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    I get so many guys in work trying to give me their number/email/business cards. Most of them live in the city and I do have a work email address so I'm wondering if anyone has any advice (or if there's been previous posts I've missed) about how to turn one of these guys into a regular - or at least someone who'll return. I always invite them back but I get the feeling I can do this a lot more effectively. Any tips?
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    I found email was a great way to keep in contact with customers, though lots of girls prefer calls/texts. The latter just felt too personal for me. In any case, if you can get their email, just shoot them a little message letting them know how much you enjoyed their visit, maybe comment on something you talked about, and invite him to come back. When keeping contact OTC, I find it's important to ALWAYS include an invitation to get them back in the club, just so they don't start to think this isn't just a stripper/customer relationship. Of course, some ladies bank on blurring that boundary, so it really depends on your personal comfort level.

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    Default Re: How To Turn A Guy Into A Regular

    Another option is to have a separate phone line; kinda like a "business phone number", if . The cheapest way to do this is through google voice.





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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    I find it's important to ALWAYS include an invitation to get them back in the club, just so they don't start to think this isn't just a stripper/customer relationship. Of course, some ladies bank on blurring that boundary, so it really depends on your personal comfort level.
    You're right, I think this is my main concern - steering the relationship to stay ITC. What sort of things should I say when exchanging email to let them know this is still a professional relationship? Because I get the feeling that by giving me their deets they genuinely think they'll be meeting up with me OTC, which is something I don't want to do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mariesgame View Post
    You're right, I think this is my main concern - steering the relationship to stay ITC. What sort of things should I say when exchanging email to let them know this is still a professional relationship? Because I get the feeling that by giving me their deets they genuinely think they'll be meeting up with me OTC, which is something I don't want to do.
    Just mention them coming to see you in the club, specifically. Here's a generic example off the top of my head, "Hey Guy's Name! It was really awesome meeting you Friday, thanks for the great time! Come see me tomorrow night, I can't wait to have more fun with you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by sierra. View Post
    Just mention them coming to see you in the club, specifically.
    Do this in every email correspondence. Try not to get sucked into long email threads either, as I've had some customers send me novels telling me about a trip/their day/something else I don't give a fuck about. I find when you're greeting with something like that, or you can tell they're fishing for you to ask follow up questions, write something like "Wow, that's so interesting/cool/awesome/appropriate adjective, I can't wait until you can tell me more during your next visit! I'll be in on these days coming up. "

    Oh - and if you're emailing with a guy who has given you a work email address, I would avoid making any direct comments about stripping, the club, or even the name of your club, unless he does them. Sometimes work emails are monitored, and if he gets in trouble with work over them, that could cut into your income!

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    There is something through google called google voice. It's free and you sign up using your gmail account. It's gives you phone number that can be called and texted and you can set it up to have them forwarded to your phone. And when you respond/answer from your phone its through the google voice number. Just an idea..

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    Quote Originally Posted by milf.since.06 View Post
    There is something through google called google voice. It's free and you sign up using your gmail account. It's gives you phone number that can be called and texted and you can set it up to have them forwarded to your phone. And when you respond/answer from your phone its through the google voice number. Just an idea..
    Does that include a separate voicemail? Considering most of us have two names...
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    It does..never set up the voicemail myself but it does have its own voicemail. When you get a call from google voice and answer it on your phone you have to push like 1 to accept it or 2 to send it to voicemail (not sure if thats the real prompts but you kwim)
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    Does that include a separate voicemail? Considering most of us have two names...

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    When I first started dancing I was totally against giving my number to guys, but it's totally a good way to turn guys into regulars. If they buy dances and we have a good conversation and I think he really likes me I'll offer that he take my number so he can come back to see me. I tell them I don't like talking on the phone (which is true) and to text me instead. They text me when they're thinking about coming in a I let them know when/if I'm working! Works great, and you can be flirty which is persuasive.

    On second thought, I have a blackberry which is very business friendly and email friendly. I just don't use email because my email account is my real full name... I think I'm going to make a secondary email account with my dance name in it to use

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    You need to make them believe that the only chance to see you is when you are AT THE CLUB since you are busy busy busy when not there, just say you are studying or working in the day and then taking care of your grandmother or sisters baby in the evenings that you dont work, anything really that eliminates the option of seeing you when you are not working!

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    Does that include a separate voicemail? Considering most of us have two names...

    It does! And it will transcribe the message and text it to your "real" number. And the app is awesome, I can text and make calls from my google voice number right from my cell phone.

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