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    Default How do you feel about customers leaving pvt without saying bye ?

    I work on Streamate.I hate when guys take me private and just leave in the middle of the show or without saying bye. Every time that happens I always scream "fuck !" or "shit !" or I just feel embarrass.Its make me feel like I'm not satisfying them.All guys do it .Even sometimes my regulars or guys that stalks my room for months before taking me private .I still feel bad even though they spend $50 or more on me.

    I just hate when they leave without warning me first.How do you guys handle that? How do you shake the feeling of maybe im not good enough off or the thought of "maybe I should of fuck myself harder" or "i shouldn't of move this way when they didn't ask" .

    All these kinds of things runs through my mind.I feel like I'm a great entertainer but I also want the guys to feel like that.Do guys leave without telling you guys ? How does that make you feel ?

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    Default Re: How do you feel about customers leaving pvt without saying bye ?

    I decided to think that they run out of credit.

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    Default Re: How do you feel about customers leaving pvt without saying bye ?

    Very very very few of the guys I have encountered on SM will say "thank you" and "see you tomorrow" after a prv...or I will get one waiting in my free chat saying "sorry, hit my limit" (I hate that line btw, I always be like "lying ass, was only in there for 5 min" in my head of course) lol I wouldn't worry about it though; lots of guys just hit it and quit it lol





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    Quote Originally Posted by Glasses View Post
    I decided to think that they run out of credit.
    That's a great theory because i have guys taking me to exclusive for a long time and just leaving without even at least saying Thank u, like some others do.

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    Default Re: How do you feel about customers leaving pvt without saying bye ?

    I dont take it personally anymore, there are many reasons someone could leave without saying goodbye... completion or not! Dont take it to heart

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    Quote Originally Posted by lolabunny View Post
    lol I wouldn't worry about it though; lots of guys just hit it and quit it lol
    Damn bastards just used me for my goods Without a thank u or see you later.When i feel sad about that sh*t i just look at my recent earnings log and it suddenly makes everything better

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    Default Re: How do you feel about customers leaving pvt without saying bye ?

    Don't think of it as you not being good enough, but being so good that they just bust and then leave. I find it slightly annoying too, but hey, the "wham bam thank you ma'am" mentality they have extends to us - I think, especially extends to us since people are a lot ruder over the internet. Don't take it personally.
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    I don't take it personally! I also work on Streamate and sometimes the guys would pop back in free chat to thanks or say bye!
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    I feel like its rude. I'm working so hard to please you and be sexy and your ultimate fantasy and you can't even say bye! Pshhh. I try not to let it bother me though. I just curse hem during my 30 countdown while I'm getting dressed and then forget about it :p

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    It can be annoying, but I don't let it bother me too much - except for those occasions where I am thiiiiis close to actually getting off and they disappear - now THAT is annoying!

    Other than that - there are a few reasons for this:

    - They get cut off (rare, but its always a possibility)
    - They hit their limit - even if they have just been in with you for five minutes, they may have spent an hour with other girls first. Sometimes they will come into free and tell me that that is what happened, but I think that a lot of guys are embaressed to admit that they ran out of money!
    - Someone walked in on them, they heard someone coming - there are a lot of "shit I'm going to get caught with my pants down (literally) possibilities, where saying "thanks bye" could be the difference between being caught at their desk, or looking at porn.

    A lot of the time though - I don't think that it is anything to do with not being "good" enough - most guys want to pay as little as possible for their porn, so as soon as they have popped off, they leave. When you are charging $5-7 a minute, that little "thanks, see you next time" might take them over to the next minute and cost them $7!! And yes, I personally think that manners are worth the price of a starbucks coffee, but many guys don't. And if they are jacking off every day on the site, saying goodbye everytime could cost them a LOT over time. Rudeness sucks. But seeing as they just paid me, and the extent of the rudeness was not thanking me for providing what I agreed to provide for the money they paid, I'm not going to get too upset about it.

