I'm really not trying to be rude by asking this, but I have to because it still seems like a mystery to me. I get there are some customers who enjoy wasting time on purpose, which is kind of psychotic and bizarre and sad, but this happens too often to be the case all the time.
I sit with a customer, I ask if he would like company first. He says 'sure!' we talk. Everything's cool. But he says no to a dance. Ok, fair enough. Honestly, as long as a customer is friendly and nice and polite I appreciate them, even if they don't spend a lot. And there are also custies who are just fun to talk to at the bar who I understand just want to chill, but are there some of you who do this on purpose or what? Do you decide whether you are going to get a dance right away or after conversation? Is it the conversation that puts you off or do you know right when you see the girl whether or not you will get a dance? Just curious.



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A couple of you mentioned that some gals walk off in a huff when you say no thanks right away. I used to do this on bad nights when I first started dancing, but now I always say 'thanks, have a great night'. I even say thanks have a great night if the customer was cool but still said no. I guess for me it's a little strange because I've never been the 'girly-girl' type. I'm very very down to earth and I've never strung guys or other people along in my personal life or anything like that, so when people do it to me I'm always a little surprised. I'm sure there are a lot of dancers who are like me and a lot who are not too. But I can see where some people have been hurt and have it in for others, taking it out on dancers or guys or retail workers or waiters or whoever they can. And this goes for males and females. I guess it's a human condition.



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