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    I block repeat free peekers, guys who continue to beg, and if a guy comes in my free chat days in a row, without speaking, after I've spoke and typed his name, he gets blocked too. My boyfriend says that I block too much, but I always feel like these guys never become customers.

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    I have 10 guys blocked and I felt it was too much lol
    i think as long as youre making your money keep doing what youre doing
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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    LOL I have 400 blocked and I know girls that have 5k + blocked.

    I would not block for non-typing. Sometimes those guys will surprise you with a nice 45 minute private.

    What I block for:
    1. Begging
    2. Trying to fool me or steal from me
    3. Telling me you cannot afford my show/won't pay my rates (if you can't/won't pay then WTF are you in my room for?)
    4. Being rude to me or my customers


    Keep in mind I typically see 200 or so people come in and out of my room on any shift. I generally have 10-20 people in my room at any given time.



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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    I have over 300 blocked lol....
    -I block trolls,
    -guys who don't stop begging,
    -the 30 second guys who pop in and out like 5 times (lol gotta love blocking those guys)
    -and a few who made me feel as if I was being recorded lol





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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    I block people who I just no longer give a fuck about if they become clients or not... Like, as in, they're pissing me off to the extent that I just want them gone, for whatever reason. Mostly it's for begging, freeloading, giving orders without tipping, being asshats, giving me low ratings, or dirty talking for fucking ages to me in free chat.

    I just think if you're blocking those kinds of guys, you're certainly not blocking too much; you can't be blocking too much - because you're blocking non-paying guys or asshats, people that interfere negatively with what you're trying to do: MEKA DEM MONEYZ! The penalty for being a flaccid-walleted dick in my room is banishment forever moar! We gots to sort the WHEAT from the CHAFF! .... bitches!





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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    hmmm?? I block whoever gets on my nerves.. but unblock them all in january for a new fresh start.. LOL

    I don't think your man gets it.. I mean he is a man???

    Quote Originally Posted by HighHeelHottie View Post
    I block repeat free peekers, guys who continue to beg, and if a guy comes in my free chat days in a row, without speaking, after I've spoke and typed his name, he gets blocked too. My boyfriend says that I block too much, but I always feel like these guys never become customers.

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    That's exactly why I block, you can never block too much. I mean, really if you put in the effort to talk to them and they just sit there and ignore you then yeah they deserve it!!!

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    I agree with the other ladies... except for the unblocking part. For the most part, the guys are VERY immature about being blocked if they were being peekers/lurkers. I've had the repeated peekers tell me pussy should be free then give me a 1 star, send me nasty e-mails, etc.

    If you choose to unblock guys at some point (regardless of the reason they were banned), you can leave them blocked from sending messages. That way, if they do something immature, rude, or just continue doing what they were doing that got them blocked in the first place, you can block them again even if they're not in your room.

    Or you can do what I do and tag their accounts with reasons they were banned, then allow them to send messages. Some of them are cool about it, asked to be unbanned and then become good customers. But I believe in making them ask for the right to come back into my room. I don't ban willy-nilly.

    On the other hand, if you ban a guy who you never want to see again, make sure you also block him from sending messages too.

    I block when I feel like blocking. If a guy is rude, I'll give a warning, but there are some things where I don't warn first, just ban... those guys can go straight to hell. Don't feel guilty about it. I have A LOT of guys blocked and I don't believe it's negatively affected my earnings. I DO think it's helped sustain my sanity.

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    I now have 477 (and counting) on my list
    Reasons:
    -Don't ask to see my pussy in free
    -Saying "ass bb" repeatedly
    -Telling me "thx bb i just came" in free
    -Rude, Racist, or/and Just plain annoying
    -CUZ IM IN A Bitchy MOOD AND I FEEL LIKE IT
    -Asking me to start a GS and leave
    -30sec peekers
    -calling me a whore (they really think thats sexy)

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    I havnt really had anyone be rude or anything to me, but I get a lot of "nice" guys who just want to "get to know me"...chatterboxes who never book a show so I block those. I also block guys who tell me they will take me private if I flash them, and the ones with weird/against tos requests.

