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    Angry Camtwattery Inquiry - what would YOU do?

    I apologize if there was a thread on this topic already (there probably is and my dumb ass simply can’t find it)
    I am SOOOOO incredibly hostile and salty right now to the point where my hands are shaking as I type this.

    Tonight I was in free chat having a grand ol’ time. I had my first good hair day in ages (I’m in the middle of growing out a faux hawk, it’s been a wild road on the way out of Adam Lambert town and into “looking like a girl again” land) I decided my trip to the MAC counter appeared to be worthwhile as I looked extra polished. The custies were gentlemen; minimal begging and general twatwafflery. The tips were steady with decent privates peppered in between. Then SHE came in.

    The first thing SHE did was introduce herself as another cam model, she didn’t say her model name which was kind of nice (I HATE THAT SHIT). I also took it as a gesture of good will that perhaps she wouldn’t try to steal the limelight.

    I’m a pretty mellow gal and usually chat up a visiting model if she makes it evident she isn’t there to poach my perverted flock. Then she says, “I’ve never seen you before, are you new?” This evoked some LOLs from the custies as I’ve been on the site since 2008 and others before that. It also upset me because I’ve won prizes before and my name has been in the proverbial lights of the site before. Maybe she was insulting me? I dismissed that thought as paranoia.

    I tried to keep the party going but this stupid butthorn kept grilling me about my modeling credentials and bragging about hers. She didn’t seem to understand that I’ve been a cam model since the late 90s when cams were slow grainy piles of rubbish and the stillframe was king. Then she started name dropping people in the industry. She went on about her cam studio and how she used to strip at the same club Jenna Jameson did while Jenna was actually stripping there. The nice thing is that my custies ignored her for the most part.

    Here is where my rage kicked in…

    She told me that she had been watching me and noticed a bunch of things I did wrong and wanted to “help me out, from one model to another”. She told me I didn’t smile enough (which is BS because all I do is laugh my head off on cam). She told me that I needed to change the décor of my slut station as it wasn’t very “appealing” to her eye. (Apparently a clean bed $3000 of artwork behind it isn’t up to snuff) She also told me that I should be playing games and engaging my customers more and for the grand finale she said,

    “As a BBW model, you need to work twice as hard as girls who are more physically attractive”

    That did it, I gave her the boot. It did cross my mind that maybe she was a dude.

    Look, I know everyone always has something to work on but I have a tight hustle and I make a solid income in front of my webcam. I’m doing something right. Which leads me to my question (something I’ve wondered for over a decade);

    Regardless of my abilities (no matter how they are perceived), is it bad manners to blow into someone’s chat and give them “friendly pointers”? I’ve seen it in other chats and I’ve seen other models say they went into someone’s room to help the model in there. I know that some of the “happy helpers” have their heart in the right place but the fucking road to hell is paved with good intentions. I know that not all sites allow contact between models, lack PMs, etc and there isn’t really a way to say it outside of the chat. If that is the case, should it be said at all?

    Here is my thought…
    I think telling a model she is ‘doin’ it wrong’ is belittling and embarrassing. As models, we must put on an air confidence (even when we feel like crawling under a rock) and these happy helpers (well meaning or otherwise) chip away at that. No model wants to feel schooled in front of a bunch of nasty butthorns. It sends a message that the model who is being corrected might be new/inexperienced and could be subjected to some of the nasty tricks and tactics used to see free flesh. To me, it is no different than working in an office and being corrected/reprimanded in front of clients visiting that day.

    Now, a model coming into chat to be positive and say “wow, you are so gorgeous!” Or “way to work it girl!” I can deal with. This holier than thou condescending pretentious wank I can do without. There is nothing I detest more than a fucking “know it all” and frankly, if I ever find out who this knob is, I’ll go Paulie Walnuts n her ass.

    I apologize for this long epistle of a rant, maybe you will tell me I’m out of line for being so irked by this. How do you guys deal with models in your chat?
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    Default Re: Camtwattery Inquiry - what would YOU do?

