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    Default Was asked "out" to OTC for the first time

    Okay, when I went to my usual club earlier today, my ATF was not there, and there didn't seem to be anything interesting going on, so I decided to head out and check out a different club that I had never visited. When I got there, I saw a dancer that "clicked" with me and we went to VIP. 15 dances later she was asking me to take her out to dinner. I didn't answer, mostly because I didn't expect her to want to take it to that level after only 15 dances, but also because I wanted her to expound on it a bit more. After the last dance she said what I was waiting for: "If you're willing to see me outside the club would that be fine?" That convinced me beyond any reasonable doubt that it was a date for money and money only (I already knew it was, I just needed confirmation).
    The question I have is not about her intentions (which are known to me already), it's about mine. Keep in mind that it was my first visit to this club, and therefore my first session with this dancer. She does not know that this is not an often occurrence for me to just blow a few hundred in VIP (maybe bi weekly). I don't want to lead her on and waste her time, but it is very tempting to do so. The Dark Side of SC customers is beckoning.
    So the question I have is how do I tell her I don't have the money she thinks I have without sounding like a douchebag? "Look, I appreciate the offer, but I'm not in a position right now for that kind of activity. Thanks though." Something like that?
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    Default Re: Was asked "out" to OTC for the first time

    Yes, that would be appropriate.

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    Default Re: Was asked "out" to OTC for the first time

    Quote Originally Posted by socialreject View Post
    So the question I have is how do I tell her I don't have the money she thinks I have without sounding like a douchebag? "Look, I appreciate the offer, but I'm not in a position right now for that kind of activity. Thanks though." Something like that?
    You could tell her that you are low on funds and that if she is willing to pay for the date, that would be cool with you. After all she did ask you out, lol.

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    Default Re: Was asked "out" to OTC for the first time

    You're trying to guess, to mind read what she thought about you. I would never mention being low on funds. For what its worth, I think she was running some stripper shit on you anyways.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jannisary View Post
    You're trying to guess, to mind read what she thought about you. I would never mention being low on funds. For what its worth, I think she was running some stripper shit on you anyways.
    Ah, yes. Never considered the idea that SHE might lead ME on and never go OTC lol. This is why I am a member of this Forum.

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    Default Re: Was asked "out" to OTC for the first time

    Just say no thanks, not interested. Your financial situation is, quite frankly, none of her business. She's not looking for a statement of net worth from you either, she just wants you to spend money on her. As long as you do she will remain interested.
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    Default Re: Was asked "out" to OTC for the first time

    Just say you enjoy her company in vip. More fun

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Just say no thanks, not interested. Your financial situation is, quite frankly, none of her business. She's not looking for a statement of net worth from you either, she just wants you to spend money on her. As long as you do she will remain interested.
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    Default Re: Was asked "out" to OTC for the first time

    Sounds good to me. Just keep it at the club. I'm pretty sure she feels she would benefit from the club not taking any of the money and after 15 dances she assumed it would be better to have 100% without tip out. If you can't afford it you can't just do what you're doing and say" you like keeping the fun here". Simple.

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