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    Girls are gossiping about me saying I do extras when I do not! It doesn't help when one of the regulars goes around telling them I had sex with him, also not true. I told the manager and he believes me and was on my side but it still really bothers me to know they think of me this way... They've always said smart remarks about how I'm probably doing stuff in the back because I sell a lot of rooms and dances but tonight really was bad. I hear how they talk about the girls that are known extras girls and it turns my stomach to know they think of me like that.


    How do u keep things like this from bothering u? I've been thinking about it like crazy and I hate it.

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    Haters are gonna hate. Obviously you're doing something right if you merit that level of animosity. Just keep smiling all the way to the bank.
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    Sounds like they're VERY jealous of your earnings. People are gonna make up shit & talk behind your back regardless of where you are in life. The best thing is to either ignore them & keep making your money or say to them in a very sarcastic way "yeah, there's huge sex parties going on back there, wanna join us?" then give them the look like they're pathetic and roll your eyes. Then walk away and go make more money. Remember, you're not at the club to find friends and to win a popularity contest, you're there to make as much money as possible, period! When stuff like that happens to me, I get the "I'll show you attitude" and gives me even more determination & drive to do even better than I am now. "I'll show you, I'll go & make even more money than I am now and continue being a clean dancer. So there!!!" You'll get the last laugh....while you're laughing your way all the way to the bank!
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    Default Re: Girl drama bothering me

    As long as management believes you, don't worry about the other girls. They're just jealous. If they put half the energy they used to gossip about you toward their own hustle, they'd probably be making bank too... but they choose to hate instead. Let 'em. More money for you.

    Also, cease speaking to or dancing for this regular who goes around spreading lies about you.
    Don't try to win over the haters. You are not the Jerk Whisperer.

    Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.






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    I already cut off communication with him.

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    You do what you do best and ignore everyone else. Who gives a shit? You'll continuously make the money and they can continuously be stuck in the same old cycle of bitching with the other girls in the dressing soon, WASTING time not earning the money.
    In fact you can thank them, because they're kind of giving money to you - By moping around and not earning.

    That's why I've recently avoided being the dressing room. Omg, there wasn't ONCE where I entered the room and there wasn't someone complaining about how shit their night is, or that there are so many assholes in the club tonight bla bla.
    I touch up my make up as quick as I can and leave just to avoid the negativity. Brings down my good mood.

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