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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyRose View Post
    I know its hard but try to keep positive, take a few breaks in between when it gets to much and make sure you keep energetic and smile when online.
    I think it has been harder for all of us. At least for me sales went down too and traffic likewise (im on page one second row)
    When things get rough make sure to do ther things next to work to reload your energy
    Thank you ^^ I always keep smiling. And I always try to have a plan B so that helps too. Is just...I think I can live without the money but I feel like I´m failing and I would really hate to stop camming because I love it (at least when it doesn´t suck like this LOL) Maybe it´s stupid, but also makes me wonder if I´m just loosing it, if I´m not that attractive anymore. I´m not OLD, but I turned 30 a few months ago, so well, can´t help to wonder. Thank you for your advice!

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    DAMN YOU THANKSGIVING. I'm Canadian, this shouldn't be my problem. 3 hours and about $85, only thanks to basically twisting a regular's arm into his usual 30 minute show.

    I'm taking a break for food. When I get back them bitches better be drunk and loose with the cash! Good luck ladies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BiscuitT View Post
    Thank you ^^ I always keep smiling. And I always try to have a plan B so that helps too. Is just...I think I can live without the money but I feel like I´m failing and I would really hate to stop camming because I love it (at least when it doesn´t suck like this LOL) Maybe it´s stupid, but also makes me wonder if I´m just loosing it, if I´m not that attractive anymore. I´m not OLD, but I turned 30 a few months ago, so well, can´t help to wonder. Thank you for your advice!
    I know how you feel,have that same feeling in slow periods. Dont let it mess with your head tough. You are still the same person, noting there has changed. As Chellyinparadise says hollidays are coming.. Guys have to be with there family and cantw ank all day over us right now.
    You are still attractive, I know you know age doesnt matter at all.. its just the silence messing with you right now
    Damn you should see me right now sittin g online: I am constantly redoing my makeup, after almost 4 years of camming its stil hard tosit in an silent room. But it will get better again. Camming always will have Great awesome moments and silent ones. Only thing that matters is holding on, logging in and staying consistent.
    Dont have to stop camming, just have to be ab le to safe up money for these kind of slow moments so you wont get stressed and you can sit it out with your regulars. It will get better again! It always has in the years I have been camming.
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    and may I add to this thread: OFFCOURSE sm kicked me off again while being in pvt with a new client which was looking promising (over 4 minutes in and no end in sight yet) ARGHHH (first one in 30 minutes or so, so thatreally does my head in )
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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyRose View Post
    I know how you feel,have that same feeling in slow periods. Dont let it mess with your head tough. You are still the same person, noting there has changed. As Chellyinparadise says hollidays are coming.. Guys have to be with there family and cantw ank all day over us right now.
    You are still attractive, I know you know age doesnt matter at all.. its just the silence messing with you right now
    Damn you should see me right now sittin g online: I am constantly redoing my makeup, after almost 4 years of camming its stil hard tosit in an silent room. But it will get better again. Camming always will have Great awesome moments and silent ones. Only thing that matters is holding on, logging in and staying consistent.
    Dont have to stop camming, just have to be ab le to safe up money for these kind of slow moments so you wont get stressed and you can sit it out with your regulars. It will get better again! It always has in the years I have been camming.
    I really needed to hear this. Thanks!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyRose View Post
    and may I add to this thread: OFFCOURSE sm kicked me off again while being in pvt with a new client which was looking promising (over 4 minutes in and no end in sight yet) ARGHHH (first one in 30 minutes or so, so thatreally does my head in )
    Sorry to hear ivy just log back in he more than likely will come back

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    ^^Thank you so much! I´m tearing up now, it´s always awesome when someone takes her time to help out and give support. I hope everything gets better for all of us...as you said, it always has after all!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chellyinparadise View Post
    Sorry to hear ivy just log back in he more than likely will come back
    he did, made me so happy!
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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyRose View Post
    he did, made me so happy!
    good glad to hear it

