
Originally Posted by
Nina_Den
I have, have, have to learn already that when you give them one finger, they want the whole hand.
I have this one regular who is kind, articulated and had already spent 30-minutes in exclusive with me at 3 different times. We sometimes exchnaged private messages via SM mail about our daily lives (well, to be honest, HIS. I wouldn't say much); he seemed to need this attention and listening, so I thought, "why not? I can only benefit from this, working on building this connection".
...yeah, no. Lately he's been sending me long-ass messages and asks me to send him pictures (free, of course - we're BFFs, after all!). I ignored them, but today I finally confronted him about it via SM mail. I've yet to see his reply, but I bet it's going to be something along the lines off, "Oh, I guess I got the wrong impression, blah blah blah, I thought we were friends/you liked me, have a nice day and good luck".
But it's totally my fault, TBH. I should learn how to keep complete distance. Otherwise, the seem to forget what I do is still called WORKING and they think I'm their new lover (even though we live in other sides of the ocean).
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