    I dont block a guy just for sitting there being quiet, for one I usually dont notice them...I hate hate hate the free chat part so Im pretty happy they arent trying to talk to me And also yeah, a lot of those guys end up taking me into a show.
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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    I love blocking people, it's what keeps me sane and working when I don't want to! I block for: asking for free things more than twice after being politely told no, asking for things that are not allowed, "TIP SHOW ONE BOOB I TAKE U PVT BB JUST ONE NIPPLE" etc. Although on occasion I've blocked people who just rubbed me the wrong way. I look at my banned list like the more time-wasters I weed out, the more serious spenders come my way!




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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    i usually kick more than ban. i only ban for extremely rude or mean guys or freeloaders and scammers, the rest i just kick. if they come right back in from being kicked and they continue the harassment then they get banned. - but that usually doesn't happen much.

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    Quote Originally Posted by HighHeelHottie View Post
    I block repeat free peekers, guys who continue to beg, and if a guy comes in my free chat days in a row, without speaking, after I've spoke and typed his name, he gets blocked too. My boyfriend says that I block too much, but I always feel like these guys never become customers.



    You're doing it right. Your boyfriend probably wouldn't be saying that if he had ever cammed (on a free chat site, especially) a day in his life...lol.

    I've disconnected lots of guys on ImLive who would enter my free text chat and just sit there. It makes no damn sense. Earlier today some guy came in there and said "I fell in love with a girl on here, and I need to find her." LMAO.
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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    I don't ban a whole lot, like bubblegum, I am a fan of the kick button. But if you get three strikes, you are banned, bb!

    I never ban people for being too quiet, because they aren't actively pissing me off. I also don't ban peepers, but I do ban repeat offenders on the peeping - I've had guys who "peek" on three shows, and then actually buy a long one, or stick around - and those are the ones who are using it as it was designed - to see if the show is what you are after. However, multiple peeks in one show, or staying juuuuust until the 30 secs is up and then coming back in the same show - that gets a warning, then a ban.

    I generally kick/ban for being rude (not just to me, to other guys - you know the kind of douche that starts saying "ewww" about another guys fetish? BAN), FOR TYPING ALL IN CAPS, for repeatedly asking for stuff I don't do, or for saying anything truly disturbing ("Come pvt bb am petting my dog while it sucks my dick come see...." That one was lovely). If they are REALLY rude or disturbing, I'll report them as well.

    I do think that some girls are a little too heavy on the banhammer - but it sounds like the OP is being pretty reasonable!
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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    if you;re question it.... then yes, you ban too much.........
    Last edited by Fridays; 04-13-2012 at 05:59 PM.

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    My banned list is about 2000 and I'm still building it. At any time if I don't feel comfortable with someone in my chat room he's gone but I do it in steps. Verbal warning, kick, then ban. I always leave the e-mail option open because I'm always interested in the feedback once they realize I wasn't kidding and also to hear their side of the story when I have more time to deal with him after I have logged out.

    I have got some of my best customers from first banning them and then communicating my expectations/their expectations with them in e-mail. What they need to understand is they are speaking to me in my home. No one insults me in my own home and I run my chat room on my own terms.

    The only ones I don't give warning to are the 29 second offenders, camgirls who make it obvious they are there to harrass me and silent lurkers who sit through several countdowns without contributing over several weeks.

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    i ban people who annoy me.

    i run my room on a really positive note, its how i like it, it's how my regs like it, and it's how a lot of new comers like it
    if you're ruining that, you're gone. tipper or not! idc
    although i admit, tippers tend to get kicked as a 'warning' thing.. and non tippers get banned instantly >.> lol

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    I feel like I am such a 'baby banner'. I only have 48 on my block list. I actually thought that was A LOT until I read this thread.

