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    I've been thinking about making videos and occasionally camming with other performers in the area. Has anyone else done this, and if so, what kind of requirements do you impose for your own safety/well being?

    My main concern is that someone could always turn their back on you and do something to sabotage your business or safety, or they could just let information slip if they're not as responsible as you. It's an issue of trust...as long as they're reasonably sane and understand that you would also have the power to "out" them - it usually shouldn't be an issue, right? But people can go a little crazy without any warning...

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Camming with others, safety?

    I cammed with a friend. We had a bunch of classes together at school and were really really close.
    She started doing nightly skype shows (free ones) for her favourite regular - a guy who would tease and berate me any time we went on cam. She told him her real name. She told him where she lived. She told him what school she went to. She constantly said MY real name on cam. She didn't care about her safety as much as I did, because she wasn't as popular as I was.
    Eventually she met this guy and they started dating; he hated me, didn't want her to see me any more, blahblahblah, long story short, she ditched me and completely freaked out that I had "made" her get on cam (wasn't complaining at the $600/day when we were on cam, but, whatever). Eventually she posted some shit on Twitter and "outed" some aspects of my cam persona that I had fudged. Almost ALL of my regulars flipped shit that I had "lied" to them, and caused some massive problems for me.

    I will probably never cam with someone again.

    Maybe working with someone else who is actually established as a camgirl might be a little safer, though.


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    Default Re: Camming with others, safety?

    @MissEgo: That's awful, and that chick sounds selfish and inconsiderate as fuck. She's fucking around with her safety, and she'd better hope some obsessed guy doesn't find her in real life.


    I have no interest in camming with another model (whether male or female). It even annoys me when I visit a model friend and guys ask me "When are you and ____ gonna do a show together?" *sighs* First off, I don't do sexual things with females (not interested). Secondly, I'm a SOLO cam girl.

    A lot of guys don't even know how to act when they see that there's another female in your MFC public chat. They'll either start comparing the two of you, or they'll spend most of the time flirting with the other model when they spotlight should be on you. I've had some random guy come in my room and say with a pouty face "Fox, I miss ____" (other model he likes). Gee, thanks for making your ONLY topic of conversation about ANOTHER model.....

    I've had some jerk in my room insult my model friend while she was right there in my room under her premium account. He was such a douchebag. I cussed him out and banned him.
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    Default Re: Camming with others, safety?

    Wow MissEgo, that really sucks...I remember also reading something else like that on this forum, which was making me think that maybe it's not such a good idea.

    And yeah, those are good points TheBrownFox. I might still be interested in camming with another girl occasionally, but it would be annoying with people asking me about her when she's gone and comparing us.

    I would say that the risk I'd be taking may not be worth it.

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    Actually now that I think about it more, it might still be worth trying. The girl I'm talking to has experience modeling for a fetish site and has made videos before. Perhaps we could sign up on a website that I'm not already on, and go under a different name. Wouldn't be 100% safe but better I think. At least I could still keep my "personal space" on Streamate.
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    Default Re: Camming with others, safety?

    My main concern is STD's... you can get one even if it's a girl.. no one is concerned about that?? that's why i have always done solo shows.. no men or women. Cuz I am not willing to die for this job.. its temporary to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymous camgirl View Post
    My main concern is STD's... you can get one even if it's a girl.. no one is concerned about that?? that's why i have always done solo shows.. no men or women. Cuz I am not willing to die for this job.. its temporary to me.
    I agree that STD testing/safe sex practices are important. I didn't mention it because it's obvious to me, but it's still worth noting. You take the same risks as you would any other non-monogamous partner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by amberose View Post
    I agree that STD testing/safe sex practices are important. I didn't mention it because it's obvious to me, but it's still worth noting. You take the same risks as you would any other non-monogamous partner.
    Yea I can't get over it.. that's why i never have sex or anything..lol... not worth dying for.. sorry to be a downer but it's true. I have alot of plans for my life and HIV and Herpes is not on the list.

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    I have done girl girl shows with ladies within my industry that are shooting so I ask for a current test which they should have since they're actively shooting. Haven't had an issue yet. I haven't done it in a while though. Too much of a hassle finding girls and driving around lol

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    Default Re: Camming with others, safety?

    Those are my corcerns as well.
    Trusting and getting along well with someone is my main issue, especially when money is involved.

    I would love to do some softcore g/g camming & content thou.
    Months ago I got to know a local girl (which is one of a top earner on an indie site I am on), she had the idea and contacted me first.

    On a similar note: a friend suggested to help me (I didn't ask) shoot an outdoor custom video, we were very chill about it and it caused lil drama after...

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    A model that I love to watch sometimes on Streamate had me dying laughing one day when guys asked her if she'd cam with another female, and she said that she doesn't wanna be up close to another model's gross vagina. LMFAO!!!
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    Oh good point about comparing!!
    When I did camshows with the girl I mentioned above, guys ALWAYS compared us. Luckily I'm the pretty one (I thought about saying "JK" to show some modesty, but I'd be lying). Guys saying "Oh I like the redhead better", "___ looks like a man, but ____ is hot!" etc, makes it really hard to keep your relationship with the other girl intact - especially if the comparison is VERY one-sided.

    I had a guy ask me about couples camming the other day; I said I don't do it. He said what about when bf films us when I'm off cam. Um, does everyone do that? Cuz we sure as hell never have. He's not into it, so we don't do it. I told the guy that and he said "I'll stop saving up for you then." like, dick move, amiright?!

    I think maybe having a one-time meetup with someone where you make videos/photos would be better than regularly camming. Saves you from the other person revealing your info on cam, and keeps the guys from comparing you too much. I think, anyway..


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    I've only cammed with one person. My boyfriend and father of my two children. So, obviously I trust him. & he never chatted usually watched tv in the background until it was time for us to do our thing.
    I've thought about asking my best friend to cam with me when she gets her teeth fixed. I know she would understand the need for privacy..but she's a little ditsy. I more or less would just like to get her into it. She always wanted to be a stripper then when she had kids she starting thinking she couldn't be. I'd love to show the world of camming to her so she can do what she likes and help her get out of a shitty $$ situation.
    I would probably never do a random hookup on cam..I'd be more aggressively pursuing porn if that's what I wanted to do. In fact, that's why I like camming better. Your own choices! You don't get paired with someone you don't know and they're like "oh hey I'm soandso and I'll be ramming you on camera later" Not dissing it, but it's not for me. I'd only cam with people I've known and trust..and of course I'd give them the run down on what goes on.

    OH and a lot of sites are strict about who you have one.
    Ex.MFC allows absolutely NO MEN. I've heard stories of girls losing their account over a guy speaking off cam to ask the girl a question real quick.
    Most sites want the other person to have a model account on there so they have record that the other person is of age.
    at very least, upload a picture where only you can see of the other persons ID so admin can look in on it.

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    Sounds like something i would say... maybe it was me..lol

    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    A model that I love to watch sometimes on Streamate had me dying laughing one day when guys asked her if she'd cam with another female, and she said that she doesn't wanna be up close to another model's gross vagina. LMFAO!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymous camgirl View Post
    Sounds like something i would say... maybe it was me..lol


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    Nope ..guess wrong girl afterall..lol

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    Renna, is that you???

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