    Personally I think that was wayyyyyyyyyyy out of line for her. I'm friendly to other models and I have one fellow model in particular who her and I go back and forth tip raiding each other and making eachother laugh by sending funny youtube links. I would never tolerate anybody telling me how to run my room or telling me how to act out in regular chat. I would have put her in her place and banned her as well. It's one thing to come into another model's room and show them some love and chat with them. It is a whole other ball game when they come in there trying to tell you how to do your job. You don't have an effing boss so she shouldn't try and be one.

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    Default Re: Camtwattery Inquiry - what would YOU do?

    My first thought was this girl must be doing something wrong if she has enough time on her hands to go into another models room just to give her "helpful suggestions"

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    that's a guy or a bitch.. i have been a cam model for 10 yrs.. and i have been privy to this crap from other models before.. especially when i was number 6 on imlive back in 2003 long time ago.. but .. I would NEVER go into a girls chat and say things like this only because I never want a girl to think i am there to make her feel bad or ruin her business!! that's wrong.. i am a big believer in mind your own business.. If I even become a member of a site.. I make a serious guy's name only because I want to enjoy a girl.. i never want any girl to feel like i am there to destroy their business.. Never allow this!! NEVER.. be cordial but don't allow them to critique.. sounds like a guy to me.. or jealous cam girl.. but I cant imagine a cam girl having balls enough to tell you who they are ..

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    I've had other hosts come into my room during dead times of the day and I guess they get bored and decide to chat for awhile. I've been lucky that they just have casual conversation and no "helpful hints"

    Some people are just really clueless and ignorant....and the comment about you having to work twice as hard? Some women view every other female as a threat (I hate those kind) and they take cheap shots at every opportunity.

    I'm glad you banned her....she probably doesnt even realize how stupid she made herself look in your room

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaurenAus View Post
    My first thought was this girl must be doing something wrong if she has enough time on her hands to go into another models room just to give her "helpful suggestions"
    My thoughts exactly.
    Shes bored, has nothing better to do than roam around in girls making snarky comments under the guise of "advice"

    Forget about her nonsense...dont even give it another thought or let it affect your groove.
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    Default Re: Camtwattery Inquiry - what would YOU do?

    first of all, your way with words is delightfully entertaining. i lol'ed many times through your post.

    with that said, i would have banned her as soon as she said she was a cam model. i have never had anything positive come from another cam model in my room.

    ps still lol'ing at "slut station".

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    She would have gotten the boot from me at the name drop. The rules are the same for everyone, pay me or stfu. Look I have cam girl friends and I talk to them off site because they are my friends, that's cool. I also have cam girl customers, they come in room and they tip, that's cool. Some miscellaneous twit in my room telling me how to do my thing will get hit with the ban-hammer, and earns top spot on the "pay no mind" list.

    As to her BBW comment, fuck that noise.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosemary Rabbit View Post
    Is this the first time someone has done this to you? If so, I'm surprised and impressed you managed to dodge these stinky little twats!
    It's crazy. I've had nice complementary girls, I've had snatches who came in to self promote/poach and insult me and I've had SOOOO many dudes pretending to be chicks. This was truly a first!!! I've seen other girls do it and I know there are many girls who openly admit they go in and help people out in their free chat (and have the testicular fortitude to think they are doing something fantastic for the modelverse) I had a cliche' ABC After School Special moment "I NEVER THOUGHT IT COULD HAPPEN TO MEEEEE!!! WAA WAA WAAA"
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    Aww, that sucks you had to deal with that. I'd be fuming too if I were you. Her unsolicited shit comments, combined with the fact it's a site you've been on a long time and had plenty of success on, makes it sound like she's definitely jealous of you and trying to take you down a peg as her competition (or is a dude). And I'm assuming your freechat personality is as funny as your Stripperweb wit, so she's probably seething that the guys all flock to your fun room and avoid hers like the plague.

    I think LaurenAus and Rosemary said it all with 'worthless puff of cunt air' and must be doing something wrong if she has that much time on her hands to come 'help' you. lol!

    The only time I'd tolerate a camgirl being in my room is if she was friendly and tipping, or making brief and polite NON-hustle-related conversation, or was letting me know that a site glitch was showing me nude in freechat when I thought I was in pvt or break mode.
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    I've yet to cam.. for money. The idea that another web cam model would show up in someone's cam chat never ever occurred to me. The idea of it is creepy to me. I would say ban anyone posing as another cam model right away.

