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    This a streamlined version of what I posted in the blue section, I posted here to try and get some insight into what the poor Service Provider is going through, and how I can clear my consince, providing I am able to go back to the club, without getting my head bashed in from a bouncer. And for input on what kind of testing that I should get.

    So last night I went to my favorite club.......found a girl...... Before the song she asked me if I wanted just contact, and what position, and if I only wanted contact she wouldn't do her normal routine. I told her that just contact was fine, and reverse butt or "Cow Girl" frontal was fine, whichever she was more comfortable with.

    I was sitting in the couch...... She asked me to keep my legs together and not to spread them, the button on my jeans were undone from my previous dancer who unbuttoned them. She.... got on top of me "Cow Girl" .......after a few minutes the zipper on my unbuttoned jeans accidentally opened all the way......She moved a little lower, at that point and caused my dick to pop out of my trousers, I wasn't concerned because she was so low, and that there was lots of trousers between us still. But then she moved up again, and my uncovered dick slid between her lips. I didn't realize that had happened I was to involved..... I only realized something had gone array when I heard wet slapping noises... A few seconds after that she got up to change positions, and realized my dick was out. She stopped and said "You almost got me in trouble, I'm not on the pill, you wouldn't want to get a Stripper pregnant would you?" And asked me to put "it" away, I did, and pulled my shirt over my lap. She finished the dance out reverse butt with a lot less contact, and told me I was getting less contact now.

    After the dance she looked at me and said "You shouldn't have done that, are you clean?" I told her I was very sorry, and didn't mean for that to happen, that I was clean, and a Virgin. I don't know why I said I was a virgin, I'm not only because I had protected sex with an escort. But it is the truth about me being clean, at lest I should be clean, I have never had unprotected vaginal contact before. I have had a brief mouth to genital contact, but that's it. Anyway she asked how old I was, and asked me over and over if I was clean, told me not to lie to her, to just tell her the truth. She told me that she should report me to the manager, I again told her how sorry I was, and asked her if she was clean, she said yes..but how do I know that? She told me to wear track pants next time, so I didn't have to unbutton my jeans.

    So I didn't think she was going to tell the manager. she left me and walked towards the other customers. I left and went to my truck to get a peace of paper and wrote my name, and email, and cell number on it. My plan was to go back and apologize again, and give that to her, and tell her to email me with any other concerns, and ask her if she wanted me to get tested, or pay for her to get tested. As I truly didn't mean for this to happen, and felt really bad about it. Unfortunately when I returned she looked at me said nothing, and went straight to a bouncer (before I could giver her the card, or even say anything to her). He walked over to me and said buddy you need to LEAVE NOW!

    So this really sucks not only am I now afraid to ever go back to my favorite club, but my concisence is heavy as well, I violated her, and a part of me feels like I raped her.. I know it isn't all my fault, but I still feel horrible about it, and wonder what that poor girl is going through. But worst of all I am worried sick that I may have contacted some kind of STD! I am hoping that she was telling the truth about being clean, especially because she was so pissed at me, and asked me over and, over if I was clean. I only had contact with her lips, not full Vaginal insertion and for less then 2 minutes. I didn't cum, so don't know why she said she wasn't on the pill, she isn't getting going to get pregnant from a short exposure that's for sure. So what are my chances of contacting a STD, with this kind of exposure? I am scared shit less! I honestly didn't mean for this to happen! How to I make it right with the girl so I can clear my consince?


    Please don't burn me.. I know I screwed up here I legitimately feel horrible, so know need to tell me what an A hole I am I know that already! Is there anything that I can do to make this bad situation better. Also don't freak me out more then I already am by telling me I am going to die of a horrible disease. Just tell me what the worst risks are, and how to get treated for them. Should I start PEP? I tried to get to a Clinc today (Sunday) but they were closed, I hope tomorrow isn't to late. I'm going to the Clinc first thing tomorrow. What do I ask them to prescribe to me, or test?
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    I think it is very unlikely you would of caught anything from that.Of course its best to get checked out if only to put your mind at rest.I dont really understand how the girl could have not noticed your dick rubbing against her for 2 minutes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britchick85 View Post
    I think it is very unlikely you would of caught anything from that.Of course its best to get checked out if only to put your mind at rest.I dont really understand how the girl could have not noticed your dick rubbing against her for 2 minutes.
    Well that's good to hear.. obviously I'm still gonna get checked.

