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    Duh 4th week burnout/ intimidated by other dancers/ can't hustle?!?

    So I'm on my fourth week in my return from dancing... so far I've been doing really well. Before I had only danced about 2 months and I really didn't have confidence, nor did I know what I was doing. The start of this week though I feel like I've transported myself back to before. I just look at the guys and I figure none of them want to spend money on me.... meanwhile the other girls are getting them to drop hundreds of dollars. There are some very good top earners at my club who are on top of their game and they are starting to intimidate me. Last night I came home with $30.... last tuesday i made $700. I don't know what my problem is. I sit down with guys and i don't know what to say and i feel silly asking them for dances. I've been reading hustle hut up and down, but a lot of times I have trouble figuring out when to ask for dances. I know I don't give off a flirty, sexy vibe, which makes it awkward when i ask for a dance. I think I'm also pmsing really bad, which might have something to do with it. Add on stress to move out of my parents' place with working long hours, and i think that could be the reason for my weirdness. I just feel defeated and pathetic today, and I'm dreading to go back to work again on Thursday. Anyone ever deal with this? How did you get your confident sexy self back?

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    Default Re: 4th week burnout/ intimidated by other dancers/ can't hustle?!?

    I just try to get myself really psyched to go to work. I play loud music that makes me feel sexy in the car ride there, and I think about new dance moves I saw on Youtube that I can't wait to try, or I'll buy a hot new outfit to wear at work. But as far as when to ask for a dance, here's what I do. I basically say the same shit to every single guy and it almost always works. First, ask him if he'd like some company. Touch his leg and say really cute, "Is this seat taken? tee hee hee!" then snuggle up close and be really bubbly while you ask his name, where he's from, his weekend plans, etc.... If he asks about yourself, say something cute that plays into the fantasy, and quickly turn the attention back to him. Try to find something to compliment him on. Then as soon as you hear a new song start, or a few seconds before one starts here's your script: "Well, Joe, how about a dance or two this next song?" or if you have separate lap dance areas, I love to point to the lap dance area and say "Well how about you step into my office for a few dances?" BOOM. They love it. They think you're so funny and cute and cheeky. Here's the kicker. While you dance for them, as a new song starts, just look at them all sexy from over your shoulder or whisper in their ear, "One more?" *Bat eyelashes* *Sexy lip bite* *smile* They can't stop. I also like to say after 2 or 3 dances "SHould we do one more, or would you like to move this to our private VIP room?" They won't even know what hit them. I hope that this helps you!!

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    This is great advice...and I do kind of do all of the things mentioned above. Though I do think that sometimes I'm not sure if I'm playing into the fantasy when guys ask about my life. Then it gets weird when out of the blue I ask them for some dances. Also... I've tried getting multiples by saying "one more" and a bunch of other sayings I've read on hustle hut...but it's hard for me to get more than 2. I've even tried doing the first one very slowly and barely grinding....but then i feel like guys feel like they're not going to ever get any grinding at all after that. There like....that was nice thank you bye. no tip. I also walk around confidently and I know I'm worth the money... so frustrating.

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    Default Re: 4th week burnout/ intimidated by other dancers/ can't hustle?!?

    Awww, don't worry, you'll start to figure out what works best for you and how to keep guys buying! When guys ask about my personal life, I basically play into the party girl vibe. I say I like to go out to the clubs, get drunk, go dancing with my friends, travel all over, etc. Good luck to you!!!

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    Default Re: 4th week burnout/ intimidated by other dancers/ can't hustle?!?

    Quote Originally Posted by djezcheeze View Post
    Though I do think that sometimes I'm not sure if I'm playing into the fantasy when guys ask about my life. Then it gets weird when out of the blue I ask them for some dances.
    I think this is your biggest problem. Asking for dances shouldn't seem like it's coming out of the blue. Your conversation should always be leading towards dances, sexiness, fantasies, the club, strippers, etc., so that way it's EXPECTED that dances are coming up.

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    Also... I've tried getting multiples by saying "one more" and a bunch of other sayings I've read on hustle hut...but it's hard for me to get more than 2. I've even tried doing the first one very slowly and barely grinding....but then i feel like guys feel like they're not going to ever get any grinding at all after that. There like....that was nice thank you bye. no tip.
    You want to near the end of the dance by amping up the sexy. Start grinding or doing something sexier (within club rules and personal boundaries) in the last 30 seconds or so, so that way the customer really wants to keep going. I find it also helps to nod while saying 'one more' or 'another' and do it expectantly, without stopping your dance moves, so he's less willing to say no.

    And if they still say no, ask if they enjoyed their dance while they pay, then hold out your garter and say tips are always appreciated for a job well done!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    don't put yourself in the position where you *need* these repeat dances. Don't sit with a guy for 30 minutes, get a $20 dance out of him, and then be disappointed and call him cheap when he doesn't get 5 more.
    THIS so much. I've seen countless girls bitch about "cheap" customers after sitting with them for ages. OBVIOUSLY he doesn't want to give you wads of cash after you've just given him so much free company. Don't be one of those girls!

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    Another thing I saw a friend do is when you're trying to get him to do another dance or go to vip, nod your head in a yes motion while you're saying "lets do one more...". When i saw her do that I was wow, I would've said yes to her! Nodding the head is very powerful along with the batting eyes, smiling, flirty stuff.
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    Default Re: 4th week burnout/ intimidated by other dancers/ can't hustle?!?

    i feel silly asking them for dances
    Get over it. Quickly!

    Even saying something as silly as Hey how bout that VIP? will do.




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