight you may have to offer I suspect it is possible that she read me and I'm a generally lonely person and was there alone she may have read me and played to that In which case i guess she's really good at her job considering her age. Thanks again any input is appreciated.



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