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    Sad something possibly happened at work?

    I have an incredibly high alcohol tolerance. When I drink, I do so in massive quantities of hard liquor, like Wild Turkey, and that barely even gives me a strong buzz. (I don't try to get drunk; I drink an amount that loosens me up, and that's usually about 10 shots.) I mix alcohol ALL the time, and it never matters what order I drink a beer or a shot in. Saturday night, something was NOT normal.

    I haven't been that messed up in years. When I was walking, I could barely see what was infront of me. I kept blacking out and finding myself in places I didn't remember walking to....like standing in line to get a ticket that we need to go into the champagne room, and I didn't even remember selling a dance, or talking to any customers. I stumbled toward a bouncer, who walked me into the dressing room, and I remember pleading with them to realize that I never get drunk like that and that something wasn't right. I was absolutely hysterical and in a panic. Instead of getting drowsy or passing out, I actually got sort of a panic stricken energy and started feeling paranoid and anxious. I was bursting into tears of frustration, because I felt like everyone was passing it off as too much to drink, although they all reassured me that I didn't seem drunk....I wasn't slurring, stumbling over my words or acting loopy. Eventually my manager came in and told me my pupils weren't dialated, so he didn't think I was roofied, and I believed him. I tried to sleep it off in the DR, got sick a few times, and apparesntly even went on stage......but I have no recollection of going on stage at all. Ps. The douchebag DJ was told to take me off of rotation but didn't.

    This was NOT like being drunk. It was similar, but not the same. In the most intense period, I couldn't understand what people were saying...instead, I heard a "wah wah wah" sound, like The Peanuts, and felt my eyes pulsating. My head felt hot and heavy, but I would also have a sensation like I was light as air and floating in and out of my own body. Of course my first thought was that I was drugged, but what seemed strange is the kind of burst of energy and paranoid speed that replaced the typical urge to pass out.

    For 2 days, I didn't quite feel right and for whatever reason, I believed my manager and stuffed down thoughts that I was slipped something. Came back to work again and talked to another manager, who also happens to be my drinking buddy, and he, along with the bouncers, told me that I was definitely NOT just too drunk. In hind sight, I should've gone to the ER, but I didn't. Oh, and I owe a huge thanks to the bouncer who walked me into the DR and made sure I stayed there...he was watching VIP at the time and said he did NOT let me go back there.

    So now I'm very embarrassed on one hand, but I'm also sooooo glad that I don't spend every night getting wasted, because everyone (bartenders, waitresses, bouncers, dancers) knew it was SO unlike me....so I don't think this is going to fall back on my head when I go back to work for manager A in a few days.

