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    Hi, I work in a strip club and there was this guy who comes in during days. He seemed real interested in me and kept telling me to come in during the day shift so I could spend some time with him. He seemed like a cool guy but in retrospect I guess I just wanted to believe he was alright. So he wanted to do a private dance and he wanted the chair farthest to the back which didn't strike me as odd because a lot of guys want to get in the corner where it is harder for anyone to see them.

    So he started getting real aggressive with me and forced me backwards so my head was below the rest of my body and then he was licking my pussy and when I tried to get up (which was difficult because my upper body was below my lower body, he licked his fingers and forced them inside of me.

    To add insult to injury his buddies had been going on about whether or not my boobs were fake and they said they had a bet going which I know was a bunch of shit and doesn't matter if it was or not, none of their business. When people ask if my boobs are real or not I always say they are real. Besides since when does an enhancement make my boobs suddenly fake?

    Anyway so one of his jerk friends said after my sexual molester finally paid me, "Are you a real girl?" He said that because when his buddy tried to force his fingers into me during the assault, I clamped down and tried to keep him out of me. And so my would-be rapist right then says, "You're small!" Like what the fuck you moron?

    I was going to post his name, occupation and a physical description of him and the club where I met this shit head. And maybe I will later, pending advice.

    I talked to a couple of the bouncers and I didn't want to create trouble. My plan is to just avoid him and even come into work a little later so hopefully I won't see him anymore.

    As an interesting aside I have noticed that cheap and rapist seem to go hand in hand.

    I am filled with rage and disgust and various other negative emotions and if I end up with genital herpes from this... Karma is a bitch fucker

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    Hi, I am so sorry this happened to you. That dick must have planned the whole out.
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    I'm sorry this has happened to you. I hope you at least get him 86'd if you choose not to call the police. extra hugs

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    I am so so so sorry. This happened to you. This is disgusting. Talk to your boss... this should never ever happen to a girl.

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    OH HELL NO

    ladies if this EVER happens to ANY of you- KICK, HIT, BITE, SCREAM, i don't care- FIGHT BACK.

    i wouldn't have even dealt his friends (i probably would have yelled for security if they didn't leave me alone), i wouldn't have even tried to 'be cool'- i would have FUCKED HIM UP- and i have done that- for less than what happened to you.

    he needs to NEVER come back. talk to management immediately. absolutely create trouble over something like this. i'm so sorry this happened to you, girl.

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    create trouble!!!!

    If it's a good club you won't be fired, and if it isn't you don't want to work there anyway.

    Stand up for yourself if you have the strength! Talk to the manager. Talk to the police. File a report!

    You can do this!

    I'm really sorry this happened to you. That's really shitty and I really hope this guy gets pounded into the ground soon, legally, and hopefully physically as well.
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    I appreciate all the advice but I talked to one of the girls there and she said that I should just avoid him and not make a big deal about it. She says it happens all the time. But I woke up thinking about it and I was going to go to work today but I don't think I will. I just know that if him and his friends are there, I will eventually have to dance on the stage next to where they sit and I will have to deal with them mocking me. I know that guys tend to stick up for each other, even when their buddies are rapists and I can just tell these guys are total assholes. If I see them tonight or tomorrow I will tell the manager what happened and point them out.

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    I agree with the others that you should report it to the police.

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    You could always call the manager for the shift and explain-- so that way you don't have to go in and risk facing them.
    If it happens all the time, I don't think you should trust that one woman's advice. If previous victims didn't bitch out management
    to get these guys banned, you got sexually assaulted. Even if you don't get them banned, if you're not the only one who
    reports this to the management (and you should also go up the chain to owner and GM), the next report should.

    Here's a question to consider very carefully-- and I'm not going after you for not reporting it if you feel like you can't stand up for yourself--
    you're probably still in shock. However--

    one month, one year, or ten years down the road-- if you do nothing now, are you going to be satisfied that you didn't fight to get this asshole
    banned and arrested? You might not be able to get him banned or arrested (though having paperwork out there that this has happened could
    help the next victim) but later on in life, are you going to be satisfied if you did not do everything in your power to put the hurt on this guy?

    Now, while this is a forum and you should not say anything illegal that could be later traced back to you-- if you know someone who could
    really hurt this guy-- then by all means, go in that direction instead of the legal one.

    But if not, if you have the power, then use that power to help keep this guy from victimizing dozens of more women down the line.
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    Thank you for taking the time to post so thoughtfully. I was thinking a minute ago that I am angry again and that I will go in and see how these guys act and then base what I decide to do on how they act, however... I do plan to tell the manager no matter what and to point them out to him.

    They are day shift guys and I think they are used to really desperate women. Also I am hoping they were drunk and especially the guy who assaulted me, what he did... it just seems like no right thinking guy would do that, like he had to be drunk.

    Also I feel guilty, like I led him on. But it is my job to lead guys on. This guy was such an idiot. Before the dance he kept trying to convince me to bring him home with me so he could spend the night with me. Like... for real? I mean who would invite a strange guy (especially a cheap one) to their home after essentially only just meeting them and not really knowing anything about them? I realize there are some troubled women out there who will bring complete strangers into their homes, strangers who's only intention is to have sex with them. I just don't get how this guy could possibly come to the conclusion that I would want to bring him home. I would think these guys would realize we have to deal with idiots like him nearly every day. And when I first got there they were sitting with one of the other girls, a day shift girl and now I feel like any girl who would hang out with these guys is okay with that kind of thing.

