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    I have my first incall appointment Thursday, any advice? I'm used to going to the guy and being a guest, so I'm a bit nervous about playing host for the first time. The client has told me he's bringing champagne, so I have wine glasses to take with me. I'm wondering if I should take any other drinks or some snacks with me too. Also, should I play music, and if so, what kind? Should I put out candles or anything else to make it look more homey and less hotel-style? And I'm not sure if I should dress up to greet him, or if its more "normal" to wear lingerie when the guy arrives? Do I just jump right into it, or take it slow, or let him lead? I always get so nervous with anything new, I can't wait until this is second nature to me!

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    Is this an extended appointment or just an hour? I always have water on hand. It is best to buy it at the store instead of paying $5 a bottle, but if I am really busy that day I just take from the mini-bar. I have never had snacks on hand, but sometimes people bring me fresh fruit--always a nice and sweet gesture. I <3 my clients! I like to set out a few tea candles. They are easy to throw away when you are done than big bulky expensive ones. I like to play music. I set up a playlist that ends a few minutes before it is time to go so he has no clue I am watching the clock. You can get champagne glasses from the bar or there may be some already in your hotel room above the mini-bar. Nobody will suspect anything. I usually just go down and ask for glasses and leave a small tip. Wear whatever you feel comfortable in. I wear lingerie, but I know a lot of girls who wear lingerie underneath a little dress or something more casual.

    If you are paying out of pocket for the hotel for this date if you don't mind multiple clients a day I would MOST DEFINITELY post an ad for incalls. Hotels aren't cheap where you are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    ...The client has told me he's bringing champagne, so I have wine glasses to take with me. I'm wondering if I should take any other drinks or some snacks with me too. Also, should I play music, and if so, what kind? Should I put out candles or anything else to make it look more homey and less hotel-style? And I'm not sure if I should dress up to greet him, or if its more "normal" to wear lingerie when the guy arrives? Do I just jump right into it, or take it slow, or let him lead? I always get so nervous with anything new, I can't wait until this is second nature to me!
    most guys are really nervous, even more nervous than i am, so i set the pace of the visit. i like to greet guys at the door in a sexy dress and classy high heels and sexy bra and panty set underneath. i setup my laptop with to relaxing music for background noise. it's almost too low to hear, but it helps keep me from getting too nervous until things get going. light a few candles and dim the lights. i bring my own wine glasses if i know the guy is bringing drinks. (i don't like to call for room service) i bring snacks for myself if i have several appointments. i treat hour and multi-hour guests pretty much the same except i sneak more looks to the clock when the for the hour guy. it took me a few times to get a routine.

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    To be honest, I dont go out of my way too much for a 1hr appt. My local incall that I book is pretty swanky, it creates its own ambiance with several types of mood lighting etc, and so there really isnt much I need to do in prep, save for bringing my cd, since the place also comes with a stereo system.

    I always bring water, if Ive seen the guy before and know what he likes to drink, or if hes mentioned that he will bring something (chocolate, cake when it was my bday...last night a guy brought me bagels (long story lmfao!)) then Ill bring something to drink with it.

    I always answer the door fully dressed, for one, many times a guy is nervous about meeting me, and seeing me full on like that on first sight will only help make him more nervous, put on the pressure to perform, etc before giving him a chance to get comfortable with me. Also, especially if its a multi-hour, almost always, they book a multi cause they arent interested in wham bam, but taking the time to build up. And some guys dont get intimate at all, they just want to talk or just want to curl up and cuddle or what have you....I have no idea what they want before they walk in the door and not going to assume/put the pressure on either or us by looking "immediately ready for action."

    Whether incall or outcall, I let the guy set the pace for what we do and when... some guys want it to feel like as much a date as possible, and Id guess if hes bringing champagne, hes along those lines. I would wear something sexy, but not provacotive, with something really sexy underneath. I would still keep water on hand, and maybe pick up some strawberries to compliment the champagne. Just enough to be thoughtful, not go overboard and be the one courting/sweeping him off his feet so to speak, thats what he wants to do for me while getting the feeling its appreciated.

