So in my time spent on CC I've seen a lot of discussion about what other models are getting up to, who's breaking the rules, who's taking all the traffic, all kinds of shit. And maybe I'm just weird, maybe I don't know this industry well enough yet but there's only one reaction I have for this:
Who cares?
There are always going to be other girls doing the same thing as you. There are always going to be other girls who break the rules, no matter how lenient the rules are someone will always go further. There are always going to be new models adding to the competition. These aren't just facts of camming, they're facts of any business. I accept that when it comes to business there are factors that I can't fully control. I can't control what's going on in other chat rooms. I can't control how my site attracts business. At the end of the day, there's only one thing I can control: me.
Because that's what matters. I'm not here to sell a girl shoving her fingers up her ladyparts. I'm here to sell me shoving my fingers up my ladyparts, and that is a completely different concept. So if some other girl is shaking her tits in free chat, that's not hurting you because it's not your tits that she's shaking. Our customers could be on some tube site jerking off to free porn if they wanted, but instead they're here to spend money on us. And why do they do they that? Because they want a connection. Even if it's based on something physical 5 seconds after they enter your chat, it's still a connection. Think of how much attention men give to certain celebrities - it's a man fact that once a guy sees you as more than a stranger, he wants to see you naked. These men don't just wanna see some girl's ass jiggling about, so it doesn't matter. And the men that do come to camsites for that: the drunken broke ones? Well, guess what? They're broke, they weren't going to spend money on you anyway.
Here's what I'm trying to say here. Quit worrying about what other people doing. All that matters is you. Making your traffic, your room, your body, your show, making all of it the best that it can be. And all that time you just spent looking around other chat rooms, all that time you spent getting mad about it and posting on SW? That's time you could have spent making money on cam, or marketing yourself more, or researching new fetishes to offer, or...
I think you get the idea.




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