    Funnily enough, what I absolutely HATE is when guys finish a private, and then come back into free and just...hang out. WHYYYYYYY??? Go away - leave me to hustle the others, I'm done with you!! lol
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    Default Re: How do you feel about customers leaving pvt without saying bye ?

    gawd i know right!!!!!!!!!!

    Funnily enough, what I absolutely HATE is when guys finish a private, and then come back into free and just...hang out. WHYYYYYYY??? Go away - leave me to hustle the others, I'm done with you!! lol

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    Default Re: How do you feel about customers leaving pvt without saying bye ?

    It annoys the fuck outta me too, but some guys who think with their dicks tend to be pretty rude. Like the guys who are in the middle of jerking off and see a naked chick on cam. They'll say shit like "Turn around and show me dat ass." LMAO.

    On MFC I always make sure to say thanks to the tippers and guys who kept me company before I log off, because I think it's the nice/right thing to do. It's too bad that guys do the opposite when leaving private chat.

    I'll tell you what really annoys me...when I'm wearing a sexy outfit, and some guy in private asks me to change clothes, and then he leaves 3 seconds after I've put the outfit on. He'll go "Mmmmm, that's sexy," and then leave.

    Don't take it personally. You could very well be doing things completely right, but you'll still get guys ending the session abruptly after they've busted a nut. It would be nice if they at least typed "Ty bb" or something after they blew their load...lol.
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    As far as I am concerned, it is their prerogative since it is their money. How many times do you see anyone TRULY say thank you when their waitress brings them something or to the person that serves them their coffee?

    Is it rude, hell yes! Do I like when people say 'thank you' to me? Definitely! I guess I am just used to the rudeness because when I was working in the food service industry I was lucky if anyone even raised their eyes from what they were doing when I brought them something.
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    Everytime a guy leaves a private/exclusive when I feel as though I've barely gotten my show started it annoys me and I let out a "fucker!" the second that 30 second dressing timer begins.

    If they stay for a good length show and don't say anything when they go, shmeh, whatever, on to the next.

    If they thank me for the show and tell me they "came so hard" or whatever before they leave, I'm more likely to remember them and give a bit of extra attention the next time they pop into my public chat room.

    SO, if they don't say thank you, it's their loss, not mine, because either way I still got their $$$



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    I mean, I get what you mean when a guy just bounces and you hear that damn door shut ( or whatever other sound depending on the site) while you doing your thing...I am like "Well, Damn!" ( for a mili-sec) then I shrug it off and am like..."On to the Next One....Somebody bring me back the money please!" =)
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    Quote Originally Posted by shywebcamgirl View Post
    As far as I am concerned, it is their prerogative since it is their money. How many times do you see anyone TRULY say thank you when their waitress brings them something or to the person that serves them their coffee?

    Is it rude, hell yes! Do I like when people say 'thank you' to me? Definitely! I guess I am just used to the rudeness because when I was working in the food service industry I was lucky if anyone even raised their eyes from what they were doing when I brought them something.
    I use to get popped(and still sometimes do by my mom lol) when I didn't say thank you to the waitress. Me and my southern upbringing lol.
    But anyway I think they don't say bye because they're cheap asses are so focused on how much they're spending. It's like soon as it hits 5 mins they scram! No time to say good bye lol

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    how sad( i totally stop what i am doing and say thank you for every lil thing!

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    As far as I am concerned, it is their prerogative since it is their money. How many times do you see anyone TRULY say thank you when their waitress brings them something or to the person that serves them their coffee?

    Is it rude, hell yes! Do I like when people say 'thank you' to me? Definitely! I guess I am just used to the rudeness because when I was working in the food service industry I was lucky if anyone even raised their eyes from what they were doing when I brought them something.