    Not sure why she took so long to notice that...was maybe she was on something? Her eyes were red, and kinda shifty, rolled back into her head a bit, when she was on stage earlier. That's why when she sat down next to me, to get me to go for a dance I asked her what she was "on". I said I know some girls drink, or smoke pot (sometimes you can smell it from the back room), but you look like you are on some kinda hard core shit. She said it was just nerves, and she was very tired, which could also be true. Her legs were cut in spots either from shaving or from a needle? Not sure. And she had a bad breakout of zits all over here face. She isn't in puberty any more, so don't know if that was some kind of side effect? Sometimes I read into stuff to much, I'd like to hope she was just tired, and that she isn't a user. That could also be why she took so long to notice, the dance had gone sideways... that she was just tired.. it was 2:00 am, just before closing.

    I imagine she is going through some of the same concerns of diseases that I am, as well as feeling either under-minded, violated, or stupid for not being more aware.. I don't no but I definitely hope she is not to shaken up over it.

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    How can someone not feel "dick in pussy"? - for both of you
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    I thiink you should get checked, and then give a break on going to this club until she forgets you

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    I felt it, but not at first, I didn't realize the extent of it, at first only the shaft was contacting, when the head did, I definitely felt it, and it was soon after that I heard the noises, and she stopped. For such a short exposure I'm hoping I am disease free.

    I should have stopped her the moment I felt it, but I was caught up in the moment, I'm glad she stopped it when she did. I would have felt more awful if it had have been any worse.

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    How is this not 100% your fault? Of course you are the only one to blame here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    How is this not 100% your fault? Of course you are the only one to blame here.
    He's not blaming her in any way, shape or form. Okay....getting back on topic. The mistake you made was not buttoning your pants back up after the previous dancer (which she was not supposed to do btw). There are some dancers who feel that doing extras like that will get you to go back and spend more money on them. And since it sounds like you went to a fully nude club, it is even MORE important that you make sure your clothes are properly SEALED. How you allowed the situation to get that far is beyond me. Next time a dancer goes for your crotch (and I'm talking about your previous one), firmly tell them "no". Go get checked out for an STD and lay low for a while as far as that club is concerned, or just don't go back.
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    This thread almost made me spontaneously combust.

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    This is fucking gross. Ur both losers. You for letting ur dick"accidentally" fall out during a dance, getting a dance from a girl who might be on drugs and has zits all over her face and maybe track marks on her.seriously what's wrong with u? And her for being a cracked out idiot who doesn't notice when she's grinding with her bare pussy on some guys dick. I hope ur dick is diseased and falls off. And I hope her pussy does too. Ur both trash.

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    You really want us to believe that you were the hapless victim of circumstances here? LMAO.

    In a nutshell, you're are trying to tell us that: (1) your pants just happened to be undone from the previous dance, but you didn't notice (how did that happen btw?); AND (2) she positioned you just the right way to drag your pants down that far, without your pants getting caught on your hips and/or trapped under your ass; AND (3) your penis was positioned just right enough to pop out all by itself (and I guess you were going commando?); AND (4) she never noticed that your pants were that far down; AND (5) neither of you noticed that she was rubbing her pussy on your penis until it was too late.

    Right.

    Sorry, but I am inclined to believe that Willy had a bit more help getting free than you are claiming.

    Of course she changed up her dances dude - you took, or at the very least allowed, your penis out when her back was turned. WTF were you thinking? I doubt that you feel the slightest bit of remorse and, as I've already said, it would take a tremendous suspension of disbelief to accept that this was an accident in the first place.

    Now I'm as much of a dog as just about any guy on this board, but when I do dicey things with dancers, it is discussed beforehand and there are no surprises. What you did was violate this girl without her consent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    I doubt that you feel the slightest bit of remorse
    I think he feels remorse... but it's in the form of A) he rubbed his dick on a stranger's bare pussy and is worried he might've picked up an STD and B) he's worried he might not be allowed back into his favorite club.
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    The whole story borders on preposterous.
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    I wasn't aware that there was an illiterate-moron-who-dreams-up-physically-impossible-scenarios-to-get-dancers-to-talk-to-him-about-them fetish.

    But his last, very long paragraph pleading for all that dancer advice -- including the phrase "pretend this happened to you" -- for a situation that could not possibly have happened in the first place, changed my mind.

    I think the fetish surrounds the word "clean," since it appears about four billion times. It certainly does not surround the word "conscience," since presumably in that case he would be able to spell that word better than a pre-school dyslexic.

