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    Default My stalker. If only I could geo block streets!

    Gosh I would love to be able to geoblock this dude's street without any repercussions. I know we can only geoblock states/provinces and their cities and that when you geo block it affects the advertising SM does for you.

    Long story short this dude has been wanting to date me since I was 15 years old. He was 35 at the time (granted he did not know how old I was as I was lying to get in to the clubs). When I was 15 I used to go to these dark rave type clubs (goth if you will) and would often get in past door people because I looked a lot older then I was. If I was ever questioned I had my lies down pat. He was a door man at one of these clubs I used to go to and he used to always try and talk me into going home with him. He was never successful at getting me to do that as I just was not interested in him. I was always polite to him, but he was always coming on to me. Five years ago I had to make it clear to him I was NEVER going to date him.

    It's been 11 years and he still does not stop. He is not forceful and is genuinely nice to me and most of my friends. But there is something about him that just puts me off. I like him as a friend, but nothing more. He knows where all the good parties are at (he knows my scene quite well), knows lots of people, gets my friends and I into parties free of charge, parties with us and most of my friends like him a lot. He is quite popular. Albeit he is now in his late 40s and still works jobs most 20 year olds work (night clubs and ski resorts). And I do find it kind of weird that most of his friends are in their 20s/early 30's.

    Anyhow late last night I am on facebook and he starts a chat with me. He starts talking about how if he won the lottery he would take care of me, etc, etc. He tells me he saw me on one of those tube sites, watched me for over an hour and jizzed all over his keyboard. He then says that he owes me for that and he will make sure I am on the list for some huge party happening downtown (its real and its one I usually go to every year that happens in the clubbing area). My jaw nearly dropped reading all this so I promptly tell him "I did not need to hear that information and I am not interested in the party".

    Damn if only I could geoblock this dude's street. He's been wanting me for 11 years, and the last thing he needs to know is that I work on a porn site. Now I have to deal with the thought of him wanking off to me



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    Default Re: My stalker. If only I could geo block streets!

    Gawd, that sounds kind of awful. I'm sorry you have to put up with that. If I were in that situation, I would probably just stop talking to them...well, I end up avoiding most all guys who continue to hit on me when I don't want them to or give off that "creepy" vibe.

    I've heard some girls do geo blocking and still do well for themselves. But of course, now that he knows where to find you, he would probably try to bypass that (not very hard to do.)

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    Default Re: My stalker. If only I could geo block streets!

    What's even creepier now is that he knows my true age and still shamelessly admits he was attracted to me when I was 15. There is something that bothers me about a nearly 50 year old man that admits he was attracted to a 15 year old and surrounds himself with people in their 20's. I don't know if it's true or not, but someone once told me he never dates women over 30. In fact come to think of it I don't think he has any friends his own age.

    Both his jobs (door man at a bar and attendant at a ski chalet) are jobs that are mostly done by 20 year olds. In fact one of his co-workers where he works now is 19 and the other is 22. Not going to diss that, as at least he has a job, but I don't see why a man his age wouldn't want to eventually move on from that type of work? He has been at it for as long as I have known him and probably longer. As far as I know he has never been unemployed.



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    Default Re: My stalker. If only I could geo block streets!

    Ewwww how creepy! I'm sorry you have to deal with this guy. When guyfriends I know find out about my job and actually tell me they jerked it to me or whatever it just creeps me out. Dunno why...its just weird. I know guys do it and that's not what's weird to me. What gets me is they think we love hearing that they did that in extreme detail. Its my job not my hobby lol.

    But I did have a friend like that who I met in junior high and he has has been stalking me and ruining my relationships for years! A year ago I cut off all contact with him and any friends that didn't agree to stop telling him things about me or speaking of me while around him. I told them to tell him I moved to another country lol. Anyways he still attempts to message me and contact me via mutual friends and social networks but I ignore him. I guess you gotta decide if the hook ups are worth the headache. If they are then I would only contact him on a need to basis. Yeah it sounds messed up but he knows you said no. He's not a child. And if not, cut him off. For me, it became such a problem the older I got that it was an obvious choice. He was intentionally trying to sabotage my new relationships and constantly giving me sh-peals about why we're made for each other. *eye roll* I definitely miss the hook ups (he was a dj) but I don't miss all that crap. Good luck with your stalker girly. In the end just make sure your careful because you never know. If he has been obsessed with you for this many years I would be weary of being around him

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    Default Re: My stalker. If only I could geo block streets!

    Oh shit, he knows your name on FB?

    This is creepy, and if FB is under your real name (usually personal FB accounts are), that guy could come into your public chat one day (if you're on any mandatory free video chat sites) and accidentally or intentionally blurt out your real name. That's something I worry about happening if someone who knows me IRL found my public chat room.
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    Default Re: My stalker. If only I could geo block streets!

    You can only chat with ppl listed as your friend on FB right? Not trying to be a dick but if he is your stalker, defriend him and ban him? FB is some serious access for a stalker to already have.

    Stalkers are CRAZY by nature - any mild attention they get, they take as a sign theyre 'close'. He already doesnt have boundaries? Report your tube video and drop him.





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    Default Re: My stalker. If only I could geo block streets!

    That has got to be one of the most AWKWARD situations to be in! Especially now that he knows you work on a porn site!
    Well there's not much I can suggest to you, but to start being a little less friendlier towards him and try to avoid him? Ahh I dunno ...

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