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    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Golden View Post
    Slowpoke:
    I carry around some horseradish sauce, just incase I crave some arby's lookin at it

    That's just off the top of my head
    Good one!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Golden View Post
    ^^^Ok, we have a winner!!! Finally, someone envies my dark outie. That makes me feel better.

    And for the record, I will totally trade you!
    I've always thought the darker ones with more prominent features were sexier.

    I would happily trade ^_^

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    I found a blog dedicated to reassuring women with larger labia that they are beautiful and "normal". It's nice to be able to make some comparisons as all the girls at my club have innies and I often feel self conscious and try to tuck myself in lol

    http://www.lovelargelabia.tumblr.com

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    Sooooo fucking sexy...


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    I'm actually jealous. I have a porno vag, and I wish I had a bit more fleshiness (like the above).

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Sooooo fucking sexy...

    Who is this?

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    ^ That was just on that link siliconedoll posted. Third or fourth page, maybe?

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    OK

    I kind of like this one. Takes all kinds.

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    Last edited by lokikola; 11-11-2012 at 05:44 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kisca View Post
    ^ that picture defeats the purpose of the thread..
    Yep.. I thought that too. Especially that he 'kind of' likes it too comment. Wow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    Pussy is pussy. Anyone who complains about it, be they in the club or in your bedroom, doesn't deserve to be seeing it!
    This!
    I have a large labia (gets caught in my underwear sometimes!) and while I get a few 'fetish' mentions, Ive never had a negative comment
    Theres no sense crying over every mistake,
    you just keep on trying till you run out of cake

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    Quote Originally Posted by lokikola View Post
    I had always been very self conscious about this. The first person to ever see my pussy was my ex husband after we'd been married a few months, and the next day he asked me if my lips had always been that big. He never saw it again. Sex in the dark for 2 1/2 years.
    im still self conscious about it but I know I'll never get surgery for it so I'm just trying to get over it.
    Ugh... Some people should think before they open their mouths O_o ...

    Did he learn his lesson or did he never realize the error of his ways? He probably didn't mean anything negative with his comment, right? I mean for many guys those sorts of things are a mystery to them but I appreciate where you are coming from. I had a guy point at my clitoris and then ask me, "Is that your clitoris?" And whenever I think of that incident (which was in 2004 btw) I am like, "WTF, is my vagina so weird that you can't even tell if it's my clitoris or not?" I realize he probably didn't mean anything negative by it but my god... some people just shouldn't talk.

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    I have said that any vagina (provided it is healthy and functional) is lovely. However, the labia still seem to be the final frontier in terms of acceptance for men and women alike.

    We post on this forum about how girls with small boobs are just as pretty as girls with large knockers. We post that skinny girls are just as pretty as curvier women. We post how girls with short hair, long hair, red hair, pale skin, tan skin, tattoos, large noses, etc. are beautiful. But when it comes to pussies girls are just as likely to say something disparaging as men are.

    I mean look at Picture Post: there are threads titled Boobie Pics, Dick Pics, Girls with Glasses.... and then you get a post titled "BEST Vagina". "BEST" implies that there is a spectrum of good-to-bad vaginas... that unlike breasts (which have neutrally titled threads) vaginas are not created equal. If there is a best... there has to be a worst... some vaginas are good.... some are bad... and 5 pages have been dedicated to weighing in on which vagina is "BEST"... what ever that means.

    Previously girls have jumped into conversations proclaiming that they feel fortunate since they have a "pretty pussy". Qualifiers like "pretty", "best", and the like make a statement that the oposite qualities exist for example "ugly" and "worst".

    What makes a pussy a pretty pussy? Well, going by the "Best Vagina" thread in Picture Post it appears to be a pussy that is relatively hairless, pale in color, with small-to-non-existent labia minora.

    Anything outside of that description (based on the thread title) is less than great.

    Previous posts:
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...ussy-quot-more!
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...r-to-mine-quot
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...59838-Big-Lips
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    ^What Sophia said.
    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    I started that thread & will say, the best pussy has VERY nice lips with large labia & she knows who she is

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    I wish we could join dick pic thread in lounge with this because I see a double standard....

