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    Default Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    several guys have asked about videoing. i'm ok with it as long a my face in not in view. i don't want the video posted on some website without viewing it first. i don't want to lose a client by not videoing.

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    I personally would not allow that. You have no control over what they choose to do with it. Just my opinion.

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    I agree with Nikki.

    It is almost a *guarantee* that it WILL be shared with others, along with your escort name. If some stalker figures out your real name, that will be linked too. Do you REALLY trust some trick to not "accidently" get a shot of your face? He'd probably say, "Oh wait, it wasn't recording yet". Then he'd start a new recording and show you the second one to "prove" he didn't show your face. Most of these guys are lying and cheating on an S.O., so why do you think he'll be honest with you?
    It is extremely rare for an escort to allow a client to video a session, so why are you considering it? Don't trust clients to have your best interests in mind.

    Don't be so worried about missing out on one client because you don't want to be on video. There are plenty of men out there who want to see escorts, so be picky about who you see - for your own safety.

    Edited to add: They are asking because you are "new" and they think you won't know any better. These guys know that most experienced ladies won't allow this.

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    Do not ever send pictures or videos that reveal your identity ever. I learned the hard way. Trust noone.

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    Roast, please don't call them tricks. That's streetwalker talk.

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    It depends.

    I've let customers take pictures of me in plain clothes. No sexual posing or anything with them in it.

    Those pictures wouldn't reveal what I was doing, the pictures are suitable for facebook or even framing in my son's bedroom. They are literally just pictures of me standing there. If they want a picture like that, sure, otherwise GTFO.
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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    Sorry even then I don't trust these guys with pictures of me. If someone wanted to hire a hit man to kill you all that client has to do is show them your pic. Did you read about what happened with Amy Taylor and the owner of TER? Think about it. Keep your real identity and your fantasy identity separate. The smart ones crop and blur their face for a reason. Heck I advise cropping your whole head off or using your hair to cover your face in a very seductive way. Do not ever trust any of these guys with your pictures if you're in the sex industry. It may be a little extreme but these guys are paying for it for a reason. If they can't honor their marriage vows (most of them are married) - how and why do you think they'll honor you? Seriously be careful out there. I used to show my face as an escort and it came back and bit my ass. A guy I was in love with stopped talking to me completely because of it. That is not the worst that could have happend. Just. Don't. Do. It.

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    Also be very careful with outcalls and webcams/computers in the
    bedroom. Don't ever believe them if they say it isn't recording. I learned that one the hard way. =/

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    Quote Originally Posted by yellowrose25 View Post
    Also be very careful with outcalls and webcams/computers in the
    bedroom. Don't ever believe them if they say it isn't recording. I learned that one the hard way. =/
    I have a camera detector on my keychain. Every girl should have one. Even if a camera is off , it'll detect it.

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    I get requests for it from time to time to the points it is now on my FAQ page as something I do not allow. if your will to do it your best bet is to have your own camera ready to go for these requests. you have more control of what happens with the video if you have all the equipment. and then charge extra fee for it.

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    I say no.

    If someone wants to see me again, they are going to have to pay my time to make it happen.

    Instead of take a picture, itll last longer...I go with the bring more money, itll last longer philosophy.
    Don't blink. Don't even blink. Blink and you're dead. Don't turn your back. Don't look away. And don't blink!

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    yellowrose this is so true - watch for them trying to "position " you in a certain spot -

    Lovely - I had never heard of that - brilliant suggestion - where did you find it?

    check this out www.realpunting.com I found it on webcams411 it is UK based but I'm sure there is a US equivalent

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    Yeah, those look like amateur photoshoots, but at the same time..with them posing and such, I think the photos were planned. Now, I have many times while on cam come across guys that arbitrarily send me photos of themselves with escorts (while trying to tell me they were thinking of me the whole time they were with her...ooookay) One guy would just snap away with his cell phone and send it to my email. I dropped him, partly cause I thought it was pretty crappy that he was doing that, partly cause they all looked like they were on crack and I was like...she makes you think of me?!! Insult much?!

    Anyway, there was a thing about some guy in vegas secretly taping escorts and dancers hed bring back to his room. You could clearly tell that the girl had absolutely no idea she was being taped. Stuff like that does freak me out, and also curious about the detection device...
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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    There was a comment on the side that made me think some of the vids were submitted by clients- I should have looked at it more before i posted it

    I'm sure it happens more than we want to know

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    This is the one I have. A guy that has nothing to hide doesn't mind you using it.
    The guys I have seen are actually very impressed that I take this extra step.

    A lot of high end escorts use it as well. If you are a member of some escort community boards you will see there have been discussions about it.

    More info:

    The Camera Finder reveals the presence of any camera, Wired or wireless, even if the power is off.
    Portable, the size of a Bic Lighter to fit in your pocket.
    Just look through the viewfinder and press the button. Any Hidden Camera is illuminated and its position revealed.

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    Excellent!! Thanks so much...will have to order one pronto
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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    Whether it be explicit video or face pictures, if you don't want them shared trust NO ONE. There are hobbyist boards with hidden sections that encourage guys to post and share private pictures of escorts.