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    I could really care less because I still have their $$$$

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    I like to think they ran out of credit or their wife walked in the room

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    It use to bother me bc I would be in the middle of my routine and they just leave so I thought they didn't like me. But then I realized it was nothing personal bc they would leave me a 5 star rating

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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymous camgirl View Post
    how sad( i totally stop what i am doing and say thank you for every lil thing!
    I am completely the same way! Sometimes I wonder if I am annoying my server because I say thank you so much. (*laughs*)
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    Quote Originally Posted by shywebcamgirl View Post
    I am completely the same way! Sometimes I wonder if I am annoying my server because I say thank you so much. (*laughs*)
    same here-- i always stop what i'm doing or the conversation i'm having and LOOK at the server. I say please when i ask for something and thank you when i get it.


    as far as guys going out private--- its the same thing on the phones just click and they are gone. I've only ever had 3 guys tell me they were leaving-- one because his block ran out one because his roomates were coming in, and the third finished and said alright im out..."

    i figure its just a money thing....

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    Default Re: How do you feel about customers leaving pvt without saying bye ?

    Wait, guys actually say thank you and goodbye when they are finished with their session?

    Lol, no, but seriously, when a guy just bounces without saying anything it's not a huge deal to me at all. The only time I ever get upset if a guy leaves abruptly without acknowledging me is when the show is so short that I spend more time getting dressed and undressed than I do being naked. If I've spent any reasonable amount of time in private- even if it is a short amount of time- I assume that I've satisfied the guy and that's all there is to it. I am cheap as hell and one of the most frugal people I know. While I try hard not to be disrespectful to others nor seem unappreciative to those who are helping me, I understand that most of these guys are paying per minute and they don't want to spend extra time on niceties once they've gotten the service they've paid for. They're paying to watch adult content, not show off their manners. If a guy leaves me a five star rating or comes back in free chat afterward to say thanks and tell me he enjoyed our time together, that makes me feel really good and I don't care whether or not he said goodbye while the clock was ticking.

    You know what's really awkward to me? It doesn't "bother" me, but I find it really weird when guys say are done and thank me, and then spend two or more silent minutes in private mode with me. Awkward! I often find myself thinking, "Does he know he is still getting charged right now?" Homey, the sexy time is over and you're not saying anything at all, do you like just watching me sit here naked? That's totally cool, but it just feels so odd. Like, uncomfortably odd. Sometimes I feel it's nice when a guy simply finishes his business and logs out right away so I can go back to free chat and working on getting my next show.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    You know what's really awkward to me? It doesn't "bother" me, but I find it really weird when guys say are done and thank me, and then spend two or more silent minutes in private mode with me. Awkward! I often find myself thinking, "Does he know he is still getting charged right now?" Homey, the sexy time is over and you're not saying anything at all, do you like just watching me sit here naked? That's totally cool, but it just feels so odd. Like, uncomfortably odd. Sometimes I feel it's nice when a guy simply finishes his business and logs out right away so I can go back to free chat and working on getting my next show.
    Speaking of which, I've had a couple guys get relatively long pvts, and then finish (and usually on c2c, so I KNOW they are finished!)....and then say something along the lines of "can we cuddle?"........

    ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?! How the FUCK do you cuddle via webcam???? I'll agree, and then lie on my side or something attempting to affect a cuddling expression....it looks something like a cross between bedroom eyes and half asleep. Sometimes I think I look like I'm just drunk enough to start passing out...hot bb!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by shywebcamgirl View Post
    As far as I am concerned, it is their prerogative since it is their money. How many times do you see anyone TRULY say thank you when their waitress brings them something or to the person that serves them their coffee?

    Is it rude, hell yes! Do I like when people say 'thank you' to me? Definitely! I guess I am just used to the rudeness because when I was working in the food service industry I was lucky if anyone even raised their eyes from what they were doing when I brought them something.
    Ummm...I always say thank you, haha, even in the damn drive-thru.

    It really doesn't bother me if they don't say thanks cause I tend to have lots of guys hit their limit. I also have lots of repeat custies so I must be doing something right.

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