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    Hey girls,

    I haven't been on in quite a while but I've had a lot going on. Back in December, I got into a really bad car accident. A drunk driver crashed into our car when me and my close friend were driving home on the highway one night. I ended up in critical condition and in the hospital for several months, where I had to get quite a few surgeries. My close friend, who was driving, didn't make it. After this, I lost everything, literally. I got evicted from my apartment because I couldn't pay for rent, most of my furniture got taken away because I couldn't make payments for those months that I was in the hospital. My credit has sunken to an all time low because I couldn't pay any of my bills. Oh, and my boyfriend, who I thought loved me, took all my money, checkings, savings, even borrowed from my friends claiming it was for me, and left me. I sunk into a huge depression for quite a while because of this.

    I got released from the hospital a little more than a week ago and am back to living with my parents. Even though I feel like I've lost everything, I'm going to try my hardest to think on the bright side. I'm going to start working on cam again (I've made $10 on SM today and although it sucks I'm going to keep trying). I'm going to save save save everything that I earn so that I can get my life together again by:

    1. Getting a new apartment after I have a safety net of money.
    2. Paying back everyone that that son-of-a-bitch borrowed money from.
    3.Save save save some more.
    4. Go on a nice vacation and try to get back to being happy.


    Ohhhhh!! and because I need something to love and love me back unconditionally, I'm adopting a little baby kitten from the animal shelter this Friday (if I can get some money!). I need name suggestions! It's a girl. (and that's not me holding her )

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    Ladies, what I mainly want to say is to stay strong. You all are beautiful and wonderful women. ALL of you. Every single one of you are such an inspiration and I wish you all the best. Be positive and positive things will happen.


    NOW CAM AND MAKE LOTS AND LOTS OF MONEY!!


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    o my goodness I am so sorry for your loss. I know what it's like to lose a loved one. I am praying for you, your family and your friend's family. As for your ex boyfriend, he's gonna get what's coming to him. I believe that you will get through this and there are much better days ahead.

    As for the kitty, what about something happy like Sunshine, Love, Harmony, or Joy? Something that will brighten up your life.

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    Oh my God ! I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm glad you're doing better. You have a really positive attitude for someone who's been through so much in such a short period of time. Use that positive energy to push you through to meeting your goals. Honestly if you can go through all of that and still emerge then you are really strong. I'd probably be balled up on my moms couch. that's definitely a testament to your ability to persevere. Just keep pushing. I wish you luck!

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    After all that bad luck you just deserve to get your future better, thumbs up!!!

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    So sorry to hear about your troubles.. you are not alone.. I am still recovering from a broken arm from 7 months ago... still recovering.. who broke my arm?? my ex boyfriend.. he left me like that unable to get out of bed to care for myself.. thank god for my son.. he is 21 and i dont' know what i would do without him.. enough of that EX.. that was a real eye opener.. how can i forgive someone who leaves me like that unable to even go to the bathroom by myself...LOL... so i know what you are going through.. it sucks!! but you gotta think again next time.

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    And a cheer up to you too, I had such a bf too, they are not worth talking about

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    So sorry to hear about your troubles.. you are not alone.. I am still recovering from a broken arm from 7 months ago... .................................

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    OHH my god !! I can't understand how some people can take advantage from situations like yours, at least this experience has shown the real face of your bf.
    Be proud of yourself ! you are strong, I like your determination to start all over.
    I wish you all the best and lots of $$$, you deserve it. don't give up !
    RIP for your friend

    as for the kitty, i suggest you : Mini

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    Wow, what an awful story. Stay strong.

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    Thank you all for your kind words. It's a work in progress but I know I need to stay positive or else I don't know what will happen to me. So your words mean a lot <3

    Quote Originally Posted by MommieLongLegs View Post

    As for the kitty, what about something happy like Sunshine, Love, Harmony, or Joy? Something that will brighten up your life.
    That's a great idea! I have a hard time being creative with names...maybe i'll look of names that mean this or even foreign words that mean it!

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    So sorry to hear about your troubles.. you are not alone.. I am still recovering from a broken arm from 7 months ago... still recovering.. who broke my arm?? my ex boyfriend.. he left me like that unable to get out of bed to care for myself.. thank god for my son.. he is 21 and i dont' know what i would do without him.. enough of that EX.. that was a real eye opener.. how can i forgive someone who leaves me like that unable to even go to the bathroom by myself...LOL... so i know what you are going through.. it sucks!! but you gotta think again next time.
    Wow, I'm so sorry to hear this Hopefully we'll both find wonderful men in the future who will love us and treat us the way we deserve to be treated.....but right now I'm fine to be single! Hope you start feeling better soon <3

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    I'm so sorry to hear that .When all odds seem against me I just remember this quote and it gives me hope and strength that there will be brighter days ." weeping may last for a night, but joy comes in the morning ".

    ((((((((((((((((((((((((Long Hug)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    Keep your head up.God didn't bring you this far for nothing

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigbootyjudy1 View Post
    I'm so sorry to hear that .When all odds seem against me I just remember this quote and it gives me hope and strength that there will be brighter days ." weeping may last for a night, but joy comes in the morning ".

    ((((((((((((((((((((((((Long Hug)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    Keep your head up.God didn't bring you this far for nothing
    Awwww that quote is beautiful!! You're so sweet. Thank you!! <<3

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    Girl, I have been right where you are. Hit by a truck in a crosswalk, woke up in a hospital with a broken jaw, several teeth broken and a couple missing. Half my face torn off. Six years, about $10k in surgeries and two implants later, I'm finally whole.

    You can move forward from this, Hun. I promise. The choices that driver made to harm you aren't going to affect you forever and neither will your awful BF's. Just focus on yourself and working toward a full recovery. Do whatever it takes to keep your body strong and don't stop. Recovering from a massive car accident is a tremendous feat but you can and will do it.

    Good luck.
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    omg lights, i have been thinking about you too. i have been wondering where you dropped off at. i know what u went through was extremely awful but i am soooo glad that you are able to pick yourself up again. your attitude reminds me alot of myself. we both have the ability to look on the bright side of things even when our circumstances in life aren't exactly the best. i am so happy that you are back. ((((((((BIG HUGS))))))) i really did miss you

    ETA: to help name ur pet: what about RainbowBright? it might be cheesy but just thought that i would throw it out there. that was my favorite cartoon girl growing up and her name always had that zing of hope feel to it whenever i heard it. animals really do give us comfort and i am really glad that you have her to make u feel better

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    Wow, glad to hear that you are on the mend and able to start working again. That's a lot to deal with. For kitty in your situation I would name her Dawn or Morning Star. Cause we all know that it's darkest right before the dawn.

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