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    Quote Originally Posted by BiscuitT View Post
    Soo I don´t want to open a new thread just for this because I hope all negativity remains here , but I would appreciate it some of you could kindly help me out here...these last two weeks on streamate were awful, and on any other site I´ve been trying. I can´t manage to make more than 10 bucks an hour, and that´s in a good day. I used to be on front page, on rows 3 to 5, deppending on the amount of girls. After a year off, my placement dropped till the bottom of page 1 and keeps dropping to the middle/bottom on page 2, and just getting worse. I barely get any traffic and when I do, they just pop in and out in a heart bit, I feel so ugly when that happpens. I do keep positive, but I also want to be realistic. So I was wondering if is normal to drop that many possitions on the listing after a while? Other´s girls experiences would help me out so much because I don´t know what I´m doing wrong...it never went so bad for me and I refuse to think the site is going downhill or whatever because I know many other girls doing great there. Anyway, every tip, experience or thought would be greatly appreciated.
    I have been camming a long time almost a decade and it always has its ups and downs. As ivy said i agree with all of it. Dont let yourself get down, things will pick up they always do. I always tell myself to stick it out because even though you may be sitting all day right before you log out you could get that one or more good guys that will make up for the wait. It has and will get better just stick with it. And im 45 yrs old on tuesday, and i still do well so it isnt you. It just comes with the job not everyday is great but you can make it the best you can and say atleast you stuck it out and tried. Hang in there

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    Slow ass night on CB. Two hours, nothing. No one wanted to talk either. Like, I can deal with not making money if people are talking, but everyone is just sitting there, staring at me. Should've logged in sooner, I think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyRose View Post
    I know how you feel,have that same feeling in slow periods. Dont let it mess with your head tough. You are still the same person, noting there has changed. As Chellyinparadise says hollidays are coming.. Guys have to be with there family and cantw ank all day over us right now.
    You are still attractive, I know you know age doesnt matter at all.. its just the silence messing with you right now
    Damn you should see me right now sittin g online: I am constantly redoing my makeup, after almost 4 years of camming its stil hard tosit in an silent room. But it will get better again. Camming always will have Great awesome moments and silent ones. Only thing that matters is holding on, logging in and staying consistent.
    Dont have to stop camming, just have to be ab le to safe up money for these kind of slow moments so you wont get stressed and you can sit it out with your regulars. It will get better again! It always has in the years I have been camming.
    You are AMAZING! I love this advice! I've been feeling like everyone thinks I'm ugly or a bitch or old or....just think the guys hate me anymore.

    Thank you for your positive words!!!!!


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    My new lighting kit IS PISSING ME OFF. It looks less fuzzy and yellow, like, great. But it's making me look SO UGLY. Like it makes my cheeks look fatter, my eyes smaller and my lips look like Amy Schumer's. I've tried so many different lighting positions and I still look gross.

    Maybe I really look like this, and my old lighting just made me look better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Serena-Shields View Post
    My new lighting kit IS PISSING ME OFF. It looks less fuzzy and yellow, like, great. But it's making me look SO UGLY. Like it makes my cheeks look fatter, my eyes smaller and my lips look like Amy Schumer's. I've tried so many different lighting positions and I still look gross.

    Maybe I really look like this, and my old lighting just made me look better.
    It took me quite a while to find the right positioning for my lights and depending on the time of day and how much light is in my room, I still have to move them around to get it just right. There's one position that makes me look like I have a mustache from the shadows it makes and it drives me absolutely insane.

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    It took me quite a while to find the right positioning for my lights and depending on the time of day and how much light is in my room, I still have to move them around to get it just right. There's one position that makes me look like I have a mustache from the shadows it makes and it drives me absolutely insane.
    It's so annoying! I finally realized that the reason I looked so bad is that my webcam is too low to look alright with these lights, because the shadows were different than my last ''lighting system" (literally just my bedroom light which is dim and yellowish). My laptop is sitting on a bar stool now, and it looks much better!

    Hopefully it pays off.

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    Couple hours now with only $12... Blahhh. Although I have been doing much better after leaving SM. Not even gonna lie. :/
    . . . !

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    2 hours later and $25 total. GAHHHHHHHH I hate the holidays! lol.
    . . . !

