I went through this with my ex... I didnt cam in front of him, but every so often I would talk about something crazy or funny or whatever that happened. I mean dang, he can talk about and complain about his job all day every day, and he was a-okay with what I did (I told him as soon as we were getting serious what it was I did..and at that time I was a full-timer) and I only brought my job up once a month or so at the most, but one day out of the blue, he just went off...told me to stop talking about it, he doesnt want to hear about it, and he doesnt want it in his face that his girl gets naked for other men.
I was like...wtf did that come from? I mean dude, youve dated strippers! all of a sudden its a problem? and he flat out said yes, case closed, didnt wannt talk about it anymore. Once the air cleared a little bit, he said that it wasnt what I did or how I did it, he just hated knowing that if there were guys who gave me money, that if he could, he would rather be the one to take care of me, but instead its all these other guys. I was still totally perplexed...like thats what a job is..you work and someone gives you money. These guys arent my bfs, my friends, my anything...its just a job. But he was still bent out of shape.
After that, whenever we got into a tiff over something, hed throw the cam thing in my face to shut me up...saying that he cant even be openly proud of anything I do, he cant tell his friends or his family, and for all he knows, his pals all have seen me on cam and talking about him behind his back blah blah blah. Anyway...eventually he started apologizing, offering to let me use his place to cam when hes out of town or working wierd hours if it helps me when kiddo is on school break, stuff like that. And always trying to reassure me that it was his own insecurities, that he is proud of me for being able to do this and make money to take care of myself blah blah blah.
Things were okay for awhile, til in some tiff over the girl he was seeing, and he said at least she has a real job. Ill cut out the gory details of what happened after he said that

Suffice it to say, he hasnt said anything negative about me camming ever since then. So yeah, Id say its a personal issue, not you or what you do, but him trying to be supportive, but having some kind of moment where his own insecurities start boiling over.
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