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    Default Any Input ladies? *pweeease* :)

    I'm in college looking to start dancing this summer (summer classes) and as a slim Black woman, would it be best for me to go to a club that caters to a predominately White crowd? I feel like if I dance at an "Urban" club I won't make any money due to my lack of booty lol. What do yall think? And can anyone recommend any Greensboro clubs for a newbie?

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    I'd go visit a few of both kinds of clubs in your area. Look for women that look like you and see if they seem to be making money, how are they hustling etc? You might want to go with the club where you'd feel like you fit in the most, but on the other hand you might make more at whatever club you'd stand out in, just because there's no other dancers like you.


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    Default Re: Any Input ladies? *pweeease* :)

    My friend here is built like a black Barbie doll and she usually works at mixed or white clubs. Not saying you should rule urban clubs out. Try your luck at both. Are you good on the pole?
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    Default Re: Any Input ladies? *pweeease* :)

    True story. The last upscale club I auditioned at, the girl managing the desk at the front had to call the GM to meet me at the front of the club. When she called him, this is how the conversation went:

    Her: "Hi Scott, there's a girl up here wanting to audition."
    Him: (I couldn't hear his response)
    Her: (looking me over) "No, she's not black."
    Him: (arrives up front in 30 seconds)

    Three black women were also standing up front with me (they didn't hear the phone conversation), and the GM told them to come back in the morning. He then welcomed me in for an audition.

    The only point of this story is that, in general, if you audition at a white, upscale club, you might encounter varying degrees of racism. Lots of clubs have race quotas and won't let more than a certain percentage of ethnic women work there. It's ridiculous, it's insanely behind-the-times, it's disgustingly racist, but it happens. Of course, this varies by region. I'm not familiar with your region. But be prepared to have thick skin about this.

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    Default Re: Any Input ladies? *pweeease* :)

    @tempest666 I have basic pole skills down and I'm looking to learn more, but my pole skills are definitely better than my ass-clapping/twerking skills

    @miss_mckenna I agree, I'll do this when I get there

    @ charlie61 I have heard of incidents like these, I hope I don't have to deal with this when I get there

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    Well, let's see. At the black club, ideally they want you thicker with a booty, a beast on the pole, and a master booty shaker. At the white club, ideally they want you thin with little to no booty, pole dancing doesn't matter, and booty shaking is 'frowned upon' lol!

    I think you should definitely check out the white club first.

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    Default Re: Any Input ladies? *pweeease* :)

    So I'll definitely go to the white clubs in the area first and see if they hire me

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    Where are you?
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    @tempest666 I'll be in Greensboro, NC

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    Everyone is so sweet and helpful here, thank you ladies

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    Is traveling on the weekend an option?
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    Default Re: Any Input ladies? *pweeease* :)

    I won't have a car when I get there and I live on campus so no, I'll be dancing within the city

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    I know next to nothing about NC clubs but second what Charlie said. Try the mixed clubs but go in with your eyes open and a thick skin. The same goes for any type of club though. I've been flat out rejected by all types of clubs for various reasons (#1 tattoos)
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