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    Quote Originally Posted by FreakyFranky View Post
    2 hours later and $25 total. GAHHHHHHHH I hate the holidays! lol.
    Me too! Friday nights usually suck, but tonight....not only was the traffic not there, but I got all the rude, and demanding things for free guys.

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    I have been having so many family issues these days, it makes me so stressed, so I find it impossible to stay on cam, which is the only one way to make money - being patient. I seriously need to reboot my attitude, camming does not really suck. I do

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    11 $ in 5 hours from 3 different sites. 5$ of that was a pity tip at that.

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    The majority of people today have been so very annoying and rude
    I even lost it and said to someone in my room you are fucking annoying... after about 20 annoying questions and comments
    I'm working towards a specific goal but i don't know if i put too much pressure on myself
    I think i'm going to have to log off, i spent too much time on.
    COME ON you can do it
    I'm almost there
    I'm exhausted

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    I hate that shit and won't allow it. I allow 3 to 5 questions in free chat after that all other questions would only be answered in private or exclusive.
    The ones that asking tons of questions almost always aren't serious about shows anyway. Men who are willing to pay won't work you to death.
    Quote Originally Posted by pinklemonade0 View Post
    The majority of people today have been so very annoying and rude
    I even lost it and said to someone in my room you are fucking annoying... after about 20 annoying questions and comments
    I'm working towards a specific goal but i don't know if i put too much pressure on myself
    I think i'm going to have to log off, i spent too much time on.
    COME ON you can do it
    I'm almost there
    I'm exhausted

    PS for UTI, try... buy fresh parsely.. chop up very very finely one spoonful of it (chopped), add it to boiling water in a mug, leave it for 20 minutes, add a small amount of sea salt... drink it... do this a few times a day, it really helped for me.
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    I can't deal with the guys who wanna play 20 questions before a show. Once or twice I've been a hair's width away from banning guys who did actually end up spending. Actually I'm sure not all of them are freeloaders, but you develop certain... reflexes. I know I've been camming too much recently when I almost scream with frustration when someone asks me a question before the show.

    Lol, or the guys who are like "Let's go then!" *silence* Me: "You have to initiate exclusive chat from your end." Them: "Yes, Mistress!" *silence* *leaves* Like, how stupid do you think I am.

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    It boggles my mind how guys can't accept that you decline to do a show. I do mostly domme and fetish shows and it says all of that in my profile and of course I still get tons of guys expecting vanilla shows. I will flat-out tell a guy that I don't do vanilla shows and he'll be like 'Okay then what can we do?' And I'm like "Well since I don't offer what you're into---nothing." And they'll still try to do shows with me.

    I had a guy tonight who was like 'Can we do a striptease with dirtytalk?' and I said no. So he's like 'Why?' and I say I don't do vanilla shows. He's like 'Okay then what will you do?' and I say 'The stuff in my profile.' So he sees JOI and says he wants to do that, to which I eye-roll because that's how vanilla guys always try to sneak in. So I say 'No,' because I know how it's going to go. He's like 'Well what are you in the mood for?'(which is majorly eye-roll-inducing) So I say 'To humiliate your dick,'which was the truth. He actually says 'Ok,' and then gets a show where he then asks for vanilla stuff. I was like 'I told you 500 times that I don't do vanilla shows and here you are asking for one so now you get blocked.' And I blocked him. Like WTF. I think they just cannot comprehend someone turning down money or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sovereignv View Post
    I can't deal with the guys who wanna play 20 questions before a show. Once or twice I've been a hair's width away from banning guys who did actually end up spending. Actually I'm sure not all of them are freeloaders, but you develop certain... reflexes. I know I've been camming too much recently when I almost scream with frustration when someone asks me a question before the show.
    Lol, or the guys who are like "Let's go then!" *silence* Me: "You have to initiate exclusive chat from your end." Them: "Yes, Mistress!" *silence* *leaves* Like, how stupid do you think I am.
    So much this. It never fails that Someone that was silent The entire time That questioner keeps questioning, takes me private. Without even saying hello. They are,By far, My favorite customers! They are the ones who usually appreciate My Session and always leave Great ratings.
    The 20 questions dude,Will be left questioning why I banned Him. Lol!

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