    But seriously... This guy, I don't think he even knows anything about vagina's and maybe the only times he was ever around one was after he got drunk and was raping someone. First he tried to shove his finger into my urethra, causing me searing pain. Then when he realized I was in agony he immediately tried to shove his rough fingers into my vagina, but he was going in sideways and I was clinching down to keep him out and now him and his buddies are going to try to spread rumors that I am not a real girl because my vagina was too small? Are all rapists this stupid?

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    don't make excuses. They're rapists who target day girls who are physically weaker than them.
    There is no way a guy would think it's okay to pin you and manually and orally rape you unless they just think that, as a woman, you are less than they are and your feelings and humanity mean exactly zero to them.

    And, going from that viewpoint-- yeah, they know jack shit about women and how we work because we don't matter to them except as targets.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post
    they just think that, as a woman, you are less than they are and your feelings and humanity mean exactly zero to them.

    I felt this exact sentiment was being very strongly communicated to me by this guy and his two buddies.

    I will talk to the manager, thank you.

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    good luck! *hugs*
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    def go to the police, to the manager, to CEO, to other dancers, to him-this is sexual assualt! who in the world would advise you to make no big deal about it??? that girl who told you its no biggie probably lets him do it.

    you were voilated and obviously still traumatized by it, you should do something. dont let this guy get away from this and prevent this from happening to another dancer. dont make it ok to assualt you or other dancers! you deserve respect! what a piece of shit he is!

    if it were me- ALL HELL WOULD BREAK LOSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would let EVERYONE know!!

    dont second guess, dont doubt yourself!! what he did was DEAD WRONG!

    if i were you i would make HUGE deal about it- i would be over the top dramatic about it- because this IS dramatic! tell everyone you were scared and ashamed thats why you didnt say anything at first, MAKE HIM PAY!! what a piece of shit!!

    MY GOD! his tongue went in your pussy?? SEXUAL ASSAULT! he forced your body into a position? SEXUAL ASSAULT! LICK his fingers to put inside you SEXUAL ASSUALT!!!!!!! fill out a police report NOW! and an incident report at work! DO NOT let anyone tell you its no big deal! it is! dont even let the managers let it slide, make sure he pays! ALSO, ID GO TO CORPORATE! no, it is not going over board by doing that! he violated your body! your precious lady parts! he made you a victim, he is disgusting and will ruin lives. nothing you do will be too much or over board- what HE did was over board!

    GOOD LUCK girl and BE STRONG! we have your back and you can do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    tell me his name, the city youre in, the club, occupation, physical- ANYTHING you know!!!! i will post this shit all over the internet right now!!!! god i am so pissed he did this to you!! give me his info, ill create hell for you right now! i will contact corporate for you!

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    I don't know his last name and I don't remember the name of the construction company he owns or works for. I am pretty sure he owns it. Our club is privately owned. I decided to stay home today. I will go in and talk to the night manager tomorrow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    def go to the police, to the manager, to CEO, to other dancers, to him-this is sexual assualt! who in the world would advise you to make no big deal about it??? that girl who told you its no biggie probably lets him do it.

    you were voilated and obviously still traumatized by it, you should do something. dont let this guy get away from this and prevent this from happening to another dancer. dont make it ok to assualt you or other dancers! you deserve respect! what a piece of shit he is!

    if it were me- ALL HELL WOULD BREAK LOSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would let EVERYONE know!!

    dont second guess, dont doubt yourself!! what he did was DEAD WRONG!

    if i were you i would make HUGE deal about it- i would be over the top dramatic about it- because this IS dramatic! tell everyone you were scared and ashamed thats why you didnt say anything at first, MAKE HIM PAY!! what a piece of shit!!

    MY GOD! his tongue went in your pussy?? SEXUAL ASSAULT! he forced your body into a position? SEXUAL ASSAULT! LICK his fingers to put inside you SEXUAL ASSUALT!!!!!!! fill out a police report NOW! and an incident report at work! DO NOT let anyone tell you its no big deal! it is! dont even let the managers let it slide, make sure he pays! ALSO, ID GO TO CORPORATE! no, it is not going over board by doing that! he violated your body! your precious lady parts! he made you a victim, he is disgusting and will ruin lives. nothing you do will be too much or over board- what HE did was over board!

    GOOD LUCK girl and BE STRONG! we have your back and you can do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    At least call the manager tonight. Don't put it off until tomorrow if you can help it because then you'll just want to keep putting it off. It's not your fault this happened and fuck anyone who infers that-- you need to make a stink, and the sooner the better.
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    I've felt angry and guilty and sick and out of it all day, plus I lost a day's work. All I can think about is this asshole and what he did and his asshole buddies

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    I have been assualted at least twice. Both times I said nothing directly after the incident but got drunk and walked out of the club. When I got the courage up my first club were supportive, asked if I wanted him charged, had me look up the ID scans on the computer to identify him. He is still allowed in the club.

    The second club told me to take 3months off for walking out on my shift. Never mind my reason.

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    This makes me so fucking angry. I hate that the overarching view in society for things like this (even when you're not a sex worker) is that if a "man" decides that he has a right to your body and takes it, that somehow YOU did something to deserve it and should therefore shut up and deal. Fucking makes me sick. I agree with Fiendish. Barring the possibility that nothing will be done to make these assholes pay, for your own peace of mind/mental health, RAISE HELL. There are so many times in the past where I should have stood up in the face of shit like this and I didn't. I fucking regret it. What you do for a living does NOT make shit like this OK. There are all kinds of jobs out there where occupational hazards for bodily/mental harm exists and when those incidents occur, no one shrugs their shoulders at those people and goes "Comes with the territory. You get nothing".

    Ugh.

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