    So here's my advice to the OP.

    Next time you make up fake, pretend panicky stories about an event, please learn first about physics, then tactile biology, then common sense.

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    ^Actually there's totally an "I fucked someone dirty and now I have an STD" fetish out there.
    I randomly browse through obscure fetish shit from time to time (so I can link it to unsuspecting friends) and this one has popped up more than once.
    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    ^ That makes sense.

    It also explains the OP's screen name.

    What also strains credulity is this. Let's allow that it's all true, although the story is so absurd that honestly it would require a collective prefrontal lobotomy. If some guy were genuinely alarmed about STD infection, in what universe would he come and post on a dancer support site, pleading with the dancers to "pretend it happened to them," and then just go on and on about being "clean" and being afraid of infection?

    Is it really dancers who were not there or involved in any way who have the information he needs here?

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    Quote Originally Posted by socialreject View Post
    He's not blaming her in any way, shape or form. Okay....getting back on topic. The mistake you made was not buttoning your pants back up after the previous dancer (which she was not supposed to do btw). There are some dancers who feel that doing extras like that will get you to go back and spend more money on them. And since it sounds like you went to a fully nude club, it is even MORE important that you make sure your clothes are properly SEALED. How you allowed the situation to get that far is beyond me. Next time a dancer goes for your crotch (and I'm talking about your previous one), firmly tell them "no". Go get checked out for an STD and lay low for a while as far as that club is concerned, or just don't go back.
    I often get extras from this club, that's why I like it, but nothing at risk of STDs in the past, they often unbutton my jeans, they don't like the feel of the button on their crotch. Yes I should have wore track pants, it was not a planed visit. And yes I should have buttoned my jeans up after, the last dance.

    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    This thread almost made me spontaneously combust.
    lol...

    Quote Originally Posted by Twinkle Toes View Post
    This is fucking gross. Ur both losers. You for letting ur dick"accidentally" fall out during a dance, getting a dance from a girl who might be on drugs and has zits all over her face and maybe track marks on her.seriously what's wrong with u? And her for being a cracked out idiot who doesn't notice when she's grinding with her bare pussy on some guys dick. I hope ur dick is diseased and falls off. And I hope her pussy does too. Ur both trash.
    Very informative professional post! Thanks for that! She was very persuasive and had a very pretty face (except the zits) She also had a rocking body, the lighting is dim in the club, like I said it could be that she just cut her self from shaving. Thanks for the childish dick and pussy falling off comments.. how old are you?

    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    You really want us to believe that you were the hapless victim of circumstances here? LMAO.

    In a nutshell, you're are trying to tell us that: (1) your pants just happened to be undone from the previous dance, but you didn't notice (how did that happen btw?); AND (2) she positioned you just the right way to drag your pants down that far, without your pants getting caught on your hips and/or trapped under your ass; AND (3) your penis was positioned just right enough to pop out all by itself (and I guess you were going commando?); AND (4) she never noticed that your pants were that far down; AND (5) neither of you noticed that she was rubbing her pussy on your penis until it was too late.

    Right.

    Sorry, but I am inclined to believe that Willy had a bit more help getting free than you are claiming.

    Of course she changed up her dances dude - you took, or at the very least allowed, your penis out when her back was turned. WTF were you thinking? I doubt that you feel the slightest bit of remorse and, as I've already said, it would take a tremendous suspension of disbelief to accept that this was an accident in the first place.

    Now I'm as much of a dog as just about any guy on this board, but when I do dicey things with dancers, it is discussed beforehand and there are no surprises. What you did was violate this girl without her consent.
    Of course I'm not the helpless victim, but there were two people here.. lets say for argumentative sake, that it's 90% my fault and 10% her fault.

    1. pants were undone I knew they were, thought might as well leave them undone. I went upstairs for five songs for 100.00 with the previous dancer, she was very good, really rubbed her breasts in my face, and a little crotch contact, she unbuttoned my jeans when she slid her breasts down my body, and crotch. I guess she didn't like the button against her body. She just didn't do any crotch contact with her butt, or pussy. That's why I went looking for a better dance.

    2. I have always been asked to spread my legs and slouch, never going to have your pants fall down even if the are unbuttoned or unzipped. She asked me to keep my legs closed. And I was slouched to the point that half my butt was off the couch. She pulled my jacket and tee-shirt up off my crotch I had it pulled down to cover my unbutton jeans. I would assume that she scene that I was unbuttoned she looked down there for a second before getting on top. Didn't take much grinding action to loosen the zipper up, and then the pants slid down a bit. With jeans unbuttoned and unzipped they don't need to come down very far, they were still well over my butt.