    Lesson learned. I never leave a drink unattended, ever, but apparently it can still happen. All it takes is a turn of the head for a second. Has anyone had an experience similar to mine? Like, not the typical reaction to ketamine or rohypnol?
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    Wow, that sounds really scary. You might post in body business-- there's a thread called "what drugs have you taken?" and someone might be paying attention to that who can tell you what your symptoms sound like. I'm glad your bouncer was looking out for you. That man deserves some brownies or cookies or something! I would have a sit down chat with the manager who didn't believe you and just let him know what was going on, and tell him that if another girl comes to him like that, that he should pay attention because they could be slipping other girls that and causing trouble when unattended with the girl. Do you think you were left unattended at all during that time period before the bouncer put you in back? I would bitch out the DJ and short-tip him (or minimum if you normally overtip) for a few days and let him know WHY you're short tipping him. Are you having any leftover symptoms?
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    Ok, I guess this would be better off in body business, huh? Anyway, I really don't think I was left alone at all, except for when he put me on stage. Here's the thing: if we fail to sell the 2-for-1, we all have to go on stage. So I guess I was wandering around the floor for a bit, under the carefully watchful eye of the awesome bouncer, and apparently didn't sell the special, because I had to go on stage. THAT is when the dickmunch DJ stuck me on there...immediately after the 2-for-1 was over, so I was already up there and couldn't leave. The bright side is, I managed to make a quick 80 bucks up there, which is all of the money I made the whole night. (Not bad, given the circumstances.) My little sister works with me, so she was nice enough to cover the stage for me and he bitched HER out! For fuck's sake, she was doing him a favor! Grrrrr.....anyway, the DJ is no friend of mine anymore. This is the kind of thing we over or under tip him for....he's new, and the other DJs are almost like secondary managers and will take the initiative to put girls on or take them off of rotation. I can't even imagine all of the things that could've gone horribly, horribly wrong while I was on stage.....oh, and just for shits and giggles...apparently a customer came up, got a tip dance and didn't give me a dollar, so I grabbed him by his shirt, yanked him back and demanded a dollar. When he gave it to me, I put it in my mouth, chewed it up and spit it in his face. Again, no recollection of any of this happening. The bouncers were all kind of taking turns walking me to the bathroom, keeping me in the DR, etc. I wandered out a few times, but they said that I just went to the bathroom; I never sat with customers and I definitely did not go into the VIP. Oh, and the bouncer who took care of me is jokingly trying to convince me that I promised to show him my clit as thanks.
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    ^ no, no. It's good to have this post here because it reminds the club-women to watch their drinks. I was just saying that you might post in that particular thread because if it's not rohypnol or the other one, someone might have taken it recreationally (or not) and could pinpoint it if you were curious about what it was exactly.

    except for the new DJ (which is why they're new) it sounds like the staff at your place is really really good. I'd be thanking my lucky stars (which I'm sure you're doing.) What a scary experience!
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    I got drugged once. The room was spinning and I was largely coherent (enough to know what happened and be pissed off)... but I felt like I had no control over my body. I couldn't really walk/stand at all.
    I, also, foolishly didn't go to the ER (no one to drive me)... and spent half the night waking up in convulsions.

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    Right, right...I'll definitely create a second post to see if anybody can pinpoint this drug. Definitely thinking it was possibly some shithead slipping me something recreational, and not necessarily with the intention of making me pass out helpless. Sure, I crashed off of it, but not any harder than I crash off of energy drinks. Oh! And yes, I have had symptoms like an apocalyptic hangover ever since then.
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    girl, I'm so sorry that happened to you. Please feel better and don't blame yourself in any way, shape, or form. Someone else did something to you without your permission - you are not to be blamed!
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    I am so sorry that happened to you! Scary! In my opinion, from how you described it, someone slipped a "roofie" (Rufinol) in your drink. Remembering things in just tiny bits (like a shoots from a camera, how a describe it).
    Someone slipped a roofie in my drink once, the reason I found out later what it was was because it was a so call girlfriend that did it, because I refused to take it with her earlier that night. Silly me trusting her, left my drink under her watch while I went to the bathroom. All I remember was like if my brain was just taking pictures of things I did and places I was that night. I found my self on one place, then on a blink of an eye, on another. You are describing it to perfection. She thought it was funny the day after that, when she told me what she did, I did not find it funny at all. That was the end of our friendship.

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    It sounds like rohypnol to me. I worked at a rape crisis center and the two most common drugs we'd see were rohypnol and GHB, but rohypnol gives you more of a "woozy" blackout whereas GHB is more of a "clean" blackout, if that makes sense. Hearing noises in a weird way and feeling fuzzy doesn't sound like GHB. Normally it leaves your system very quickly but if you get a blood test from the hospital, you might be able to still have traces of it show up in a test.

    We had a girl that was given rohypnol at my current club, it was so scary. She came into the dressing room seeming really drunk, and then while I was talking to her she fell over backwards. I was trying to pick her up and she started fucking seizing in my arms. Any guy that does this to a girl needs to be in jail


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    Oh my God! So glad I didn't start convulsing, or some other freaky shit. The scariest part of it was blacking out and feeling like I was in the middle of an extreme panic attack!

