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    I had a customer of mine come in tonight and he's into roleplay. Well the last time we did a roleplay we had one where he had a girlfriend and i forced myself onto him. Well tonight he came back on wanted to reverse the roles. He didnt go into detail about what he wanted before the private but i kinda knew it was going to be him forcing himself on me. he is a nice guy and harmless it seems. So while we were in pvt i played along saying "no i dont wanna fuck you, U need to leave my bf's gna b here any second so u need to leave" "no i dont want to suck ur cock" etc. so all that went on was me telling him no and him pulling my bra down and pulling my panties to the side during our roleplay. At the very end he did say " do you want me to say it?" So im like yah not knowing what he was going to say and he was like "im raping you" we were on the phone and he said it low but i wasnt expecting that. I dont think the computer would have picked it up but still.....I wasnt kool with him saying that but our pvt was pretty much over. I like to follow the rules and not do anything stupid, Hoping i didnt make a mistake going along with it.
    idk what do u think....

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    Default Re: Should i worry about this roleplay

    "Performer shall not portray depictions of sex involving any person under the age of eighteen (1 years of age, rape, incest, bestiality, fisting, necrophilia, any form of minor activity, urination and/or defecation."

    So - this is clearly against the rules, but I'm guessing you know that because you said you didn't think the computer would pick it up. On that - I think you are right, and suspensions are pretty instant, so I don't think that you are going to get in trouble. However, once a custy has broken the rules with you once, they expect to do it every time, and you may be caught in future, so that is something to consider.

    As to the moral/ethical side of things...well, that is something that you have to figure out for yourself. Did YOU feel uncomfortable during/after the roleplay? You shouldn't do anything that could have an impact on your emotional health, so if you feel bad, it doesn't matter a damn if you can find a loophole for it, you probably shouldn't be doing it.

    The thing about rape fantasy, is that it is surprisingly common. Even more surprising, is how common a fantasy it is for WOMEN, and for women fantasizing about being on the receiving end. And these women do NOT actually want to be raped - it is an extension of the sub/dom power play, and loss of control. Hence, its not the case that ALL men requesting rape play are actually rapists - many of them are into the dom side of things, and for whatever reason, that is how it comes up.

    If you are comfortable with the idea of "rape" play on cam, then there are a few things that you can do. First and foremost - don't use the word "rape"! This type of play is usually described as non-consent/reluctance. And the "reluctance" is more of a "oh no, we shouldn't, how dirty and wrong...oh ok then!" or "you are bribing me". In fact, the "bribing" scenario is a DIRECT crossover with traditional sub/dom stuff - its usually not even considered "rape play".

    Personally, when this kind of thing comes up, I will steer the guy toward something that is more clearly sub/dom than anything, and usually they are perfectly happy with it. I will do reluctance-type stuff, but only in a specific scenario (i.e., I don't want to suck your friend, but I am your slave so I have to, or oh no, professor, this is wrong, but if I want an A in college, I have to). If anyone wants anything that is more clearly on the "rape" side of the line than the "sub" side, I don't do it.
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    Default Re: Should i worry about this roleplay

    yah there was nothing Said about "rape" before the pvt. so i was like ok it's kool. Then at the end of the Pvt he said that. i pretended not to hear because i was surprised than the pvt was over a few minutes later. I didnt feel uncomfortable during just after he said that and it was over. I wouldn't Go along for that same roleplay if he came back so im not worried about him expecting it again. Im in control of my shows he just caught me off guard. I know it was just a fantasy not even Harsh or cruel or anything like that until he said that. but thank u, I dont like feeling like i broke the rules or anything like that. We shall see : )
    Thanks again for ur input!

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    ^^ It sucks when you aren't trying to break rules, and the guys jumps something on you!! Ugh. I hate those guys.