    3. When I am hard my dick starts to poke threw the top of my underwear, so after grinding, and be pushing back and humping the underwear slowly worked it's way down. Maybe 3/4 of the shaft actually stuck out the rest was still in my underwear.

    4. Nope, or she did notice they were down a bit and didn't care, I have had girls there purposely unbutton and unzip my jeans open them up, but they always pull my jacket down over top for a barrier. She probably thought my underwear was a good enough barrier? She had to have known my pants were opened up?

    5. Like I said it wasn't for long less then 2 minutes that my bare dick made contact and it was only the shaft at first, I felt that right away, but I foolishly didn't say anything. I don't know how she didn't notice, maybe she thought I had silk underwear? She was pressing so hard maybe she could feel the difference. At that point she asked me if I was enjoying it. It was only a few seconds that the head made contact. At that point it made some wet slapping noises, and she stopped. Got up and looked down, and said how did I not notice that, you almost got me in trouble... I should have said stop when she asked me if I was enjoying it, instead I said nothing at all, I was thinking only with my dick at that point, not about STDs or club rules, or the girls boundarys.

    Oh and one club rule they always enforce is customers hands tucked away in the sides of the couch! So I never touched my dick or tried to help it out.. not possible, she strictly told me to keep my hands aside.

    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    I think he feels remorse... but it's in the form of A) he rubbed his dick on a stranger's bare pussy and is worried he might've picked up an STD and B) he's worried he might not be allowed back into his favorite club.
    True but I also feel I violated her. Honestly I'd only be worried about "A" and "B". If she was on board with it. But you had to see her face, after this..you'd be a cold hearted sun of a bitch, if you didn't feel remorse after that.
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    The whole story borders on preposterous.
    Yeah.. ok sorry I didn't make a video to make it more "believable" for you!



    Quote Originally Posted by All Good Things View Post
    I wasn't aware that there was an illiterate-moron-who-dreams-up-physically-impossible-scenarios-to-get-dancers-to-talk-to-him-about-them fetish.

    But his last, very long paragraph pleading for all that dancer advice -- including the phrase "pretend this happened to you" -- for a situation that could not possibly have happened in the first place, changed my mind.

    I think the fetish surrounds the word "clean," since it appears about four billion times. It certainly does not surround the word "conscience," since presumably in that case he would be able to spell that word better than a pre-school dyslexic.

    So here's my advice to the OP.

    Next time you make up fake, pretend panicky stories about an event, please learn first about physics, then tactile biology, then common sense.
    "illiterate-moron-who-dreams-up-physically-impossible-scenarios-to-get-dancers-to-talk-to-him-about-them fetish" really I'm the "illiterate" one.. read your own words?? lol about them fetish .. you mean about their fetish?

    "pretend this happened to you" may not have been necessary to state that on my part. Just trying to make it right with the dancer. But in fact I'd like to remove that line from my first post. Last thing I want is someone to "picture" what she went through.

    "conscience" sorry I can't spell I think I do pretty well for dropping out of English in grade 6. And just barely getting by for grades 10-11. I wish I had taken English from grade 6-10. I Googled that word but I couldn't even get it close enough for Google to correct it so I gave up. Laugh all you want at the less fortunate.. next time you see someone with glasses call them "four eyes" if that makes you feel like a bigger person go ahead!

    As for making up the story believe what ever you want. I don't know what to tell you other then the truth. If I did make it up, I would have said it when on for longer, and I shot a load up in her. Cause what would be the point if you don't cum.. no fun in that. I defiantly wouldn't have talked about STD's that is no turn on that's for sure!

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    How is this not 100% your fault? Of course you are the only one to blame here.
    Don't you think she shouldn't have said something when she saw my pants were unbuttoned? And don't you thing she should have been more aware and noticed my dick touch here right away? Like I said 90% my fault 10% her fault. Did she deserve it hell no! Sometimes mistakes happen, of course I feel horrible, but don't you think she deserves part of the blame?
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    This legitimately isnt even funny

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    ^Actually there's totally an "I fucked someone dirty and now I have an STD" fetish out there.
    I randomly browse through obscure fetish shit from time to time (so I can link it to unsuspecting friends) and this one has popped up more than once.
    Wow..that's sick.. WTF is wrong with people! If you want a STD go use a old needle laying on the street.

