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    Default Coming out of retirement!

    So I've decided to go back to doing shows up to toys and maybe fruit and veg after 3 years (left to have children). My sister is putting the guilts on me saying now that I have kids, I should not be doing shows. I'm only doing it every 2nd Fri and Sat night and not even in my area (an hour away from where I live) so its less likely I'll be recognized. So I guess my question is, how many of you have children and do you get judged as a mother by what you do?

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    Back when women used to marry decent, good provider types, that was how they survived.

    Now the decent, good provider has been replaced by the cam customer.

    Are decent, good-provider types so boring that camming is a better way to survive?

    Where is the father of these children? I wouldn't even think of having any without being in a very solid marriage first.

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    Default Re: Coming out of retirement!

    Quote Originally Posted by Frenchie View Post
    Back when women used to marry decent, good provider types, that was how they survived.

    Now the decent, good provider has been replaced by the cam customer.

    Are decent, good-provider types so boring that camming is a better way to survive?

    Where is the father of these children? I wouldn't even think of having any without being in a very solid marriage first.
    I am in a solid relationship with the father of my children thanks. I do not do camming, these are shows in private homes and I have security for my safety.

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    I think every mother in the sex industry gets judged. It's really sad because when such a large percentage of the population is on food stamps, the girls out there working to make sure they provide enough are the ones who are treated unfairly. Do what makes you happy, as long as it is legal, or you are careful (because you don't want your kids taken away).
    I don't have children but I have to say Frenchie, I am very happy I don't live in a time where I must a marry a good decent provider type to survive, and where I can make more than a lot of men. A lot of those good decent provider types would beat their wives, like my grand father, and one of my great grandfather's did. I'm happy with my broke ass artist.

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    Default Re: Coming out of retirement!

    i'm not a mother, but i do work with some. jayde, you are providing a service in exchange for money to provide for your family. that is admirable, not a bad thing. that is the argument i would use when people push guilt on me. i don't know if they have this where you are from, but there is a cost to raise a child calculator online- if i were a mother i'd whip that right out and say, 'so, would you like me to WORK for this money or have it funded by your tax dollars?'

    frenchie, maybe her man is the homemaker in this case and she brings home the money. while i personally support a stay at home parent, i've always felt it could be either gender. sometimes a man is more suited for the job than a woman.

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    Thanks ladies My SO is only working 3 days a week at the moment due to work being so slow, therefore he is only bringing in $435 a week and rent is $380 a week! He is also studying Project Management so hopefully later on he can get a better paying job. Once I start work I plan on studying Case Management in Community Services so its not like I will be doing it forever. These shows are completely legal and well away from my home life. I'm sick of living week to week and going nowhere, saving nothing. We don't have a car, which is very limiting when you have kids, and is very isolating. Anyways I know I'm doing the right thing for myself and my kids and I guess I just have to let peoples judgements wash over me. My parents are surprisingly supportive. Thanks ladies for the support xxxxxx

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