
Originally Posted by
rickdugan
In the spirit of getting this back on track, since I actually believe that this thread started to derail before it fully developed...
I need to be sold on the notion that I should spend money on a particular dancer. If I have to get in line or take a ticket, then I just have no interest. In fact, there is virtually no situation in which I'm going to approach a girl and ask her to take my money. It is just my particular approach. IME, girls who are highly sought after often take it for granted and become complacent, which can lead to brush-off situations or service issues if she DOES agree to take the money.
I simply don't need it badly enough to chase after it, which is why I don't normally find myself in this particular predicament. I also don't get particularly worked up over other issues, including any girl who, even after I have let it be known that I'd be receptive to her approach, decides that sitting in the DR, or at the bar or at a table by herself, etc., is her better choice. When I see this happen, which is not too often but it does occur now and then, I simply put on a bemused smile and look at the other options.
A strip club visit is always a crap shoot. You never knows what is in store or what is going on in the minds of the dancers that you are dealing with. IMHO, trying to figure out why some girl doesn't want to take your money is a pointless exercise. There are probably dozens of reasons why this might happen, some of them legit and some just a function of indifference, but in any event you will never know and most of this is outside of your control.
At least by waiting for them to approach me, not only am I obviously not dealing with brush-off issues, but the girls in question are more motivated than the ones who think that money will rain down on them all night from the ceilng of the DR.
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