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    The last few weeks has been hell. First mothers day I visited town now its Easter back there again. So anyway when so called family or friends hear i'm in town visiting they always come round to be nosy. For the most part they just make sly comments on my weight, not having a job me being a lazy soandso.

    Those who know know what I do. I like to think I’m lucky that they have kept it to themselves. So I just leave the others to keep on at me with the ‘you are so lazy’ crap. Hoping that at some point they will get bored. But this time I felt like letting rip and just blurting out I’m a webcam model and a phone sex operator OK! Leave me the fuck alone. I do have a JOB!

    I’m so sick of people looking down at me. Pissed that I feel the need to shut myself away when I visit town for fear of insults from so called friends and family.

    The final straw came when I was out. I saw a relatives’ car pull into the car park of the place I was going. Hoping they didn’t see me I kept my head down crossed the road only for him to drive towards me if I haven’t moved fast enough he would of knocked me down. He laughed at this. I stuck my finger up at him in which he replied. ‘Thought you only raised your hand to put food in your mouth, I know you don’t like to move otherwise’.

    You know part of me wished he did knock me over. Least then I wouldn’t have to hear his nasty comments anymore. Or the rest of them for that matter.

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    Default Re: Need to unload people are driving me mad

    "No, occasionally I raise my hand to knock teeth out, if you wont shut your mouth."

    Then he might not want to talk to you again, but do you need these people at all? Just tell them to go to bloody hell, like you'd tell the freeloaders on the sites.

    My relatives are not so rude, but when they commented things like I was stupid, fat yadda yadda, I told them: "yes, but look at yourself I guess I inherited it from you, don't you think?" They stopped it after a while.

    I also kept myself that I have camming as a job, mostly everyone thinks I'm lazy and I waste all my days at home, doing nothing but living and shoppin on my husbands money. And I love to play it up! I make wide grins, and tell them how comfortable it is, why'd I wanna work, I enjoy doing nothing, oh yes I seriously can spend all my days doing nothing, but I show off my new hair cut, manicure, clothes etc. I love to see them annoyed.

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    You know I was reading an article this morning about cutting people from your life who make you miserable. I saw it as a sign for me to do the same as I can not carry on like this. The next major holiday here will be Xmas so will avoid coming back here for that.

    Glasses, I can't tell you the amount of times I wanted to slap these people down, but I am too pretty for jail. Its always been like its ok for you to insult me because you are the elder.

    Its Easter Sunday here so wish me luck got a dinner with family later.
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    Default Re: Need to unload people are driving me mad

    Just tell them you have a work from home job? Tell them you do data entry for a medical research company, or that you're a graphic designer, or freelance nail artist, or you're a bridal consultant, or if you don't like any of those tell them you work for alpine access or something. Order a huge stack of $10 (fake) business cards, put up a free website using wix.com, and if you really want to look legit buy a $10/year domain name, and then people will shut the fuck up. All for $20 and like an hour or two or your time.

    Everyone I know either knows what I do or they think I'm a freelance makeup artist (which I stopped last year) because I did that for years, am good at it, and it looks/seems like a legit business... because it was one. They are none the wiser. And I wouldn't care if everyone knew what I did, but I don't want to deal with the drama that older generations, religious people, and jealous people would *try* to put me through.

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    If you really care what these people think of you, then make something up so that they won't question whether you're working or not. Glamour gave some really good suggestions(love the business card suggestion). I tell my immediate family that I'm a personal assistant for this girl I know who runs a boutique. That way it seems like a one of a kind job. I've found that if I make the job seem to easy then they start asking me how they can do it as well. Then I have no answer to give them. So since a person generally only needs one personal assistant, they believe me.

    But I would really have a hard time caring what people who call me "lazy and fat" think. I see you're in the UK and I know for a fact that their economy isn't too much better than ours. So how does not having a job equate to laziness? For all they know, you could be relentlessly searching for a job every single day to no avail and just simply can't find one. I know people who are doing this. It's not far-fetched at all. Also, clearly you still have money and you haven't become anyone's burden, so why would they care what you do? You aren't asking them for money.

    I hit rock bottom a few years ago. I went from a job as a financial planner making really good money to getting an unemployment check of $450/week. Barely a third of what I was making. Nobody lifted a finger to help me except my immediate family (mom, dad, grandparents, sister, brother). Everyone else kind of just stood back and watched me self destruct. So now that i'm back on top, I don't give a damn what anyone outside that circle of people think of me. People who do the least usually have the most to say. Would these people help you if you were in a bind? Clearly not. Because they think you're unemployed now and they're not doing anything to help except make fun of you. So I wouldn't worry about what they say. I don't even know that they're worthy of a "fake" career explanation. I would just live my life and do what makes me happy.

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    Well?? you could do what I did recently to someone who was around me when I was going through an extremely difficult time ( who mind you called me names and put me down more)..this person reared their ugly head.. and I said straight to their face.. GO AWAY leave me alone and don't come here again.. YOU DONT KNOW HOW TO TREAT HUMAN BEINGS!!.. lol...that's what i do.. because those nasty people always come back into your life til you tell them to go to hell! I have been a doormat my whole life so they expect me to be nice to them.. no matter what they call me or do.. so they have been shocked lately.. I think at 39 i am finally taking charge and not putting up with gutter trash anymore.. cuz that's what people like that are. NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU!!!

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