I've got a long term regular (from the strip club) who has mentioned moving things towards a sugar daddy relationship. Now he knows I won't sleep with him or have any sexual relationship, however has mentioned that he wants dinners, days away etc..
So how exactly do I negotiate the money, whilst still pretending that I enjoy his company? I was thinking of going around the angle that in order to spend time with him I will need to take a night off work but what exactly should I say and how much should I be asking for??



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Something I keep reading over and again is the person who doesnt give a number first is the one with the negotiating power. Id tell him that on an average night I make..then give a huge range with your lower end range being the absolute minimum you would want. (ex: Well, I make anywhere from $1000-$2000night) That still leaves him to come up with the number, but at least he has a scale to pick from, and will likely go middle of the range you gave him. (ex: okay how does $1500 sound?) Then instead of taking his first offer, you can assume hes going with the absolute min hed like to pay, so pick a slightly higher number than that. (ex: $1700 would be wonderful)
Just using it as an example...)

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