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    Default Re: What to expect during bachelor party requests escorting?

    Most respectable escorts don't do these kind of dates. I know for sure that I would not. I prefer one on one only.

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    Default Re: What to expect during bachelor party requests escorting?

    I know this isnt a well rounded view or anything, but Ive seen the tube vids of parties/bachelor parties/etc...where an escort was hired as entertainment. And while it may start off with her just looking cute, being sexy, yeah doing a bit of dancing or whatever, it tends to end with her getting pounded by several guys in the room while the others cheer on.

    By virtue of being an escort, by virtue of someone booking an escort, sexual activity is going to be involved. If an escort takes the job to entertain a room full of men, it just not would be realistic to figure they just want to look at you. By virtue of her profession, someone in that room, if not all are planning to get laid.

    A dancer on the other hand is a dancer...someone books a dancer, yeah they might hope to get to cop a feel or have something more happen, but they are hiring her to dance, not anything else. So no matter what, she well within the description of her profession, to drop kick the first asshole who touches her inappropriately and walk out

    ETA: I have not seen any escorts advertise that they do bachelor parties...but if you have and want to do some research on this, try emailing the ladies whose site you saw this on for advice. You never know...I get emails all the time through my cam and my escort site and I have no issues with telling someone info, as long as they are established and reviewed with their own sites etc and seem genuine, not just fishing for incriminating info..and even then I dont mention anything that could incriminate myself! So keep that in mind with what you ask and how you ask it.
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    Default Re: What to expect during bachelor party requests escorting?

    I have no issues whatsoever when it comes to escorts but I wish those who offer extras would stay the hell away from bachelor parties unless this is agreed upon. I am not an escort but did bachelor parties and they were tame. I didn't usually do a toy show or a girl-girl show (did one of each and the girl girl show didn't involve oral sex). However I have done shows where other girls ended up raffling off blowjobs or other forms of sex (I don't consider girl girl as prostitution). When there have been suggestions of whether I offered more I said no and if they were insistant I left.

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    I used to dance parties and never had sex with any male at the party much less offered a gang bang.Who is supposed to agree? Not sure what that meant. I did party tricks with the bachelor,lap dances,offered toy shows,and girl girl shows. If I didnt have a party booked behind it , I may offer a private show for the bachelor. I know of ladies in both professions ( escort and stripper/club dancer ) that has offered more. I think it is an individual choice not an industry specific service. Many ladies escort because they are not comfortable being naked in front of a crowd of people. Some ladies just dont have the personality to handle a large group of guys who are drinking. Why should an escort not be respected or accepted as a party performer?When i was younger i was booked solid on Saturday nights with parties, it was a nice change of pace from daily privates and it was mostly seasonal.

    If you choose to do parties in the future just make it clear that sex is not included or offered. No big deal.

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    Default Re: What to expect during bachelor party requests escorting?

    Quote Originally Posted by teaze View Post
    Oh no, this isn't a response I've gotten as a private party stripper since I've never done one of those, this is a response to one of my escort ads in Vegas.
    So someone saw your escort ad and wanted you to do a party? Probably mostly blowjobs I'm sure because most of the women I knew who did extras at parties mostly did bjs. I had heard a story about a woman who had sex with the groom at the party but that just seems wrong to me (not wrong with the escort, but the groom).

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    yeah, please dont be confused...she specifically asked what it would mean for a guy to hire an escort for a bachelor party...not a stripper. Of course a stripper should not be expected to, or provide extras, they are there to dance, but as escorts we do not have "extras girls"....its included. Having sexual relations with a client isnt looked down on, its a given. Thats why its pretty much obvious, if a guy is tying to hire an escort for a bachelor party, what his intentions are for her to do there.

    ANyway, yeah teaze, just look at any of the porn tube sites and do a search for party, or for party escort and you'll see what I mean. That is not a situation I would ever put myself into... Mind you, its already one thing to control the situation you are in with an one-to-one, there is no way I would show up to a party with a group of intoxicated guys who are all ready to have a good time. It just seems like a dangerous situation to be in... But yeah, definitely email the ladies who do it, to see what theier experiences are.
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    I've never done bachelor parties as a stripper or as an escort, but I would think it would be something you'd need to have serious security for. I think no matter what the guys said or what was agreed on, it could easily all go to hell if you show up and they're all drunk and trying to grab at you.


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    Default Re: What to expect during bachelor party requests escorting?

    I have had guys ask but very rarely did anyone seem to expect that it was included,But that was just my experience. Anywho , if you do decide to do one, be clear before booking that you dont offer sex and security is always a good idea. Another issue to watch for is being recorded. Before camera phones you could scope the room for hidden camcorders , but now it is harder to catch them since everyone has one. I always told them in advance if a camera comes out or anyone even looks like they are recording the show stops with no refunds.

    I think another reason escorts get called for parties is that many clubs will not send girls out especially on a weekend night , when most of the guys have their parties. Thats how it is here anyway.

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    Default Re: What to expect during bachelor party requests escorting?

    Holy shit, that sounds like a scary idea.

    1. They're all going to be drunk and probably high (and I don't mean just pot)

    2. Are you going to screen all the guests? If not, then that's like going on a regular date and not screening the one (at least) guy.

    3. A scary part of human nature is the mob mentality. Any individual guy will likely be respectful and easygoing, but for some reason, groups tend to bring out their ugly sides. Not to mention, they're all guys celebrating their manhood, and you will end up objectified at best.....at worst, well...

