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    Default Thinking about becomming a dancer, need some advice!

    Hi girls! I'm seriously considering becoming a dancer for a few reasons. I'm GREAT at seductive dancing, and my friends (a lot of them guys) say that I have great sex appeal. It's something I've been considering for years, and since I recently had a son and finances are tough, it just seems like it might really be worth it to start dancing. I just have a few concerns and wonder if you guys could give me advice.

    My first concern is that I'm really skinny and sort of on the short side (5'5" and 107 lbs.) and I was wondering, will I make more money if a try to gain a bit of weight and muscle mass? I definitely plan on toning up first, but I wanted to know how much weight can affect tips.

    Another concern is that I have a cesarean scar. Is there any good ways to hide it with like makeup or anything? Would guys even mind it?

    Also, how important is tanning? I've got very fair skin. I also have 2 tattoos, one on both of my wrists, should I cover them with makeup?

    Sorry for all the questions, I just want to be prepared before I start, so I can make the most money possible. Thanks in advance for any input

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    Default Re: Thinking about becomming a dancer, need some advice!

    I'm 5 foot even, about 88 pounds (I do have c boobs, but they're still little), and I do great. A lot of guys LOVE petite girls, especially if you're curvy petite and not like washboard ab petite. It's one of my main appeals I have going for me, so don't worry. and um, 5'5" is above average height. You're gonna at least be wearing six inch heels hun. I'd say don't try to gain weight, it might end up in the wrong spots.
    I don't know about c section scars, but I have a lot of scars on my upper thighs from self mutilation and nobody has ever even asked.
    A lot of guys love pale skin too. I'm continually complimented on it at work, and it's another one of my main things I have going for me. A lot of guys dig pale girls.
    I'd say wrist tattoos don't even worry. Yeah, huge tattoos can affaect your earning potential, but small tattoos are usually "cute". I still know top earners with lots of large tattoos. Some clubs don't like tattoos, but wrist tattoos are usually not a problem.

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    Thanks so much for the advice!

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    Default Re: Thinking about becomming a dancer, need some advice!

    I wouldn't worry about your tattoos, unless you're determined to work at a club that doesn't allow any tattoos. And don't worry about your c-section scar, if it's really noticeable you could cover it with make-up or wear an outfit that would cover it except for when you're dancing. But plenty dancers have kids and so have scars or stretch marks, and if you're toned up it shouldn't be a problem. If you're skinny, that's probably a good thing, so I bet you'll be fine! Don't wait too long between trying to tone up and auditioning, the best workout of all is just working your shifts.


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    Default Re: Thinking about becomming a dancer, need some advice!

    You'll be fine as you are. Perhaps it would help to visit a club as a patron so you can see for yourself how varied strippers can be. Then go make your money!

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    Default Re: Thinking about becomming a dancer, need some advice!

    I'm sure nobody will notice your c section scar, unless your dancing nude it should be covered anyways. Skinny is good, it's in right now for the mainstream. I second going to a few clubs and seeing some of the girls, hell I went to a few and saw some women and I instantly felt more confident.

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    Default Re: Thinking about becomming a dancer, need some advice!

    Don't gain weight. You sound fine the way you are. I say this as someone who is short and who's weight has fluctuated throughput the past 2 years due to surgery and other factors. Losing weight and gaining it is so bad for your health and your skin. If you are at a healthy weight now great. Tone up if you want to, but don't ruin a good thing.

    And I'm going to be brutally honest, weight does affect what clubs you can get into. For super upscale they want tight and toned. There are some clubs I can't get into and I'm far from chubby. I'm not even "thick" (size 5) I just have a huge ass and huge 34F surgically enhanced tits. I gained weight after my BA and I'm just now getting back into shape via the Paleo diet and cardio 5x a week. It's a bitch but it's worth it.

    And tanning eh if you're gonna spray tan go for it. I don't tan and I do fine. I like my pasty white skin. (I'm also half Mexican so if I tan I get asked for my green card)

    I'm very heavily tatted and it does affect my earnings with some people but most of the time they're busy staring at something else to notice my tattoos
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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