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    Default "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    Not in the literal sense of the word obviously. This came to my mind while reading some of these threads and remembering how using that line last summer saved my credit. I knew that I wasn't THE best looking one (one of the best looking ones? yes, I guess it would've been THE if I was working in a crummy dive like I did from September up to late January), but having that air of confidence did wonders.




    It is a well known fact that confidence is the one thing that will close sales. Has anyone else used this, or a similar, line before?



    Also, let's mention confidence killers; like a crummy dive, burnout, routinely shifts, extras girls, etc.





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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    No, but I get guys telling me "You're hot/beautiful/sexy, and you know it don't you? Admit it bla bla"
    But I always find it uncomfortable to play along, cos they might think I'm big headed or full of myself.

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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    There have been times I played that up, only when I KNEW I was the only dancer under 30, at 22. But generally I dont say things like that, I like to let my body language and walk show my confidence and that I know Im hot. My confidence killers are when Im having a fat day and none of my outfits look right, my period, and the occasion that everyone in the room tells me no.

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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    Quote Originally Posted by Su Su View Post
    No, but I get guys telling me "You're hot/beautiful/sexy, and you know it don't you? Admit it bla bla"
    But I always find it uncomfortable to play along, cos they might think I'm big headed or full of myself.
    I get this all the time. Sometimes I play it up, "Yeah I'm hot as hell, duh." and other times I play innocent, "oh you really think so?" It matters on the guy. What works the best for everyone else?

    There's a difference between full of yourself and full of confidence.
    People of the same trade seldom meet together, even for merriment and diversion, but the conversation ends in a conspiracy against the public, or in some contrivance to raise prices. -Adam Smith, 1790

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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    Quote Originally Posted by Su Su View Post
    But I always find it uncomfortable to play along, cos they might think I'm big headed or full of myself.
    I feel the same way. Though I completely understand why girls do this and I don't think there is anything wrong with it, but I personally can't do it.

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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    I've been told I am the best looking girl in every club I've worked in. I *know* it isn't true! I'm okay, I guess I'm quite pretty but my normal society's standards, not strip-club standards, not at all!
    I think I 'look' like a certain type of stripper. I have brightly coloured hair and I wear very traditionally stripperesque outfits and don't look like a 'normal member of society' and some folk find that alluring.

    I usually say, thank you. And then I say that I do not think I am particularly attractive, just do the job because other people think I am.

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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    Quote Originally Posted by Su Su View Post
    No, but I get guys telling me "You're hot/beautiful/sexy, and you know it don't you? Admit it bla bla"
    But I always find it uncomfortable to play along, cos they might think I'm big headed or full of myself.
    I get the opposite. "You are soooo beautiful. And what's so cool is that you don't even know how beautiful you are. You really don't, do you?" blah blah blah

    all the time.

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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    I take everything guys say with a grain of salt. I never forget that most of these guys say the same shit to every girl, trying to take them home.

    Attractiveness is also relative to every person; I'm a damn good looking woman, but there have been plenty of nights when I've seen girls that would be considered less conventionally attractive than me making more because they have something that the crowd wants that night. Also a lot of guys avoid the really gorgeous girls because they're intimidated. Those nights that those less conventionally attractive women do well and I don't are also the nights that I end up sitting with the other "top" girls (in terms of looks), keeping each other company because no one seems to want dances with us. Appearance ain't everything when it comes to making money in this business.

    Ultimately, I always try to remember what my gorgeous mother told me when I was a kid, "pretty is as pretty does." When guys tell me I'm the prettiest girl in the club, or that I'm so hot and I must know it, I always tell them that I know I'm attractive or I wouldn't be a dancer, but that every girl we have is hot in her own way and that there's a lid to every pot. So I own up to knowing I'm good-looking but I'm not arrogant about it. Guys really seem to dig it; I'm confident about my appearance but still modest. ::shrugs:: Works for me.

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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    I tell them I am one of the ugly dancers. It always gets a laugh as long as they don't think that all strippers have poor self esteem.

    Most guys say "You're beautiful/hot/too sexy/gorgeous but I'm sure you hear it all the time."

    Just take the compliment and say "Trust me I love hearing it all the time."

    let's mention confidence killers
    No such thing.




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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    Quote Originally Posted by rareaspasia View Post
    Ultimately, I always try to remember what my gorgeous mother told me when I was a kid, "pretty is as pretty does." When guys tell me I'm the prettiest girl in the club, or that I'm so hot and I must know it, I always tell them that I know I'm attractive or I wouldn't be a dancer, but that every girl we have is hot in her own way and that there's a lid to every pot. So I own up to knowing I'm good-looking but I'm not arrogant about it. Guys really seem to dig it; I'm confident about my appearance but still modest. ::shrugs:: Works for me.
    This is my attitude too. My mother was a 'pretty is as pretty does' preacher too. It's always got me more respect than acting overconfident and brash...

    I think confidence has a place in the club and cockiness suits some girls. It's not in my club personality and it's very rarely in my out of work personality either. Not knocking it. Different strokes for different folks. But overconfidence and cockiness will get some people's backs up, where as a more modest approach won't. Each approach has its pros and cons.

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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    I always say "I know but it's nice to hear it from an unbiased source". Or "I'm not conceited, I just have an honest assessment of my better attributes"
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Default Re: "Well, of course I am the best looking girl in here".

    It really depends on his/her/their personality. Some men ( usually business types) want a very confident almost cocky type girl in which case I play it up " You work hard all the time shouldn't you be spoiled by the best!" or "Lucky you now you have the best girl here" if he's a party type just showing how awesome and fun I am works or something kinda funny "Wow girls get naked here and I thought we were in church" or if they say Wow what are you doing here you are to (insert overly obvious compliment here) "If I wasn't here I wouldn't meet charming men/women like you!" Sometimes I get the somewhat a-holes that say "oh so your the best huh" "wow you're confident aren't you" or my favorite "so what makes you the best/hottest/most talented/fun etc blah blah blah here usually followed by oh so what are you gonna do for me" I usually follow it with something like well 7 years experience can't go wrong! Men like confidence there is nothing wrong with knowing you are the best!

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