


Ive thought about just blocking as soon as they ask but I just hate the idea of blocking a potential good customer. But you are right those guys tend to never spend and if I answer the where you from question its usually followed by more time wasting questions. Like "So what do you do for fun?" This isn't a dating site. I even hate that question on dating sites lol.




^^^ It really depends on my mood as to how I respond. I am not always on A game.
Most of the time(not always) I will give out the response "I don't give out my location, because I don't want to end up in a cereal box" and just smile.
My other responses are-
Get snarky- "I don't do meet ups"
Calm- " I am here for a virtual experience"
Flat out bitch mode- ignore them
Putting it back on them- "why do you ask?"
Get to the point- "what are you looking for?" (as in a show)
With some members that ask- "where are from?" I have been able to convert into a show.
There are some guys that are legit wanting to meetups, others get off on the fantasy, and some that maybe a little awkward- and maybe just trying to start a conversation. Some days it's easy to read them, and other days it's a struggle.
One thing that I have been reading up on lately is how to stop absorbing the energy. That kind of interaction drains quicker than anything.
As far as blocking- I take notes when I can on everyone that comes into my room. That may seem excessive- but if they are saying the same thing or behaving in the same way each time they enter my room I will block, because I can't buy back my time or energy.



^Great info and advice! I know today my tolerance level is low...I'm gonna take a break, have lunch and come back in a better mood. I'll try out some of your tips.![]()





Sha



I just feel very close to suicide, from second row of first page I went to the last spot on last page of site no matter what I do and who before me, no matter thats Im a five star and all green in tech side. Im just in shock.





^^Sis, take a break real quick. It's just a glitch. I was lost earlier then refreshed. You'll jump back up. Breathe. Take a quick stretch. Hang in there. It's ok. You're ok.
Sha






^^ (About the "where do you live?" thing):
I also use "I live in your computer", "I live in your pocket" , "I can't tell you, I'm a spy!"... then I ask them where they're from. Men love talking about themselves so they'll tell you and sometimes that evolves into conversation which evolves into a good show. It's happened to me more than once, so even when it's super annoying to reply to the "where do you live" thing, sometimes it does work out in your favour.
Last edited by Ladybuggie; 10-19-2019 at 11:47 AM. Reason: clarifying what I was responding to
I have to take mental notes because some of these clowns leave as soon as they say something. Thankfully most of them have unforgettable names such as "WantedDeadOrAlive" and "whorefucker" so when they come back I just insta ban. Last night someone had a username I'm 100% certain they made just by keyboard mashing like Jsdlkjgkdslfjgdsjdnf. Ban. Didn't even give him a chance to speak cuz I was NOT in the mood from it being slow. Checked my black list a few minutes later and they had already changed their name to "Bigsickcountryboi". Perhaps I'm being too quick to ban but I have a hunch these guys aren't never spend on anyone...



Is it slow for anyone else? I was planning on staying on through the night but Im DYING of boredom right now.








Logged on, blocked most guys. Logged off to take my cat to vets for an emergency, logged back on, blocked everyone again. I don't know where this rage is coming from, they all annoy me and I hate them today. I was off yesterday, so I am coming back after a relaxing day, yet I can't stand these assholes. Block button is used in excess today. Camming might not suck, but seems like I do.



It was like that for me yesterday. Seemed like I was blocking and kicking more than anything. I knew my attitude was wretched. Its hard when you log in and it's always the same thing, day in and day out. "Show tits bb", "where you from bb" "Lets see that ass" and its just all too much sometimes. It happens to all of us at one time or another....this job ain't easy lol. We're all in this together...if it weren't for this forum I woulda given up by now!Hang in there love!




Yeah, and that's why I logged off. Again. I can't do this now for some reason. All I do is block and kick. I got a pvt on AW when I got on and then an I logged on SM, first one entering was typing all in caps things like that's all ? You just sit there? Wtf did u expect, to find me fucking my ass with my 10in strap on eventually, in free chat, the moment I log in???? God, how I hate those fuckers on SM, I'm about to quit the site altogether. I think it's the vibe I get from SM that it's making me feel this way. Right now I feel they don't even deserve to see me! At all!



I just giggled at this because its sooo what I would think too. The audacity thinking we should just be putting on some one woman circus in free chat. The entitlement kills me.
Aaaand this was just another reason I had my sound off for awhile. So I could take my face out of view and scream to the heavens "I HATE THESE MOTHERFUCKERS" and then calmly return with a smile on my face. *sigh*





I raised my excl rate to 12.99 from 8.99 out of irritation today. You're going to need to impress me if you wanna see this angry coochie
MY REACTION TO 99% OF FREE CHAT
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