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    After I'm freshly shaven, I will be posting a picture of my vagina.

    Also, I have to say that I'm much more proud of it now that I have my hood piercing. Another girl has it done and her labia is a lot more introverted than mine. I think mine's betterr. >

    Ugh! And when she saw mine, she started whining about me "copying off of her," like she's the first bitch to get a hood piercing. I told her I got mine to improve my oral sex life, and she says "who would want to wrap their lips around THAT!?!" Referring to my "outie." harsh.
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

    Farrah rocks your world, biatch!

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    Quote Originally Posted by unbeleavable View Post
    I wish we could join dick pic thread in lounge with this because I see a double standard....
    I don't feel there is a double standard here.

    We may worry that our vaginae look strange or that our vaginae are not pretty enough but typically for women the state of our vaginae has nothing to do with competing for cock or determining our self-worth. Men who focus on their penis size are frequently lacking in other departments like career, personality, social skills, education...

    I think many men only care what a woman looks like, what her body looks like, they don't care about who she is as a person, what her likes and dislikes are or whether or not she is a kind or honest. I know that for myself what a guy looks like doesn't make him a good candidate for intimacy but I'm into relationships and people, not just hookups or sexual conquests or donkey dicks. Sex is great but Intimacy is important too and intimacy isn't an inches thing.

    Also if a guy has a penis that is just too small to be stimulating then that is one thing. But penis pill manufactures aren't selling to those guys. Penis pill manufacturers and penis pump distributors... they are selling to the guys who want to impress everyone with their huge elephant cocks and their fantasies revolve around hurting women with their monster cocks.

    I've seen the porn. I know what guys want and it's creepy.

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    I had a hood piercing but my hubby didn't like it- said it looked slutty. I think they suit bigger lips more than smaller lips.
    Tiny tweaks----->BIG CHANGES

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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Quote Originally Posted by lifetravelergirl View Post
    I don't feel there is a double standard here.

    We may worry that our vaginae look strange or that our vaginae are not pretty enough but typically for women the state of our vaginae has nothing to do with competing for cock or determining our self-worth. Men who focus on their penis size are frequently lacking in other departments like career, personality, social skills, education...

    I think many men only care what a woman looks like, what her body looks like, they don't care about who she is as a person, what her likes and dislikes are or whether or not she is a kind or honest. I know that for myself what a guy looks like doesn't make him a good candidate for intimacy but I'm into relationships and people, not just hookups or sexual conquests or donkey dicks. Sex is great but Intimacy is important too and intimacy isn't an inches thing.

    Also if a guy has a penis that is just too small to be stimulating then that is one thing. But penis pill manufactures aren't selling to those guys. Penis pill manufacturers and penis pump distributors... they are selling to the guys who want to impress everyone with their huge elephant cocks and their fantasies revolve around hurting women with their monster cocks.

    I've seen the porn. I know what guys want and it's creepy.
    I understand your view of what you see is a mans fixation on himself & size but if women didn't see some type value in a mans cock believe me men wouldn't see as high of a value. I agree even in the men's locker room where there are no women, men seem to care. I do remember as a dancer myself when I was younger & I was sitting at a table with 2 women & they pointed out a guy to me & their comment was, "tell him to stop taking steroids" in reference to his cock being small.

    I can't speak for all men but I know myself & what attracts me & to keep my attention it takes more than her body. I look to connect on many levels, mentally, emotionally & physically.

    I also understand what you've seen in porn & your view & not all men want to hurt someone. Everything in this world is about sex except sex, sex is about power & power can be creepy & nasty. Its who you give the power to...

    sorry to highjack but you put some time in your post so I responded.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    Pussy is pussy. Anyone who complains about it, be they in the club or in your bedroom, doesn't deserve to be seeing it!
    OMG before I scrolled down to see your answer that was exactly what I was gonna reply. So true! Pussy is pussy, they like it regardless. If they don't like, whatever. Their penis is probably much uglier. Stripping has taught me to be much more accepting of mine and other people's body. Everyone is different and that's hot!

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