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    In my opinion, she's either a dude or jealous and trying to mess up your hustle. Don't let this twat (male or female) get to you, it's not worth messing up your flow. You keep on doing what you do and eff those haters!

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    Totally rude, absolutely out of line. No question about it. And very possibly a dude.

    I actually have one of these that I have managed to cultivate...usually I drop the banhammer on anyone giving me "advice" but either this one is a total moron, or is actually a dude who gets off on the idea of being a cammodel (stranger things have happened, right?). I have managed to have several privates - "ooh, I would love your advice, but lets not give away our trade secrets! Here, come pvt and we'll talk about what I should do" and a join in on a bunch of gold shows "can you come watch and tell me what I could do better?". Its still annoying, but hey, annoying for money is fine by me!
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    I keep seeing this thread and thinking that Camtwattery is a new cam site. :-S

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    ...that's why the block/ban button exists.

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    When I'm working I don't want models in my room so I ban. If that makes me a bitch, so be it, but I barely have patience for the freeloaders and even my regs bug me sometimes. I definitely don't have energy to also chat with models in my chat room. That's what yahoo and the model chat room is for.


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    I too get VERY weary when a cam girl comes into my room, especially when I have 60 guys in there and the girl will start talking about 'how great her cock sucking skills are and that she and I should suck cock together'. GIVE ME A BREAK and GET OUT OF MY ROOM!
    I'm always super nice to EVERYONE who comes into the room, even girls, BUT if I get a girl saying how hard her nipples are and how she's horny and
    wants to get off~ the BLOCK button is pushed.
    YOU should be treated with nothing but RESPECT from EVERYONE who enters YOUR room! I'd slap a ho if she told me that I was doing MY show wrong. Go with what makes YOU happy. Besides, these guys are there to see YOU so obviously they ENJOY your show.
    Hope it gets better :-).
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    Oooh girl, you are good because I'd have gone all types of ghetto on her ass. I do not take kindly to unsolicited advice when it comes to how I make my money. *IF* this model really had good intentions she would know that her criticism of you would be seen by everyone so she would have sent you a PM or email. Yet, really? Why would she even care how another model decides to run her room? No, seriously, why the hell would it matter to her what you are doing? Sounds like she knows you have a good reputation on the site and was trying to cut you down, because that would be easier than bringing herself up. If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. Any halfway decent model should know the importance of following this rule, since she'd know how many insults we deal with from customers and how it can really mess up your flow.

    I wouldn't be comfortable with another model watching me while I am working. I am sure that some of you have probably seen me in free chat and that is cool, it is what it is and I lurk on other girls, too, but there's no reason to announce it unless you want to do a show with me. And if you want to do a show with me? I don't care who you are as long as you're of age and willing to pay my standard rate.

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    I do appreciate you guys listen to me piss and moan about this. My visceral reaction was pretty spaz-like because if this was in fact a legit model, the amount of 'testicular fortitude' she displayed was NUTS!!! Secondly, I hope my post sends a message to models who crash chat rooms like that trying to be a happy helper...DON'T DO IT! It accomplishes NOTHING but people like me losing their minds over it.
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    I'd have booted her at the first sign of trollism.

    Don't even bother entertaining these people in your mind OR your room. Delete 'em and the first step over the mark. You're there to make money, not be screwed over unnecessarily when you're trying to work. The great thing about camming is that you're totally in control regarding stuff like this - someone's pissing you off? They go bai-bai! ^_^




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    Cannot express the words I wanna say. Other than what a cheeky so and so this person is! Clearly has loads of time on their hands. Maybe even fearful you are taking her profits!
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    First a cam model should not be in another model's room to "introduce herself". If she's there she should shut the fuck up and watch not interact with a model by saying " I'm a model". Or unless she was specifically asked to come in. Personally once she came in and said " I'm a model" I would have banned her instantly. I haven't heard anything good come out of supposed " models" popping in. Generally on most sites I see it as a need to get customers from a top model or try to bring her status from under the ground. If that's not it then I see it as just pathetic. In this case it was probably a jealous girl watching you make your money or a guy trying to throw you off because he saw you making money.

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