    It is not just the customers you have to be concerned about either. I can think of several instances where ladies have shared private face pictures of other escorts with clients. If you don't want it "out there" you've got to be wary and careful with everyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post

    This is the one I have. A guy that has nothing to hide doesn't mind you using it.
    The guys I have seen are actually very impressed that I take this extra step.

    A lot of high end escorts use it as well. If you are a member of some escort community boards you will see there have been discussions about it.

    More info:

    The Camera Finder reveals the presence of any camera, Wired or wireless, even if the power is off.
    Portable, the size of a Bic Lighter to fit in your pocket.
    Just look through the viewfinder and press the button. Any Hidden Camera is illuminated and its position revealed.
    That's so neat! A must have for every escort. I am curious though, do you use it with first time clients only or every time you see repeat clients as well?

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    I would absolutely not allow a client to take video. The only person I have ever let take a pic of me in this biz is a club regular that had been my sugar daddy for over a year before I agreed. And even then, it was an innocent face pic in a restaurant, nothing strip club-ish. If you let a guy videotape it, it's not a matter of how to stop him sharing it, it's more a case of you should PRESUME he's going to share it. If I was ever going to do that, I'd tack on a HUGE fee, based on the fact that I was effectively making some kind of amateur distributable porn movie.

    Love that camera-finder!! Do you just get it out when you arrive and let the client know you need to do a quick camera search?


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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    Quote Originally Posted by Monisha View Post
    That's so neat! A must have for every escort. I am curious though, do you use it with first time clients only or every time you see repeat clients as well?
    First two visits only (but don't tell the guys that). I try to scan the room when he's not looking but to be honest, I've had sessions where I knew he wasn't going to turn away and I would just pull it out and scan the room. We would both just giggle and joke about it. The guys will appreciate you that you take extra steps to ensure your security.

    How did I find this? One of my crazy girlfriends was talking about putting a tracking device on her boyfriend's car. I asked her where she was getting such device from and she sent me the website. I scanned the website and found the camera detector among other cool toys and thought it would be great for outcall appointments. I then did a search on an escort board and saw that more than a handful of escort use it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post
    First two visits only (but don't tell the guys that). I try to scan the room when he's not looking but to be honest, I've had sessions where I knew he wasn't going to turn away and I would just pull it out and scan the room. We would both just giggle and joke about it. The guys will appreciate you that you take extra steps to ensure your security.
    Lovelyme - have you found hidden cameras? did you cancel the session?

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    ok, this is where I'm insane. I do allow photo and video. but with restrictions. I have restrictions based on privacy (what of me can and cannot show) and a minimum time amount for the appointment as well as an extra $$$ per hour - so in the end, it's like getting four times my rate. If you want my specifics I'll share over PM but not here

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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    The reality is that if you go to a location and meet someone they can videotape you. Even if they meet you in your home/hotel they can videotape you. Cell phones and hidden cameras that are cheap and easily available make this the unfortunate reality. People can have hidden cameras in glasses, buttons, pins, pens, etc.

    So unfortunately you have to accept that someone can videotape you. It IS illegal, it is a felony (especially if you are nude/don't consent) and they distribute it/share it, but it happens. If you ever find out about the video you can report it to LE and they will take action, but illegal videotaping is hard to reverse once the damage is done. The good news is that some states have laws preventing hidden videotape/audio (like a wire, hidden camera) from being used in court to incriminate you. It is also unlikely the person would videotape themselves doing something incriminating so the videotape would likely be edited to exclude a monetary exchange for sex, for example. So if you did find the video and report it to LE it is doubtful you would be prosecuted if there was "evidence" of sexual favors for money. Although some laws do not have these states, so it's important to find out about your specific state.
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    Default Re: Escorts - how do you handle picture or video requests?

    Thank you so much for that camera finder thing!! That should be added to must have lists for everyone!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laurisa View Post
    The reality is that if you go to a location and meet someone they can videotape you. Even if they meet you in your home/hotel they can videotape you. Cell phones and hidden cameras that are cheap and easily available make this the unfortunate reality. People can have hidden cameras in glasses, buttons, pins, pens, etc.

    So unfortunately you have to accept that someone can videotape you. It IS illegal, it is a felony (especially if you are nude/don't consent) and they distribute it/share it, but it happens. If you ever find out about the video you can report it to LE and they will take action, but illegal videotaping is hard to reverse once the damage is done. The good news is that some states have laws preventing hidden videotape/audio (like a wire, hidden camera) from being used in court to incriminate you. It is also unlikely the person would videotape themselves doing something incriminating so the videotape would likely be edited to exclude a monetary exchange for sex, for example. So if you did find the video and report it to LE it is doubtful you would be prosecuted if there was "evidence" of sexual favors for money. Although some laws do not have these states, so it's important to find out about your specific state.
    Yes. I understand that. However, I don't care if a client videotaped me at a restaurant, mall, in the car, hell I don't care if he caught me on tape cursing like a sailor. The only thing I do NOT want to be videotaped doing is having sex. If he likes he can videotape me walking to my car and driving off and write my license plate number down because my work car is not registered in my name. Yes I go to extremes to ensure my safety but it's better to be safe than sorry.

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