    Also, I would just like to point out that it clearly pays to build up a good reputation by staying functional and level headed every night. I cannot imagine how bad it could've been if no one believed I was drugged. A girl at my club recently left, completely fucked up, with a customer. She had a habit of getting trashed every night. They not only let her do it, but also fired her for it. She tried to call the next day and claim she'd been roofied, but no one really believed her. In the end, she lost her job over it.

    It's not unfathomable that I could've tried to leave like she did, or tried to do something in VIP, but the staff immediately intervened and prevented all of it. With her, they kind of gave her an attitude like, "do what you want; you're too fucked up to work here, so just leave."

    Anyway, I guess I'm just trying to say that no one is going to believe you never meant to take anything, unless you handle yourself responsibly every night. Building a trustworthy image for yourself could be crucial to your safety.
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    ^^ So true! We have a few girls at my club that get routinely trashed and then just curl up on the floor of the dressing room and none of the staff bother to look in on them because it's so commonplace. Luckily for them, they're usually trashed after multiple VIP so the manager has an interest in keeping them around. But the one time I got super drunk (not drugged, just about 20 shots too many) the manager checked on me every 30 mins or so to see if I needed to go to hospital, and the housemom didn't leave me alone all night.


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    In general, at my club, the girls who regularly curl into fetal position on the floor are put on drinking restriction. If they violate their limited allowance of alcohol, they're warned and then fired. I think it's a great way to keep girls in order and let those of us that can drink responsibly, do so. Of course there is nothing they can really do tao keep track of what girl did what drug before they started boozing. The bartenders have never even had to cut me off because I just don't drink past my limit...which, admittedly, is quite high.

    I'll never forget the girl who passed out and rolled onto her hot curling iron...third degree burn down the side of her face. Poor thing.
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    Possibly ketamine? That "wah wah wah" thing leads me to believe that it could have been K. I've had rohypnol before, and it did make me sick and woozy, and the blackouts too, so I guess that could be it.
    Whatever it was, I'm so glad that it wasn't even MORE serious, and I hope that you are coping okay physically and emotionally. It sounds like the club tried to take care of you (except for stupid DJ), which is good. I'm so sorry this happened, and thank you for posting and reminding us all what creeps are out there poisoning drinks.

    I wonder what the percentage of these types of incidents in strip clubs is versus regular clubs. I bet it's waaay higher.
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    Thanks girl. I'm feeling much better now, and I'm just so happy that I was kept safe, because it could've been sooo much worse!
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    I'm glad you are okay. Is there a thread on how to avoid leaving your drink unattended or which kinds of drinks to get so you can easily ditch them? Shots invite more shots so I usually get gin and tonic or similar which I won't chug and I can't seem to keep with me at all times, especially when I am hanging out with the same guy for a while.


    Would you take your drink with you to the bathroom? Seems rude maybe? Take your drink on stage?

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    Oh, I always, always, ALWAYS take my drink with me to the bathroom and to the stage.

    I cannot emphasize enough that I have never left my drink unattended, and it still happened to me. It really just takes a turn of the head or a few seconds of distraction....that's why guys sometimes like to work in pairs, with one to distract you and one to slip the drug. But not always.

    it's quite often someone you haven't even talked to yet. All they have to do is walk past and flick their wrist.

    Aside from the obvious never leaving your drinks unattended, I would say that I definitely feel safer drinking shots, and I'm pretty sure it was the one and only beer I had that was drugged. A lot of girls place napkins over their drinks, with a hole poked through for a straw. At this point, I don't even feel safe leaving my drink in the dressing room. If you must sip on something, keep it in your hand and train yourself to not turn your head away from it.

    The funny, but not-so-funny thing about women is we often walk into traps because we're more afraid of offending than being hurt. We know what we're doing is dangerous, but we do it anyway, so we're not misunderstood as rude or suspicious. Yes, customers have given me a questioning look for taking my drink with me. Some have even asked, "don't you trust me?" And I answer, "no." If they're offended, I tell them we get in trouble for abandoning our drinks. Either way, I don't really care....if it can happen to me, despite the incredible caution I exercise, it can happen to anyone.

