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    Default Sugar Daddy - How to negotiate rates?

    I've got a long term regular (from the strip club) who has mentioned moving things towards a sugar daddy relationship. Now he knows I won't sleep with him or have any sexual relationship, however has mentioned that he wants dinners, days away etc..

    So how exactly do I negotiate the money, whilst still pretending that I enjoy his company? I was thinking of going around the angle that in order to spend time with him I will need to take a night off work but what exactly should I say and how much should I be asking for??
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    Quote Originally Posted by aussiebelle View Post
    I was thinking of going around the angle that in order to spend time with him I will need to take a night off work but what exactly should I say and how much should I be asking for??
    You've got it! Since he's not only a long-term regular but also the one who brought up the sugar daddy potential, he probably knows how the game works. In any case, next time he brings it up or makes an invitation to go OTC, tell him that you normally work on that day but would rather spend the time with him provided he was able to compensate you for you time as he knows how expensive your tuition/rent/whatever you two have previously discussed is, and you just can't afford to take time off work otherwise.

    As for money... You know his spending and disposable income best. What's the most you think he could afford without balking at the total? Go a bit over that so you have room to negotiate down. Has he mentioned any numbers when he's brought up wanting to be your sugar daddy?

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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy - How to negotiate rates?

    Ive been doing a lot of reading on job interviews so bear with me Something I keep reading over and again is the person who doesnt give a number first is the one with the negotiating power. Id tell him that on an average night I make..then give a huge range with your lower end range being the absolute minimum you would want. (ex: Well, I make anywhere from $1000-$2000night) That still leaves him to come up with the number, but at least he has a scale to pick from, and will likely go middle of the range you gave him. (ex: okay how does $1500 sound?) Then instead of taking his first offer, you can assume hes going with the absolute min hed like to pay, so pick a slightly higher number than that. (ex: $1700 would be wonderful)

    BTW, I have no idea the average amount a stripper makes per night, so please dont laugh at my numbers... Just using it as an example...)
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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy - How to negotiate rates?

    Thanks girls. I'm just hoping he realises exactly how much I usually make in a night and doesn't think a few hundred $$ and an expensive meal/wine/his company/etc is enough. Also hope I don't come off and a gold digging bitch. In the club, it's easy because there are set prices :-/ He was the one to push it and mention a sugar daddy relationship though so I guess he must at least have some idea of what I'm wanting.
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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy - How to negotiate rates?

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiebelle View Post
    In the club, it's easy because there are set prices :-/
    Considering your relationship has been strictly ITC up til now, that means he is aware of those, and that will probably make it easier for you to negotiate a higher rate without him thinking you're BSing him about how much you make.

    Just like when you're selling VIP rooms, above all it is most important to believe in the product and be confident in the price you're demanding.

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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy - How to negotiate rates?

    " I usually average roughly XYZ in a night and I'd love to go out on the town .... I just need close to that amount to not work Friday ".
    ^ This is how things started with my sugar daddy. He would basically just pay me to not work.

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