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    Default Ahhhh! My family is so upsetting

    I need to build a wall around them or else they are going to get to me...

    about my life decisions, about my hair, about me doing this and that...

    it's like the real me is too upsetting to bare, and they tell my other family everything. Nothing is sacred. I want to forget them, but I can't. I feel horrible and depressed, and I haven't felt like this in months... it's because I had to visit them since my mom is coming back to the state but is leaving soon.

    I am much happier without them... at a distance they are ok.

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    Sorry to hear they have upset you so much. Unfortunately we cant choose our family members. There is nothing wrong with setting boundaries.Do what you need to do to take care of yourself. Hopefully you will feel better soon.

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    I don't have much to say but my family is exactly the same. They coerced me in to moving closer to them and now I feel like I made a huge mistake. I am very open with my family about my work and it seems as if it is something that is talked about constantly behind my back. Feel free to PM if you need to bitch.

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    You can go Low Contact or No Contact with them. You don't owe them anything. The only family you owe is a family that is nurturing. An abusive family gets nothing!
    “What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE

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    Default Re: Ahhhh! My family is so upsetting

    Im low contact with my family....mainly because whenever I see or talk to them, they all have a huge beef with me that I dont talk to or see my mother, and all she does is whine to them about it and what a horrible child I am. They have no idea of our history, and my sister has talked to everyone trying to tell them to just leave me in peace, cause I wish I could see and spend time with the rest of them, but first thing they'll do is call her to come over, and spend the whole time telling me tht whatever it is, find peace in god, forgiveness, all that fun stuff. They have absolutely no idea though...so.... Okay, besides my sister and two cousins, I dont talk to anyone in my family at all, so I guess thats more like no contact

    But yeah, I refuse to let somoene drag me down or coerce me into anything. I have 3 other famililes who have "adopted" me, so Im not missing out on anything.
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