My girlfriend of five years has made the decision to start webcamming. I have allways supported her and the decisions she makes, weather I agree with them or not. we have very open and good communication. Or so I believe. after doing it for some time she seems to enjoy it, and I have fun watching her etc. I am here to ask from others experiences, what should I watch out for? as I continue to support her in this matter I cannot help but feel conflicted. She tells me it is all an "act" and that there are no feelings or emotions involved. my biggest fear is that we will grow apart or someone will impress her enough to steal her away. ( yes i do know unlikely but still a fear)
mostly I am concerned that it gets to me that others are able to direct her actions for a price, I also fear that my experiences with her will be cheapened or she will think less of my compliments, gestures and gifts of grattitude because so many others do the same. I notice that she wants to just "cuddle more", and seems to not be interested in the sex a s much or at least initiating it with me, even though our sex life has increased. She says she does not cum on cam, and acctually doesn't even get aroused. to me that statement seems far fetched. Is it?
I love her dearly
i would like advice on how can I continue to stand out to her as the man she loves? How can I continue to support her? How can I be myself with her without the lurking notion of my own inadequacy? These are questions that I do pose to her. I would like other peoples experiences.
I don't like competition and starting to feel like I compete for her time. What should I tell myself when she is working? Is it strictly buisness? does she take more enjoyment out of it than she leads me to belive? What are the possibilities that she decides to take the job to the next level? If she wants to meet someone from outside of work what should I do? and what do any of you think the acctuall likelyness of her doing that is?
any hoot these ar just some of the questions a newb has for now. I am sure more will arrise. thanks


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. That and as yoda said - we are probably in different timezones and the likelihood she'll be in the same vicinity as them is very low unless she is: wellknown, heavily pirated, goes to conventions, has unique traits, etc.





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