    4. No one will hear/care if you scream - the party will probably be so loud, no one will come to your rescue.

    5. Being recorded, like someone said.

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    My experiences have not been like that at all. The majority of parties are fun. ( 90% )There is usually one asshole in the crowd - not always - and when you tell the best man or person who booked the party to put the guy in check or the fun is over they will usually oblige. I always try to keep it internal rather than have my secuity interveen - it's less confrontational on our part that way. The demographics vary but if you charge enough you can cater to a more professional audience who is not looking for drama just a great night to remember with their friends. One year me and my friend did a party and when we left one of our bras was missing. A year later the guys booked us again and upon arrival we were presented with the missing bra. The guys had been mailing to each other all year as joke.

    Popular times for parties are 8pm to 11pm - they are usually getting together before they go out to the clubs - not always but often - they have not had as much to drink that early - I find that my money is not as good if it's to early and they have had nothing to drink

    Again they are not for everyone but They kept my income high in the summer when escorting here always gets slow - I have way more fond memories of parties than I do bad.

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    Default Re: What to expect during bachelor party requests escorting?

    That is pretty interesting to hear Nikki.... Very curious though cause I really am in the dark I know that guys hire strippers to dance at parties, but what do they hire an escort to do? Like if its totally non-sexual, what sort of entertainment do they do there?
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    That is pretty interesting to hear Nikki.... Very curious though cause I really am in the dark I know that guys hire strippers to dance at parties, but what do they hire an escort to do? Like if its totally non-sexual, what sort of entertainment do they do there?
    Exactly....

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    That is pretty interesting to hear Nikki.... Very curious though cause I really am in the dark I know that guys hire strippers to dance at parties, but what do they hire an escort to do? Like if its totally non-sexual, what sort of entertainment do they do there?
    I once danced at a party like that and what happened was the strippers came in, did the show then the escorts came in to take care of the guys. From what I understand at these parties are mostly blow jobs and not a lot of regular sex (though I'm sure there is some regular sex). Call me a prude but I am really disturbed when bachelor parties involve sex because I feel bad for the bride if the groom is getting sex. I will state though that in the majority of the parties I did not only wasn't sex mentioned but the groom was so much in love with his bride.

    I don't think being an escort at a party sounds safe because it's many men versus one woman, unless you bring a big bouncer.

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    I can only say what I offered at parties. My opinion is that you can hire either an escort or a stripper to dance ( if the escort offers party dancing) - you can also find both that will offer sex or blow jobs or that do not offer it. Yes , some club dancers offer sex. I do not offer sex at parties - it's just the way that I prefer to do it- there is no rule book - you are self employed - do what feels right to you - they are told that up front my fee does not include sex. I like entertaining at parties

    We get the bachelor center of attention and do chair tricks all over him - like in the club - I attempt to get him naked or at least down to his undies - I spank him - make him get on his knees and ride him like a pony - naked hula hooping - have him lay on the floor and have everyone cover him in money and I crawl around him and over him to pick it up with my mouth or kitty -bottle tricks - ice cube tricks - go arounf the room with quicky lap/floor dances for the guys to tuck bucks - etc..etc.... all is done with much fanfare and me removing layers of clothing as we go - then i stop sit on the bachelors lap and ask them if they would like to purchase an optional show for their bachelor- if i'm with another girl we offer a girl on girl - if alone just a toy show - depending on the size of the crown and the feel for the money i start a collection for whatever price i chose - there are a few variations of this but that is the jest of it - yes security is important -

    I'm sure escorts have sex at parties as do some club strippers - you dont have to do anything with anyone that you dont want to do - just because you escort does not mean that you cant just dance at a party - I'm really not even that good of a dancer - I just try to be creative and have fun and make the guys laugh - make their special night special ( many times the father of the bride is there too so they dont all expect to get sex)

    Yes , Kelly this is so true. Many of the bachelors will not get naked - or will put the best man in their place for some things - alot of them will say I'm just doing this to make everyone else happy now go do something to so and so - I have had them on occasion while at the party ask if they can get more for the bachelor but it is not as common as you would think -
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    Okay cool, nice to have like an idea of stuff like that....not for myself (I dont dance and totally one on one...I cant walk into a room not knowing who all the guys are...I would defnitely run into someone I know! lol) but just for general knowledge of what goes on when an escort is hired for a party...
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    Default Re: What to expect during bachelor party requests escorting?

    Nikki, definitely agree with what you said, especially about the grooms. I have to say that I have done hundreds of parties almost 20 years and I can count on one hand the parties where I was asked to provide sexual services to the groom. However I can't count on both hands (meaning more than this)the grooms who told me I was pretty but they were only doing it for the best man or the guests. Gave me hope in men about to marry.

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    Advice for anyone considering doing these - do not drink - most parties the guys are being hospitiable and offer you a drink or shots - it is a slippery slope if you take one - especially if you have a few parties lined up - you need to be in total control of your party - I have worked with new girls who feel like they need a drink to get their nerve up - they seldom stop at one and then by your second or third party you have a problem -

    Yes , there is hope for men - lol One time a lady was drinking at parties and when she got to one of the later ones she was trashed. (she was solo at this paticular one) The guys called their fiance and had her come over and sit on the porch with her until the agency got someone to pick her up - she made it home safe and got pulled off of doing parties - ruined the guys party experience but she was lucky they were nice guys

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    Yes being sober is so important. I have been asked if I want a drink and many parties and always decline. Being drunk with a bunch of drunk men can be dangerous. I always say having a bouncer is important because 99% of the parties will be full of nice guys but it'll be the one party you don't take a bouncer that will cause trouble.

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    This. I never escorted or did extras but I danced for years doing this type of bachelor party & she is spot on, esp about upselling girl/girl or toy shows.

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    I do bachelor parties but for 400/hour. Im looking for higher class of clients not just run of the mill guys...

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