Just another update, as it turns out he was a selfish piece of shit who was leading me on.
I noticed that, instead of the "relationship" naturally progressing, he was showing me less and less affection. On my side, I was doing most of the work: inviting him over for dinner several nights a week, making sure I looked nice and WASTING all of my makeup and perfume on him
When I pressed him, he finally admitted to me that he wasn't physically attracted to me, and that he knew that early on but we were having such a lovely time that he didn't think it was important to tell me. Instead, he reassured me that he was attracted to me, that he thought I was "perfect", and that he knew sex would happen at the right time, etc. He claimed that me camming had nothing to do with how he felt. I'm not sure if I agree or not, but does it matter? He knew what my intentions were, he knew that I liked him and that if he told me from the beginning that he was seeking friendship, I wouldn't have fed the bastard. He was getting something out of it; he was using me for my awesome cooking.
I can only imagine what life would have been like for me if I moved in with him without knowing this...disastrous. He was probably looking for a maid that would also help him out with rent! Be careful of con artists ladies

He was a great deceiver, nothing more.
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