    Quote Originally Posted by All Good Things View Post
    ^ That makes sense.

    It also explains the OP's screen name.

    What also strains credulity is this. Let's allow that it's all true, although the story is so absurd that honestly it would require a collective prefrontal lobotomy. If some guy were genuinely alarmed about STD infection, in what universe would he come and post on a dancer support site, pleading with the dancers to "pretend it happened to them," and then just go on and on about being "clean" and being afraid of infection?

    Is it really dancers who were not there or involved in any way who have the information he needs here?
    "pretend it happened to them" working on removing that statement I agree, that it doens't need to be there.

    Reason I posted here was to get some insight what to say to her to make things right.. and clear my guilty "conscience". who would no better then a dancer them self. Also there are escorts or sexually active people on he that could help me determine my risk based on exposure

    So far the only good advice I have received was on the "blue side" someone said not to show up there for awhile, and to get tested, mail the results to the club marked attention "dancers name" Don't put my name or any apology in it.

    I'd like to include an apology but other then that, that's not bad advice.


    as for my screen name "addicted" it doesn't stand for drugs or an addition to STD's..gross! It's an addiction to Strip clubs and escorts in general I will freely admit that.

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    This legitimately isnt even funny

    Fuck you
    Really mature! I can see why your post count is up so high! You don't take the time to read a thread, and just post whatever comes to mind..

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    Quote Originally Posted by addicted View Post
    "illiterate-moron-who-dreams-up-physically-impossible-scenarios-to-get-dancers-to-talk-to-him-about-them fetish" really I'm the "illiterate" one.. read your own words?? lol about them fetish .. you mean about their fetish?
    No, you’re wrong again. And I’m starting to lose count of the times you are wrong or are lying or are just spectacularly obnoxious.

    On the obnoxious: Want to post some more about how dancers would know all about STDs and what tests you should get?

    Anyway, the sentence I wrote used a hyphenated adjectival phrase. Here it is again: “Illiterate-moron-who-dreams-up-physically-impossible-scenarios-to-get-dancers-to-talk-to-him-about-them fetish.” So to put this another way, it’s a fetish that an illiterate moron (that would be you) has dreamed up to get dancers to talk to him about THEM, the “them” being the impossible scenarios.

    Quote Originally Posted by addicted View Post
    conscience" sorry I can't spell I think I do pretty well for dropping out of English in grade 6. And just barely getting by for grades 10-11. I wish I had taken English from grade 6-10. I Googled that word but I couldn't even get it close enough for Google to correct it so I gave up.
    See, you keep lying blithely and insulting everybody’s intelligence. Just for fun, I ran through Google every wrong spelling of “conscience” from your original post, and guess what? Google corrected every one, perfectly. So you did not Google it, and you lied about it. Do you want me to keep going?

    Quote Originally Posted by addicted View Post
    Laugh all you want at the less fortunate.. next time you see someone with glasses call them "four eyes" if that makes you feel like a bigger person go ahead!
    The “less fortunate?” Really? Universal secondary education in this country is legally mandatory, universal and free. I won’t bore you about my own white trash roots, but if you think I have any sympathy for adults who blame illiteracy on being “less fortunate” then they will have to explain my life story, and good luck with that.

    Anyway, it’s a fetish. You know it, I know it, everybody knows it. You used the word “clean” eight different times in your posts, “STD” five times, along with a peppering of “risk,” “exposure,” and (twice) “wet slapping noises.”

    My guess is that there have been more localized wet slapping noises on your end.

    Oh, and since you were all about being tested today, how did that go? You seem to be spending all your time on here talking about “clean” and “STDs” and asking dancers insulting questions about things they should know like what STD tests you need. Why don’t you post your test results? Oh, right, you haven’t had a chance to go yet. But you have an appointment, I’m sure. LOL

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    Dude...assuming this is legit...DO NOT admit fault in writing. Send her the STD test with $300 in a money order or cash (if cash, hand the sealed envelope to the club manager).

    Include a note identifying yourself by "the incident during your wonderful dance with me last night"

    Say you hope she understands, but you won't be at the club for a while. If she needs toreach you, here is your google voice number (make one)

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    Addicted, I think you have your answers here & we don't need a play by play. If you post a post like yours, you're going to get some feedback & probably not positive, you violated a woman. Please find another place to get advise on STDs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by addicted View Post
    Of course I'm not the helpless victim, but there were two people here.. lets say for argumentative sake, that it's 90% my fault and 10% her fault.