    Oh! And also, make sure the waitresses and bartenders do NOT deliver drinks while you're away. I've been called on stage while waiting for a drink order, and I ask the waitresses/bartenders to wait until I come back. Sadly, they sometimes care more about their tips or time and will drop off my drink, then move along. I do not drink it, if that's the case. I excuse myself to the DR, where I dump it and pretend I drank it.

    Bottom line is, you can never be too careful.
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    That's terrible I had a similar experience about five months ago. I was sitting with this guy and we had a few drinks. Then we went downstairs and did a few dances, about $200 including the tip, and he stopped to say "let's go upstairs and have a few more drinks, then do more dances." I said OK and we went back upstairs. I remember having another drink and having the waitresses and shotgirls being at the table drinking and whatnot; the next thing I remember was being downstairs at the dressing room while the house-mom and someone else helped me while I threwup into the garbage can. This was probably at about 9 or 9:30pm. I've never in my life been that fucked up, and I only remember having a few drinks. I was downstairs in the dressing room passed out unconscious the rest of the night, waking up only to throwup in the trash can next to me, until we closed at 2am, I was finally able to wake up and snap to reality. I asked the DJ and housemom what happened and they said I walked over to the table closest to the DJ and put my head down and passed out, so the DJ took me downstairs and then I started puking - I had no idea what was going on and have no recollection of the DJ taking me downstairs. I'm glad he did though, because that saved me from going downstairs again with the guy so I KNOW nothing happened... and I was definitely fucked up enough for someone to do whatever they want to me without me being able to stop them, and I've never been intoxicated to that point until then. It was crazy. I'm definitely careful with my drinks then, and I'm glad the staff at my club watch out for me like they did that night.

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    Camille, no, I'm not a smoker. And I've also wondered why guys would bother drugging someone in an environment like a SC. I don't know, maybe they think they can get us into the VIP and go from there...although our VIP room is very closely watched. I used to actually believe it didn't happen in SCs; only bars and night clubs. That was before I turned 21...never thought about them drugging my soda. I was a dumbass.

    A friend of mine said his buddy used to tip girls on stage with X tablets. Maybe some dickwads drop recreational drugs in our drinks because they think we want it?
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    farrah, i really don't know what they get out of it.

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    the only thing I can think is the possibility to take advantage of us in the back, even though it is watched. It also might just be a power thing. I wouldn't be surprised if it is, tbh. Guys "taking the power away from a dirty whore at the stripclub haha I showed her!"

    it's fucking gross that they think it's okay to do it to any woman and I would lose it on someone if I found out that they did it to me. Like, hire someone to fuck them up, lose it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i'm not even sure what the purpose of this is. i've been drugged at work and it's always ended with me passed out somewhere where no customer could ever get to me, so i've never understood why someone would even bother.

    you know yourself better than anyone else. you know how liquor makes you feel. you know when something is amiss. also, are you a smoker? i've smoked a laced cigarette before and ended up.....whatever.

    but i do remember some guy drugging me and i don't know how he did it because i was always with my drink, but once i started TELLING HIM MY ADDRESS and weird shit like that, i knew it was time to go find a bathroom floor to pass out upon.
    This made me LOL (the way you said it, not the situations)

    I can't even believe guys do this either! Are you really that desperate to get laid.. or.. i don't know.... cop a closer feel? Their are bouncers/directors/etc EVERYWHERE.. you won't get away with much even if they DO succeed in drugging you. Fucking faggots.



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    How long has it been at this point? You can always go to a hospital, tell them you suspect you were drugged, and they will run a blood tox screen.

    Also: take it from someone who has a lot of experience with this- cool it on the booze. It makes you lose a LOT of credibility, trust me. I used to drink a bottle of Jameson a night, I got drugged, and the manager didn't believe me.

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