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    Anyone else besides me?

    I have a somewhat pronounced labia and clitoral stem. I mean, it doesn't really look like a tiny penis, so it's not THAT bad...but I just wish it was a bit more petite. I'm getting a VCH piercing, so maybe that'll help.

    Also....I'm freakin Spanish. I have a dark asshole and outer labia. I hate it MUCH more than my "outie."

    Anyone got anything to say to make me feel better?

    ps. I know I get to enjoy the bonus of better oral sex, but since I have nothing to compare it to, it doesn't make much of a difference to me.
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    Pussy is pussy. Anyone who complains about it, be they in the club or in your bedroom, doesn't deserve to be seeing it!

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    I used to feel the same way, I am naturally quite dark and I have big lips and as a teenager I was so embarrassed. But men don't care. If I've ever had a bad word it's been from another woman, never from a man. Like Shanna said, pussy is pussy. Especially to men.

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    My lips stick out too & sometimes they get pulled on during sex. I've always been self conscience about them & always trying to tuck them inside. I have found that men really like it because they love looking at pussy & this is very out there, in your face no hiding it kind. Funny though, even though I know this, I still try to tuck them up there at work! Lol!
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    I only get horny when I've tucked a few benjamins in my thong; it's a money fetish.."

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    I love color on the lips & I'm extremly oral, never really cared about anus color. I read the anal bleaching thread & always laugh..

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    I've seen nasty ass pussies of all colors. Gross is gross. Just like I've seen nice pussies in a variety of colors.
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    If I were to see my own vagina on someone else's body, I would think it's lovely. It's just that it's mine, I think.
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    I've got an outtie, and one time in highschool I heard a mean comment and it gave me the worst complex for the longest time. I was so worried about it when I started dancing nude. But then I saw the way men almost become hypnotized by vaginas, and got nothing but good comments. Now I love dancing nude!

    And like camille said, I've never been with a girl whose vagina I wasn't all about, no matter what it looked like.

    ETA: I've also been with all different races of women, and the color of their pussy has never even crossed my mind. Idk if guys are pickier about this or what, but I feel like this is probably the same as the big lips issue... No one is judging you as harshly as you are judging yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Chet Pussy: All right, pussy, pussy, pussy! Come on in pussy lovers! Here at the Titty Twister we're slashing pussy in half! Give us an offer on our vast selection of pussy, this is a pussy blow out! All right, we got white pussy, black pussy, Spanish pussy, yellow pussy, we got hot pussy, cold pussy, we got wet pussy, we got
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    I'm half Mexican so I know what you mean. Buuuut variety is the spice of life!
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    My inner labia are asymmetrical, and I'm a bit self-conscious about that. Basically one lip hangs down lower than the other.

    I remember one of the first times I ever went to a gyno, I was watching the exam with a mirror, and I saw the doctor briefly looked at the bigger one with what I thought was a kind of puzzled expression. Whether she actually made that expression or I imagined it, it freaked me out for the longest time. I thought, this woman sees pussies all day, so if she thinks mine is weird than it must be really weird!

    Like most of the other posters who said they were self-conscious when they were younger but less so now, I'm pretty much over caring about the asymmetricality of it. When I first heard about plastic surgery options for the vulva, I briefly entertained the idea, but I decided it's certainly not an issue worth all that time, pain, and money.

    I may not have ever been told mine's the prettiest pussy someone's ever seen, but I have been told it's the best he's ever had. That's more important in my book (especially with someone you care about). And I've never been told it's weird or gross looking.

    I think saying "pussy is pussy" from a man's perspective is over-simplifying a bit, because they can certainly see and appreciate the fact that every woman is different. I do agree that they are in awe just to see it, though, and aren't nearly as critical as we are.

    Besides, my pussy's way prettier than any ballsack, (), asymmetrical or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Natalllia View Post
    I may not have ever been told mine's the prettiest pussy someone's ever seen, but I have been told it's the best he's ever had. That's more important in my book (especially with someone you care about). And I've never been told it's weird or gross looking.
    This totally! Couldn't have said it better.

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    If a guy doesn't like your pussy he doesn't like girls. Ive seen many girls I didn't think were attractive, Ive met some I didn't like. Ive never been face to face with a pussy I didn't like and I didn't think was beautiful

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    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Golden View Post
    Anyone else besides me?

    I have a somewhat pronounced labia and clitoral stem. I mean, it doesn't really look like a tiny penis, so it's not THAT bad...but I just wish it was a bit more petite. I'm getting a VCH piercing, so maybe that'll help.

    Also....I'm freakin Spanish. I have a dark asshole and outer labia. I hate it MUCH more than my "outie."

    Anyone got anything to say to make me feel better?

    ps. I know I get to enjoy the bonus of better oral sex, but since I have nothing to compare it to, it doesn't make much of a difference to me.

    Sounds like your pussy is exactly the way I wish mine was.

    I suffer from pale pussy with small inner lips.

    Such is my curse...

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    ^^^Ok, we have a winner!!! Finally, someone envies my dark outie. That makes me feel better.

    And for the record, I will totally trade you!
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    Yours sounds a lot like mine, except I'm maybe not as dark? Still pretty dark in comparison to my skin tone. There are some AWESOME threads on this site about big juicy pussy lips, so get searching.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lifetravelergirl View Post
    Sounds like your pussy is exactly the way I wish mine was.

    I suffer from pale pussy with small inner lips.

    Such is my curse...
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    It's funny, cuz I just posted in one of the pic threads a couple of pictures of women who have long inner labia...I think it's incredibly sexy...and I'm an asexual!

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    I love my outie. Luscious, pretty, butterfly pussy . It looks best without a beard around the lips. The only thing I hate is the stigma attached to the look; longer labias mean a loose vagina, which is so untrue. Outside of that, the outie is one of the reasons I get paid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by idgaf_luvr View Post
    I love my outie. Luscious, pretty, butterfly pussy . It looks best without a beard around the lips. The only thing I hate is the stigma attached to the look; longer labias mean a loose vagina, which is so untrue. Outside of that, the outie is one of the reasons I get paid.
    UGH, that might be a serious factor in why I feel insecure about it. I would fucking cockpunch some douchebag if he
    ever said my shit looks loose.

    I tend to blend into a crowd of men and become "one of the guys." When they make their stupid jokes about tiny dicks and philly cheese steaks, I want to scream at them. EVERY pussy looks better than cock and balls.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Golden View Post
    jokes about . . . philly cheese steaks
    ???
    Can you post some of those?

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    I got a dangler myself It looks like my pussy is sticking her tongue out all the time. From the back, it looks pretty freaking sexy.. Or so I've been told! I'm half Mexican myself so my lips are on the darkside as well.. Thing is, men love pussy. I think they're ugly, they seem to think they're the nectar of the gods..lol..
    I've had alot of guys say some funny things over the years though. It looks like a wad of bubble yum., Is it pierced?, What's hanging off your pussy?.. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Golden View Post
    EVERY pussy looks better than cock and balls.
    A thousand times yes. Balls are just hilarious looking. Every set of them.


    Definitely have a serious lips here. Next guy who calls me 'bacony' is going home with a broken jaw.

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    Slowpoke:
    I carry around some horseradish sauce, just incase I crave some arby's lookin at it

    That's just off the top of my head
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    Balls remind me of those bags of flaming dog crap I used to drop on porches.
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