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    So, I'm interested in making money (extra money and money in general).
    I have been without work for quite some time and I know there is work to be had in the escorting business.

    I have really no idea what all it takes or pertains to, I have to reference It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia in that episode where Dennis becomes a male escort for older women.

    Now, is there actual truth to that? or is it just fabrication?
    I myself am a married man but my wife understands I am desperate for work and she supports me doing this if I can in fact find people to do it with.

    I would only want to cater to older women, in the ranges of say, 40+ and this could entail just going to dinner with them or just talking or further.
    Is there any male escorts that don't have sex or at the very least it would be limited sexual favors.
    Is there any sites or companies anyone could point me too? Or is my best bet going on BackPage and posting 'offers' there for such work.
    I'm clueless to all or any of this and I'm all ears as to what any of you have to say.

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    To be bluntly honest... if you are willing to cater to men instead of women, then you might be able to make some money.
    And to take it further, if you are desperate for money, it would be better for your wife to escort than you.

    As to the social escort question...may I direct you to do a search...though those threads may be disintegrated in fire and brimstone...
    (Short answer is...no)
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    Ya, man this is gonna be a toughie for you...

    First off while there might be some limited very small market for male escorts for women, it would not be easy or any real money. Secondly, you would have to be in great shape and very good looking I'm guessing for a woman to pay...and then with just social requests...not seeing this as possible.

    But male escorting for gay men is another field. It is actually plausible but guessing your straight and married this would be a no go. Especially seeing as you have some issue with doing anything sexual with these 40+ year old women, I doubt you'd be down with the same as men.

    So overall, I would say it's a no go and second that your wife do it instead.

    Unless your willing to go gay4pay and are young/goodlooking/muscular etc.

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    Yep, there's been thread after thread her about how getting paid escorting rates just for dinner and conversation is veeeery rare. I'd imagine it's even more rare for the male escort market, unless you are GQ supermodel material or something. It's just not really in demand.

    Also, backpage is where cops look for people to bust, men as well as women. Clients from backpage rarely want to participate in screening, and if you're not screening then you're on a short walk to being arrested. If you really do want to pursue it, I'd say look for agencies in your area, but be aware that most will not be interested as soon as they learn you aren't offering (much) sex. You might want to try setting up your own website and being independent. You'd have all the control that way, but unfortunately I don't think you could consider it reliable income at all. At least not for awhile, until/if you'd built up a reputation and client base etc


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    www.conciergedumonde.com is an advert, review and chat board for male escorts.
    www.cowboys4angels.com is a national male escort agency

    Take a look. If you look like any of those guys, then you have a shot at the game.

    and yes, willingness to see both male and female clients is a good idea if you want to make money.
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    ...I want Nick Hawk.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    ...I want Nick Hawk.
    OOH! He's hot.

    I like Ash too.

    Honestly though, I'd likely never pay $300 for an hour of anything considering I can get hot young guys to entertain me for free should I choose.

    It's actually hilarious to me that guys would think an older woman would have to pay when young guys will fall all over themselves for a chance with an attractive older woman.

    edited to add -- check out sugarweasel! hehe

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    So true LoL! I was reading his bio and saw hes actually in that show gigalos? I only saw one episode, during a time when my ex and I were still on good terms And so Im watching these guys, and seeing the girls who are paying for their services, and Im just like...jeez the magic of tv eh? That would never happen...

    And my ex was all serious like...oh no thats really how it is! Theres a huge market for that! And Im kind of looking at him with this...wtf are you smoking look But youd think we were watching a documentary the way he was talking about this whole male escort catering to women business.

    Anyway yeah...some hot guys on there I know me though, Id get bored after like...2 seconds. Theyve gotta have some sort of wierd quirky personality to go with those looks.
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    I got a little tipsy a couple of years ago and called C4A. Of course, the ONE guy I was interested in was located in another city. The owner accidentally put his photo in the NY gallery. He recommended William (who looks like a beefy 12 year old so I passed) but it turned out no one else was available that evening.

    So much for that.



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    Sugar weasel scares me Not only do I not like clowns, Im absolutely terrified of them.
    Hes pretty famous though, I guess so at least since hes been coming in in conversations for like the past year that Ive been noticing escorts
    I will bet that he does really well....super novel idea. Even though if I had to have sex with him, I probably would never have another orgasm again for the rest of my life! lmfao

    Beefy 12yo LMFAO oh the luck...
    That does kinda make me wonder though, if there would be a better market for male escorts, if there were more options readily available...as there are with female escorts.
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    A google search gave me backpage 19 year olds with cell phone pics of their penises...Or old hairy men who would have to pay ME.

    These were only viable options in my city. Neither one are my type. Meh.

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    Hell to the yea for Nick - Darren is pretty hot too - sexy smile - I love good teeth - I had a hairdresser a few years ago that looked like Ash - we hooked up a couple of times and he turned out to be a total submissive - I was like what the hell I get paid for this I'm sure not doing it with you for free - Tabitha those two wouldnt work for me either - I like my guys over 6 feet tall and over 200 lbs - and more manly - those two look soft -
    SugAR WEASEL is brilliant - he took average and made it unique

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    Aye! Bruno looks like the guy I hope doesnt talk to me on when Im at the club....the sort who hands me his card, tells me he can make me a star, on once side of the card is the info for his "music studio" and the other side for his "modeling and photography services"...then asks me to buy him a drink Am I reading that correctly...$10,000 minimum? And he's booked up through 2013...woah. lol ...and Clark must really like his watch....

    I feel you Nikki, I guess because Im so tall and apparently muscular, I seem to attract these submissive type guys. "I bet you know how to handle a man and put him in his place" And all I can think is..Im not even into it when Im getting paid, Im not doing it for free.
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    I think you have to ask, if beautiful women can't find work escorting w/little to no sex, how likely is it that a man can make a living doing this? With maybe the exception if you live in NYC/LA, (where there is probably a client base of women interested in this who can afford it), and are extremely good looking and charming.

    I think Nick Hawk is hot too. But it's been pretty open that most of what was seen on the show was fabricated, (like most reality tv)

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    That would break my ex's heart missbliss Even though he knew I did cam and knew a lil somthing about the industry, he was insistant that all women in porn never fake it, cause there is no way they can do a job like that and not get off on any and all sexual contact at all times, and considers himself a strip club pro, all those women mean everything they say, and how hes had to stop going to one place or another cause the girls fall for him, or muse oer the sad stories and girls hes had connections with.

    He is like...the prime target audience for the sex industry He truly believes all of it. *sigh*
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    Try What'syourprice. Not sure what you look like but if you're attractive a lady may pay you for a date. This is supposed to be for a date only. Then again some escorts are using it too so I would suggest trying it out. I suggest none of those " shirt off pics taken while in the bathroom" cell phone shots. Those always seem to look cheap on all dating sites.

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    man... sugarweasel turns me on in some wierd creepy kind of a way everything about his website and look is fucking brilliant and completely original. i would totally hire him... maybe a few years down the road hehehehe.

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