    Don't you think she shouldn't have said something when she saw my pants were unbuttoned? And don't you thing she should have been more aware and noticed my dick touch here right away? Like I said 90% my fault 10% her fault. Did she deserve it hell no! Sometimes mistakes happen, of course I feel horrible, but don't you think she deserves part of the blame?
    Again, it was 100% your fault. She did not unbutton your pants. You told her the only way you would buy a dance from her is if she did 3 minutes of hardcore grinding, all the while knowing your pants were not buttoned. She would have never thought to check your pants. She followed your directions which put her in a situation where a) it is hard to immediately run away when you see a penis, b) you cannot actually see the penis, and c) vigorous grinding was distracting her enough to realize that she was all of a sudden on your dick.

    I'm going to take a wild stab and guess that your penis is extremely small and that's the primary reason why it was able to easily "pop out" of unbuttoned jeans and why it took more than a split second for her to realize what was going on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by All Good Things View Post
    No, you’re wrong again. And I’m starting to lose count of the times you are wrong or are lying or are just spectacularly obnoxious.

    On the obnoxious: Want to post some more about how dancers would know all about STDs and what tests you should get?

    Anyway, the sentence I wrote used a hyphenated adjectival phrase. Here it is again: “Illiterate-moron-who-dreams-up-physically-impossible-scenarios-to-get-dancers-to-talk-to-him-about-them fetish.” So to put this another way, it’s a fetish that an illiterate moron (that would be you) has dreamed up to get dancers to talk to him about THEM, the “them” being the impossible scenarios.



    See, you keep lying blithely and insulting everybody’s intelligence. Just for fun, I ran through Google every wrong spelling of “conscience” from your original post, and guess what? Google corrected every one, perfectly. So you did not Google it, and you lied about it. Do you want me to keep going?



    The “less fortunate?” Really? Universal secondary education in this country is legally mandatory, universal and free. I won’t bore you about my own white trash roots, but if you think I have any sympathy for adults who blame illiteracy on being “less fortunate” then they will have to explain my life story, and good luck with that.

    Anyway, it’s a fetish. You know it, I know it, everybody knows it. You used the word “clean” eight different times in your posts, “STD” five times, along with a peppering of “risk,” “exposure,” and (twice) “wet slapping noises.”

    My guess is that there have been more localized wet slapping noises on your end.

    Oh, and since you were all about being tested today, how did that go? You seem to be spending all your time on here talking about “clean” and “STDs” and asking dancers insulting questions about things they should know like what STD tests you need. Why don’t you post your test results? Oh, right, you haven’t had a chance to go yet. But you have an appointment, I’m sure. LOL
    I don't know do you want me to tell you the same thing again as well? “Illiterate-moron-who-dreams-up-physically-impossible-scenarios-to-get-dancers-to-talk-to-him-about-them fetish.” I understand were your going and don't give a shit. But you still are grammatically incorrect .. "about-them fetish" is improper grammar. You must mean "about their fetish".

    "conscience" I got that far from Google.. whatever I typed in previous to that was way off. I did try to find the correct spelling on Google.. But you don't believe one word I say, so why should I even try to explain.

    "The “less fortunate?” Really? Universal secondary education in this country is legally mandatory, universal and free. I won’t bore you about my own white trash roots, but if you think I have any sympathy for adults who blame illiteracy on being “less fortunate” then they will have to explain my life story, and good luck with that."

    arh.. I give up.. if you can't take that as an example... What is your game? Is your fetish correcting people? Do you get of to belittling people? Did your daddy always belittle you has he rammed his cock up your ass, since you now miss that you beat off while finding other peoples faults, and belittling them? I am glad I was able to excite you so much!

    I'm glad you have so much time to nit pick other peoples posts, and not really give any insight or answer my questions.

    Yes for your information, I did go to the Clinc, they were no longer accepting patients do to government regulated pateint limet. I told her I had a risk of exposure to possible STDs. She said it wasn't time sensitive to get tested. I made an appointment with my regular doctor on the 27th. Since I'm not sexually active with anyone I don't risk spreading anything I might of caught, and apparently nothing can be done in advance to prevent any disease from finding it's way in. I thought there was something like PEP or PED you were supposed to take if your were at high risk to HIV. And it greatly reduced the chances of infection. But no your not concerned about someone having contracted a potentially life threatening disease, your more concerned about there spelling and grammar.

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