This have ended now thank you

This have ended now thank you
Last edited by Kimba71; 05-04-2012 at 12:09 AM.
^This guy has posted at length about his girlfriend who happens to be a dancer. They live together and he rarely visits her in the club.
I believe most agree that he's legit in this respect, if a little confused sometimes.
And needy (sorry). This is the one thing that gives me pause about Kimba, because dating a dancer IRL -- and I don't mean OTC, I mean as a girlfriend -- requires that you be preternaturally self-confident, keenly aware of the nature of the job, and extremely close and trusting of your partner.
He does seem unsure of the ground under his feet, which may be why he jumps in now and then with new questions.





I wouldn't call her prude, I'd call her a non-extras girl who does her job RIGHT. You should be happy she's "prude." She can come work at my club anytime!





Not a prude at all but how dancers should be! How dancers way back when used to be and how I wish they were now.
I don't know your girlfriend & really don't know how she works but every thread you have posted in pertains to your girlfriend. Its like a badge of honor for you or something? In my opinion she is a clean girl from what you have said & you should be proud but you gain no points as if to win a prize. Just be yourself that happens to date a dancer.

Thanks for the answers ☺. I understand you guy’s sceptisim to me, as I come her once in a while pop a question, and the stay away for a while. So off course your reaction is understandable. Like yoda once told me “Your questions may be based on simple curiosity but the members here have seen it all and heard it all. To be honest, some of us, including myself, are pretty skeptical when a newb shows up asking questions like yours.To be honest, some of us, including myself, are pretty skeptical when a newbe shows up asking questions like yours. Our "oh no, not another one" radar goes up and we respond accordingly. I think most folks here have accepted your questions here but there are always going to be a broad range of responses when you show up on any open forum..” Thank you Yoda
My reason for the question, I was making an observation on this, as they had a stupid soap documentary on the striper industry her in Norway, and made it look like the girls were solicitation customers, and off course they were filming (with hidden camera)in the club that she works (she was not filmed) who knows how many times they whent there to get one girl to make it look like they were solicitating sex. Anyway this got me curious if her way would be considered prude, as I know some girls go further and some probably do go as far as solicitate also, but that is the industry but only a small fraction of the women who are stripper go this far I thinnk. So in general I was curious if my GF behavior in the club would be concidred “prude”,
Ps. All good things, I am not insecure and I trust my GF 100% but I am very curious person of nature, and interested in opinions from other people who work or know this industry.
Thank you everyone☺

IME girls like this stack hours in VIP.


She may be playing you.... Hiding the money and doing the extras that every other dancer is doing.... Best way to know is to go....incognito
Sorry for inserting doubt, but the environment she works can change a dancer especially if she is to compete in a high mileage club. She may be your ideal truthful dancer gf, but her story is too "prude". I sense, with all your questions about "not understanding" a stripper's behavior, then visiting this site to gain understanding about a girl you completely trust and understand, you are not 100% confident that you DO know who she really is. I could be Wong




^^^Seriously? I admit I didn't think the OP was legit when he first posted this, but if he is then you advise him to break the trust in his relationship and spy on her by reason that she's a stripper and her work makes her necessarily untrustworthy? That's a really cute combination of fucked up, ignorant, and selfish.
Why does it matter to you -- As long as she's comfortable with being "prude" then its easier for her to get the job done.
Would you want her doing extra's and coming home, or even kissing other guys then coming home to you?
Why are you worrying about her being "prude" or not, its her business - is she paying your bills ?




Really??? I mean REALLY? His mrs sounds like me, i dont do the dirty stuff, i rarely get a "sit down" where the customer pays for an hour etc, i dont do extra's, make my money honestly and am completely faithful to my SO, i wouldnt consider myself a prude, and i earn good money. She may just choose to not partake in the dirty behaviour which goes on in her club and that makes her a liar? I doubt it.
''I love fake boobs''
''They're not fake! I grew them myself!''
Why do you care? She does her job the way she is comfortable. She makes her money and gets tfo. I do not compare myself to other girls. She souldn't and you shouldn't.





Kimba, you've now posted over 20 times on this site and started multiple new discussion threads. Each and every one of these posts and threads was dedicated either to fretting over what your GF might be doing or gloating about how clean she supposedly is.
Dude, you don't really know what she is doing to earn her money. Thinking about it is pointless. She comes home to you at night and that is all you really know - it is also the only thing that matters.





Honestly I don't see a problem with this question at all. The last time I checked this was still customer conversation-the place where customers go to ask questions of dancers. Nothing in the original post leads me to think that Kimba is doing anything more than looking for input from dancers in regards to a topic that interests him as the BF of a dancer.








Respect to your girlfriend. That's HOW a true stripper should be! & Don't you dare doubt it!




Lost it at feel the private
Yes she is a prude and good for her and I have told my customers flat out "YOU KNOW I AM A PRUDE".
They still spend money.
And if they don't big deal.
Su Su and Kellydancer - You got that shit right.![]()
it has absolutely NOTHING to do with being prude...she just needs to sharpen up her stripper sales.
when i go to vip for hours, i hardly dance or and never touch. most people go to vip for an experience.
Post Edited:
Sorry I didn't really read the question fully so I am editing my answer.
The only thing I would consider prude about her is that she doesn't spend time sitting in their lap. The grinding is usually expected but allowing customers to not put their hands all over her is not prude.
Last edited by hardnfast; 04-11-2012 at 08:55 PM. Reason: I answered without really reading the question





Did you actually read the post? He already knows what she does and he's fine with it. His question, which was actually directed to dancers, was asked out of curiosity. He and his GF are from another country and he was trying to draw a comparison among dancers from other parts of the world.
By the way, there are plenty of places in the US and other parts of the world where contact of any sort between customers and dancers is not allowed at all...




Im not a prude and i have honestly never sat on a customers lap. Before, during or after a dance. i want as little contact as possible, not just cause contact is not allowed in my club (grinding has recently been banned)
But cause if i sit on a customers lap and he has spilled a drink/pissed on himself/been in the rain/been near somewhere dirty etc i am going to get that shit on me, and aside from it making my wash on/wash off tan come off so i am blotchy, pale patches etc, it can make me smell bad, ruin my dance clothing with stains and what not and then i have to spend my life running to and from the dressing room, re doing tan, respraying perfume, getting changed blah blah blah. I find leaning over them/sitting next to them/by side of their seat works as well anyway.
Plus, if i sit on his lap, it makes it much more likely that he is going to think it is ok to put his hands on me, which, whether i am a prude or not, is not allowed in my club, so i sit on his lap, he touches my ass/leg, he gets thrown out, i make no money off him.
''I love fake boobs''
''They're not fake! I grew them myself!''
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