    I generally only ban people who call me names. But, I think for my sanity I am going to start banning the 'Show me your pussy!' guys. I have no doubt that they know there isn't any below the belt nudity allowed on SM and it pisses me off that they are asking me do something that if I didn't know better could get me fired from my job just to get their damn rocks off. I mean, damn that is fucking cold!

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    Yeah, I block for the reasons I listed because when those guys put me in a bad mood. And a bad mood=bad money. The free lurker guys usually don't bother me much except when it's a really slow period. I'll be irritated because it's slow, then I'll see some idiot who watches me in free chat everyday, come in my room and I'll think to myself "oh great! A potential customer didn't just come in, this fucking asshole who is never going to spend comes in," plus I just hate feeling like I'm being watched like TV lol. It makes it really creepy when I have just 1 guy in my room and that one guy isn't saying anything.

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    I've had some guys lurk silently for a couple weeks and then buy a show with me. Also, I've had guys pop in and out of my room a bunch of times in a night and then eventually take me private. I've also had guys tell me they can't afford to buy a show with me end up tipping me or chipping in for a gold show. It's not super common but enough that I never ban anyone simply for not paying me or talking.

    I do have one guy who has been coming in my room since my first night. I noticed him because his name made me laugh. He's been coming in for a year and he's never bought a show with me. It's irritating. I called him out on it once. I was doing a gold show and he said something like, "C'mon guys, it's worth it. Her shows are great." I was like, "How the hell would you know? You've never seen my shows!" But that's about as snarky as I've gotten.

    Some of the best nights I've had on cam have been when I've gone on, not caring if I made any money and got sassy and/or banned anyone who annoyed me. If I'm feeling a little desperate for money, I'm more likely to put up with more, be more polite in the hopes of getting a show. If I'm in a mood where I just don't care and I make fun of anyone that says something stupid, those are the nights I bank.
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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    OMG after reading this thread I need to step my game up. I only have 212 ppl blocked I feel like a loser lol. But to the OP I feel ya, my BF use to say the same thing about blocking to many ppl so to prove my point I would actually unblock some guys and guess what...they come back and do the EXACT same thing. So keep blocking girls,keep blocking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GaPeach View Post
    OMG after reading this thread I need to step my game up. I only have 212 ppl blocked I feel like a loser lol. But to the OP I feel ya, my BF use to say the same thing about blocking to many ppl so to prove my point I would actually unblock some guys and guess what...they come back and do the EXACT same thing. So keep blocking girls,keep blocking.


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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    I had one guy I banned and became a regular custie later but he was a 30 sec peeper. Now I'm thinking about unbanning the other 30 sec peepers too but I don't think that I'll have success with all of them.
    I ban people without warning who try to scam me ("show ass bb and we'll go pvt for 1 hour"); guys who dirty talk every time I'm logged in and never buy a show (I had a guy telling me about his big black 12 inch cock all the time, I just HAD to ban him! Later on I saw him saying exactly the same things in other girl's rooms); I ban disrespectful guys without warning. I give a chance to lurkers, show-ass-pls-bb types (many times I found that they just don't speak English very well and I converted quite a few); "can we talk for free on msn" types (sometimes they genuinely don't know that you're there to work and this is your income).

    I don't think that you can ban "too much". You have to do something to protect your sanity and online at least you have the power to do so, unlike in RL.

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    Thanks girls! This thread has encouraged me to ban more easily and my sanity is so happy for it.

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    Default Re: Do I block too much?

    Here is a RARE occasion where I unblocked someone who turned out to be cool after all...

    Just the other day on ImLive some guy made a dumb comment in my free text chat, and I blocked him. He sent me a message apologizing, and I unblocked him. Last night I slacked off and didn't cam on the last night of the ImLive pay period, so I thought to myself "I guess I'm not getting paid by ImLive this pay period...oh well." This morning I logged into ImLive and saw that the same guy spend money on my host recorded live sessions, which gave me enough money to make payout.

    I needed like $12 more to make the payout minimum, and he spent just around that much on my host recorded live sessions. I also got messages from him talking about how beautiful I am. He really came through for me!
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