    Its like doing a bj show, thinking its all vanilla, "la la la, I'm sucking a dick"...and then he suddenly says something like "Yeah, suck that DOGS dick". Excuse me, but I have to log off now and shower in bleach.
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    Default Re: Should i worry about this roleplay

    great..
    good thing he did not say " im killing you".. thats step # 2 ... lol
    ...
    to do phone.. or to not do phone....er...


    U cant get in trouble for something someone says to u...
    u get in trouble when u say it...

    I used to do phone...
    Now ALL SOUNDS on my computer all turned OFF because.... just in case they put their cams on and its got sound too..
    I dont want to hear it.
    I dont want to hear the moaning and the this and that..

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    Default Re: Should i worry about this roleplay

    You'll probably be fine, girl. If they do suspend you, just explain what happened.

    We all learn as we go along. And now you know what COULD happen in a situation like this.

    But I really doubt they'll pick up on it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fridays View Post
    great..
    good thing he did not say " im killing you".. thats step # 2 ... lol
    ...
    to do phone.. or to not do phone....er...


    U cant get in trouble for something someone says to u...
    u get in trouble when u say it...

    I used to do phone...
    Now ALL SOUNDS on my computer all turned OFF because.... just in case they put their cams on and its got sound too..
    I dont want to hear it.
    I dont want to hear the moaning and the this and that..
    Slight threadjack - but this is why I resisted doing phone for so long!! I thought that hearing all the grunting and actual voices would just be crossing my comfort levels.

    Now I do phone, but only for specific customers - its like a treat for them (and it costs extra). I've found that the grunting doesn't bother me as much as I thought, and when doing roleplay and such, it is nice to have an actual conversation, not a type-and-wait.

    Just thought it was interesting that you stopped for the reason that I was hesitant to start!
    Threadjack over...
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Its like doing a bj show, thinking its all vanilla, "la la la, I'm sucking a dick"...and then he suddenly says something like "Yeah, suck that DOGS dick". Excuse me, but I have to log off now and shower in bleach.
    See, the problem with being from the internet is that sometimes it makes you hopelessly irreverent no matter how hard you're trying to avoid it

    and then you burst into uncontrollable peals of laughter

    not sexy

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    Thanks All! : ) Made me feel better its just like when he said that im like oook i def didnt agree to that wtf. But im not even going to let him know he made me uncomfortable because i dont wanna talk about it. Thanks girlss for the good advice, always helpful!

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    Quote Originally Posted by hf487 View Post
    Thanks All! : ) Made me feel better its just like when he said that im like oook i def didnt agree to that wtf. But im not even going to let him know he made me uncomfortable because i dont wanna talk about it. Thanks girlss for the good advice, always helpful!
    I think this is a good thread with an interesting problem in it. We can all benefit from reading about an experience like this.

    That's why I wanted to kind-of threadjack in a way and ask: what will you do if he comes to see you again and asks for the same role-play? You mentioned that you don't want to tell him that it made you uncomfortable. However, is there another way for you to deal with this AND make sure that you don't end up in the same situation (that is, without blocking this customer)?

    Will you just tell him that it's against the site's rules or that you're not comfortable with it or both? Just asking so you can think about it. And... some people who have had this happen will probably have some suggestions for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cam_Model_Jess View Post
    I think this is a good thread with an interesting problem in it. We can all benefit from reading about an experience like this.

    That's why I wanted to kind-of threadjack in a way and ask: what will you do if he comes to see you again and asks for the same role-play? You mentioned that you don't want to tell him that it made you uncomfortable. However, is there another way for you to deal with this AND make sure that you don't end up in the same situation (that is, without blocking this customer)?

    Will you just tell him that it's against the site's rules or that you're not comfortable with it or both? Just asking so you can think about it. And... some people who have had this happen will probably have some suggestions for you.
    Personally, I would tell him that using that word is against site rules, and so you can do a "reluctant" role play, but you cannot use words like that, and if he does again, you have to ban him.

    Of course, I'm betting many girls would just ban him from the outset if he came back - saves the hassle!
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