Today can bite my fn ass.
That is all!
Have any of you ever had someone get angry oract butt hurt after you told them you have a boyfriend or a husband?
Someone that UST started chatting with me yesterday, and that purchased content asked if I would be on the computer later to free chat...
Kinda dont like lting, so I told him the truth, and that when I am at the BFs place,.I only use my cell phone.
He hasnt responded back to my message, but like, I have a feeling he is going to act butt hurt because I told him this.
I shouldnt ferl guilty though....it is NOT a dating site and I obviously have a life offline...
Yeah, I tend to not say where I live...never even close...some of them are really clingy.
I should make up a fake life story...its just hard keeping it Al together and insync for each guy you tell it to.
I probably could have got more money from him...but it feels like if they bug me to come online to free chat...I need to give them a reason.
I dont mind free chat, but it seems when I cant get online is when they all want me on to chat haha.
@CanadianRuby I have this ^ too and I try to lead guys into pvt before I tell them things like my dating status, what type of guys I like, dick size I prefer, what size I think is small, etc. I see "do you have a boyfriend/husband?" as a time wasting question. They want to know personal things about me and take up my time but they phase it as oh I just want to get to know you. Ummmm no sir you just want to take up my time in freechat without paying. If they really want to get to know me then they can click pvt, exclusive, or even gold.




Uugh, I hate that I can't spend more than three days on my chat site without the guys becoming stale. They just catch on to the time I'll be online and sort of refuse to engage. I can't really do much different, every single day. Some days I have a countdown to a mild free-chat show and some days, I just set my status to "Hanging Out" and let them tip as they request things or just go private.
Just now:
He: "hi bb nice cans"
Me: "why don't you TIP $5 so you can see them?!" *smiles*
He: "i saw them yesterday"
Me: "well, why not again? you're here, aren't you?"
He: "maybe in a while"
Fuck you, dude. Welcome to my night... :/
"SS=stripper shit, in the same spectrum as CS=customer shit, which is within the spectrum of SaS=sales shit, which is all contained in the universe of BS=bullshit." -- Jay Zeno (mod)
"Show me a hot chick and I'll show you someone who's tired of fucking her."
Actually what I've noticed is that men spend more money on women that have boyfriend and husbands.
First there's the issue with competition. They want to appear that they are better than what you have at home. Some of these men actually think that if they spend enough you may leave your bf/husband
Then there are the other guys that are probably abit in the closet but imagine taking the remnants left after you bf umm cums. (cucks)
Now I'm single so I play up the single angle but that brings in a whole other type " she's available now's my chance". lol
It's up to you either keep your relationship a secret or tell them upfront. You may loose some customers but you'll gain a different group. I've seen the assess go through the "why does your man let you do this". But that's the same guy that comes in my room asking me " why don't you have a boyfriend/husband, don't you want kids?".
My point is you can't make everyone happy. So it's best to play with people that "get it". If this guy is getting butt hurt it's because he had "plans".
I didn't have a sucky cam day today because well I didn't cam lol. Still I just wanted to give you the reality that no matter what relationship status you have you'll make money regardless. Alot of the guys that are trying to hook up with cam models are actually fucking married themselves go figure.
Camming sucks right now because they are coming in to look at my apartment balcony AGAIN for the third time and they have told me that they will be here anywhere from 9 am to 8pm.
These people have cost me SO much money by having to come into my apartment at least once every two weeks for this thing or for that thing, it is fucking unbelievable!
Sorry to hear this....hopefully they will resolve this whole issue and finally fix your balcony completely. It is always an inconvenience when maintenance is around and you can't work or if you can it is hard to get into a groove to make money. Hoping the week will get better for you soon
Decided to pull an all-nighter and pvts started pouring in after awhile and first I had to decline them because my toddler kept waking up crying and wanting to follow me around because he does not feel well.
I missed a few pvts and logged off, got him back to bed and logged back on.
I put my rate up at 6.99 just to see what would happen. Guy immediately jumps into private and wants to call me on the phone. SM system calls but it would ring once and automatically be sent to voice mail before I could accept. He tries 3x, but no go. He says he's willing to do a long pvt, was in no rush, he just would like to talk to me while we do it.
I jump on Google Voice to try to call him anon that way, but google is taking forever to load (my computer has been randomly lagging and freezing for some reason I haven't figured out yet. Perfect time for that to start up again.)
The guy got tired of waiting and after about 8 minutes he says "Cmon sweetie, call already. This sucks" and leaves.
My room is still full, so maybe I can get someone else right? but as soon as he leaves kiddo wakes up and comes back in my room crying and I have to cancel free chat and sign off all sites.
I'm so frustrated! This would have been a day of back to back pvts for me had things gone right, but things beyond my control kept holding me back. But then when things are going slow of course everything is okie doke and I'm just sitting there in silence. I feel like this always happens when things pick up either on phone or on cam, something I can't control ruins it. It's like I'm only allowed mediocre or slow days.
I really needed this. Why me? *cries*



Could you may invest in a babysitter? a close friend you can have come over one or two nights a week for a few hours just to look after your baby while you cam?
well sick kids are always hard... I am sure it will be better when your kid feels better
also don't beat your self up... You really don;t know if you would have gotten back to back pvts.... I know that my room is normally fair busy right when I log back in and if I have been log on and off all day that is really case....
If you are sm when you log off it show like your are in pvt first then they have to refreshr the page to see you as off line



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Last edited by Rosemary Rabbit; 07-10-2017 at 01:23 PM.
I thought yesterday was supposed to be a good day? Spend three hours in free chat and made $0. After that I didn't even have the motivation to log in for my evening shift, just poured a drink and said F it. Didn't even get any sales on MGF, just a bunch of paid messages so at least that's something.
I cannot WAIT until Sunday, my last day on Naked. That site can suck donkey balls for all I care. I'll still go on one evening per week for my regs who don't want to switch sites but I am DONE wasting hours in free chat for nothing, can't wait to try something new. I've been telling all the guys this is my last full week so they need to take advantage while I'm still here. And they're all whining and butt hurt, "But WHY are you leaving?" Because, I told you bitch asses at the beginning of April that if y'all didn't start tipping and doing shows with me I would need to go somewhere else but y'all didn't listen. I gave you fuckers two months to start being good customers but you just kept wanting to lurk and hang out free. I told these asses for so many weeks now that I am tired of wasting so many hours there with their broke asses when I could be making a living elsewhere but they didn't like me enough to give me an incentive to stay, yet now they are whining that I'm sticking to my word and leaving them all. Those butt munchers.

I woke up all peppy and excited to try daytime camming. Was on for almost an hour and made $6. Baaaah!
I am on, but I ain't happy about it.
I am ignoring my free chat all day too.
I have a headache and I don't feel like pretending that I am a happy funtime wind up toy.
I will just sit here until my time is up.
Oh yeah, camming sucks because I finally got a private and Streamate frozen up while the guy was coming in.
*grinds her teeth*
Thanks everyone for the encouraging words, I really appreciate it. Camming has been reaaaaallly slow for me the past week or so, I was so happy to see things picking up. That's why it hurt so much I couldn't take advantage. I'm behind right now and needed the money. Praying to the money gods I can get similar surge here soon.![]()
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