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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    So you spent hour(s) with a guy who wouldn't even show you his ID, spent your time and gas money driving to another city, and had him forcibly try to get you to grope him in public.... for free? Wow....
    Well, I had to go to that mall anyway, so it wasn't really out the way.

    Now that I'm hearing here that I could've (or should've) gotten paid, I'm a little pissed off though. lol

    I guess I didn't want to blow a possible $800/week arrangement due to seeming presumptuous before doing much of anything.

    However, perhaps a decent guy would've paid for the time. $800 just to chat over coffee is probably a bit much to ask, but maybe an introductory fee/deposit? lol

    I didn't touch him though, nor did I allow any explicit talk, especially while in a family-oriented setting (the mall, in public).

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    Quote Originally Posted by LibraSnake View Post
    Well, I had to go to that mall anyway, so it wasn't really out the way.

    --- Doesnt matter...you are an escort. Escorts get paid for thier time.

    Now that I'm hearing here that I could've (or should've) gotten paid, I'm a little pissed off though. lol

    --- Should have. Should have. All the way should have!

    I guess I didn't want to blow a possible $800/week arrangement due to seeming presumptuous before doing much of anything.

    --- You didnt and had no risk of blowing anything. Promises of long term arrangements and hangling $$ over a girls nose is exactly what scummy guys do to get a girl to do what they want on their terms, exactly to make them feel like theres more/better on the horizon as long as she "earns" it with good behavior. That you were scared of blowing a possible arrangement, especially with a guy who hadnt given you anything, or given you any reason he could even afford it means you totally played into his mind game. A true reg doesnt make promises that he will become a reg, he simply becomes one by seeing you, and paying you for your time. Anyone who says "they could be a good regular" never, ever...ever is.

    However, perhaps a decent guy would've paid for the time. $800 just to chat over coffee is probably a bit much to ask, but maybe an introductory fee/deposit? lol

    --- If you are an escort, you get paid your rate for your time point blank. You do not and should not think that your rate is on a sliding scale depending on whether or not youre alone together, or whether or not you have sex. The rate is for your time, not what you do with it. Besides, you did not ask for $800, thats what he offered you to make you think that you were going to make bank. But he did not pay you the rate he offered. He did not even pay you your rate. He paid you nothing at all. Exactly his plan from the get go.

    I didn't touch him though, nor did I allow any explicit talk, especially while in a family-oriented setting (the mall, in public).
    --- I had a date a month ago with a guy, he wanted to go to a reggae festival with me. All we did was hit up the festival, dance, ate, was merry. He held my hand and kissed me goodbye. He paid me my clock-free rate. He just contacted me a week ago to go to another concert.

    I see a guy who doesnt even touch me... He has me over, and over mango juice we talk about his job, the movies we've watched, and his cats. He has like...12 of them. ANd he pays me for my time.

    Our job is companionship...like everyone else with a job, we are supposed to get paid to do our job. I just want to drill that into your mind..its not what you do during the time you are together, at all! When you show up, you are on the clock and should be paid. And yeah, you totally blew it not cause you risked his grand promises for the future, but cause you didnt get paid and even felt like you shouldnt ask to be paid. Thats what escorts do.

    I hesitate to ask if he even paid for your coffee, or lunch or something. And on top of that, I cant help but feel like saying, at the mall? If he actually had $800 to blow per hour, he would not have met you at the mall. He didnt even try to impress you or make an attempt to make you think he had money.
    Don't blink. Don't even blink. Blink and you're dead. Don't turn your back. Don't look away. And don't blink!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LibraSnake View Post
    The way-too-good-to-be-true offer amounts to 800/hr.

    @BlkSharpie - I don't have any ads up myself, but I have been casually checking out the listings on BP for a while. I've never responded to them before now, but it's very suspicious that it takes so long to find someone who will accept $800/hr...
    Quote Originally Posted by LibraSnake View Post

    I guess I didn't want to blow a possible $800/week arrangement due to seeming presumptuous before doing much of anything.
    Is it $800 an hour or $800 a week?

    I think the guy is just looking for cheap action and attention and probably waving the 800 figure to lure girls into responding to his ads. Due to the economy and the attention given to BP in the media there are a lot of women turning to the site in search of quick money. There are also guys looking to take advantage of them.

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    Blech, these guys make me sick. They know there are so many women out there hurting for money that they will ignore their own gut feelings and agree to meet up with them. I'm sure on some level the poster must have known a man with that kind of money to spend wouldn't need to advertise on BP, but when you've got urgent bills staring you in the face, sometimes common sense goes out the window.

    If escorting were legalized, I think we'd see more of the kind of thing where experienced ladies would take newbies under their wing and teach them the ropes. Part of why this job is so dangerous is because so many of the women are young and don't have any clue how many men are out there, just waiting to take advantage of their lack of experience.

    I'm guessing because newbies are already anxious about the whole thing in general, that's why they're unlikely to press the issue that they're getting paid for their time, not for specific acts. And of course these dirtbags know that, and capitalize on it.

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    Don't let it bother you . We all started out new and you learn as you go. Everyone has made mistakes and will again. When your new sometimes just walking out the door for the first time is scary, it can be a lot to grasp. Just use this as a learning experience and go forward.

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