LOL missy. That is because the dancers of SW are pros who don't leave money in guys' pockets if they can have it in their purses instead.
But you obviously also know the reality, which is that there are some dancers who don't approach the job with the same mentaility or work ethic. I really think of minnow's "freshen up" example as a proxy for any excuse that a girl might give if she is simply not motivated or interested. As you obviously know though, the reality is that the real club dancer population is very much a mixed bag and there are some who don't approach the job with the same mentality.
Many years ago, I developed a policy of never chasing after a dancer, ever. Most dancers can sense when a guy is very interested simply by how he is looking at her. I will also sometimes use a good stage tip as a signal. If she is either not motivated enough or simply too busy to approach me, then c'est la vie.
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