    Also, I always get my glasses from room service/front desk.
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    Wishing you AWESOME LUCK xoxo!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by strippername View Post
    Is this an extended appointment or just an hour? I always have water on hand. It is best to buy it at the store instead of paying $5 a bottle, but if I am really busy that day I just take from the mini-bar. I have never had snacks on hand, but sometimes people bring me fresh fruit--always a nice and sweet gesture. I <3 my clients! I like to set out a few tea candles. They are easy to throw away when you are done than big bulky expensive ones. I like to play music. I set up a playlist that ends a few minutes before it is time to go so he has no clue I am watching the clock. You can get champagne glasses from the bar or there may be some already in your hotel room above the mini-bar. Nobody will suspect anything. I usually just go down and ask for glasses and leave a small tip. Wear whatever you feel comfortable in. I wear lingerie, but I know a lot of girls who wear lingerie underneath a little dress or something more casual.

    If you are paying out of pocket for the hotel for this date if you don't mind multiple clients a day I would MOST DEFINITELY post an ad for incalls. Hotels aren't cheap where you are.
    This is exactly what I do.

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    It went well, woot! The hotel was perfect for this kind of thing, and I came home with Moet and flowers


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    You didn't drink what he brought you or he brought you extra? I always throw the flowers away. haha. Now that you have finally hosted next time will be a breeze. If you don't mind can you PM me and let me know where you stayed.

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    He brought a bottle for me to take home as well I kept the flowers, I guess that's a sign of my love life, that I get them rarely enough that i brought them home haha.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    It went well, woot! The hotel was perfect for this kind of thing, and I came home with Moet and flowers
    awwww... that's so sweet. i'm so happy for you that it went well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    He brought a bottle for me to take home as well I kept the flowers, I guess that's a sign of my love life, that I get them rarely enough that i brought them home haha.
    I threw all my flowers away too. YOu will get ALOT of them. Make a wishlist on your website and you'll get even more cool stuff .

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    I love flowers, so I always keep mine when I get any.... I had on my site that I like lilies and chocolates, and it was like...every guy was bringing me lilies and chocolates! It was nice at first,and then I was like..Im going to get fat if I keep this up So I made a wishlist and guys do surprise me with stuff off of it. But they still also bring me lots of chocolate and lilies. I never get tired of the flowers, but I end up giving away chocolate to my friends..at one time I had a huge bin full of them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    It went well, woot! The hotel was perfect for this kind of thing, and I came home with Moet and flowers
    Hopefully you went home with a bit of cash, too!

    Congrats!

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Hopefully you went home with a bit of cash, too!

    Congrats!
    LOL yeah, that too!!


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    Hopefully you went home with a bit of cash, too!

    Congrats!
    Escorts don't work for free or for flowers or moet. It wouldn't be worth the trouble.

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    I'm so excited about my wishlist. How often do you guys end up getting things? Once every 5 or so? How often for more expensive things like jewelry, clothes, perfume?

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    Pretty often actually... I get lots of lingerie, and I dont put a certain perfume down (else Id end up with a hundred bottles of the same one) instead I put down what perfume notes I like, and guys actually head to the store with my preference list and ask the sales people for something that they think I will like...plus Ive gotten lotions and bath stuff all with the type of scents I say I like. Ive loved everything Ive gotten, and the guys really like shopping for something on my list that will still be a surprise.

    Most expensive thing Ive gotten so far is my galaxy tab...looove it! I do need to update my wishlist though come to think of it...I didnt put jewelry on there, I think I shall lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dddallas View Post
    I'm so excited about my wishlist. How often do you guys end up getting things? Once every 5 or so? How often for more expensive things like jewelry, clothes, perfume?
    Hmmm for me it was probably once every 3. Roses, Chocolates and Dior (Jadore) Perfume was what I received the most. The most expensive thing I received was a bedroom set from Boyles from my ATF. It's gorgeous.

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    Escorts don't work for free or for flowers or moet. It wouldn't be worth the trouble.
    Haha, I was completely kidding. Of course they don't!

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