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    Default Eh, maybe you're just ugly??

    It seems all these hustling tips factor out looks, as if all any dancer needs to fix what is wrong is to just upgrade her hustle, rather than her body.

    Just a thought!

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    Default Re: Eh, maybe you're just ugly??

    Well it's not like we can see any of these other girls, so there's no way of knowing. Plus, it's been said time and time again but it really makes no difference how hot you are. Sure it helps, but some of the best money makers out there are not (by my definition "hot"). You can be smoking hot and still make no money and just have guys sit there and tell you how pretty you but never budge.

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    Default Re: Eh, maybe you're just ugly??

    This has the potential to open a can of worms.

    Yeah, maybe the dancer is just ugly. Although I've seen some real uggers make bank.

    Because if you can sell ice to an Eskimo, you don't need to be a perfect 10. Or even a standard 7.

    Reality is - there are very few dancers who are "Too hot to hustle". All of us need selling skills. Being beautiful helps, being able to upsell a regular lap dance to a $500 CR with your wit and wile helps a lot more.



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    Default Re: Eh, maybe you're just ugly??

    Being hot is like having a gun. If you don't know how to fire it and hit your target you're fucked.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    ^Well put.



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    Default Re: Eh, maybe you're just ugly??

    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Being hot is like having a gun. If you don't know how to fire it and hit your target you're fucked.
    LOL i like this

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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    ^Well put.
    I like my big guns
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    ^I know you do baby, I've seen. Lol!



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    Default Re: Eh, maybe you're just ugly??

    FACT: every single woman on the face of this earth is beautiful in one way or another.

    Not ever person will see the beauty we all posses, but it is there. Sure working-out, new outfits, and a pampered appearance doesn't hurt in the money making arena, but each woman has their own naturally beautiful feature. Besides all that on the outside, inner-beauty shines much brighter than outward appearance.

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    Default Re: Eh, maybe you're just ugly??

    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Being hot is like having a gun. If you don't know how to fire it and hit your target you're fucked.
    So awesome, you should put out a book of quotes!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicc View Post
    FACT: every single woman on the face of this earth is beautiful in one way or another.

    Not ever person will see the beauty we all posses, but it is there. Sure working-out, new outfits, and a pampered appearance doesn't hurt in the money making arena, but each woman has their own naturally beautiful feature. Besides all that on the outside, inner-beauty shines much brighter than outward appearance.

    Yep... but this IS a strip club environment... Beauty on the inside helps but it isn't going to get you through an audition, or get guys to give you money. There has to be something going for you - pretty face, banging body. A nice smile, or a kind heart isn't going to earn you money when you look like jabba the hut.


    And a bit more on topic: Hustle is hustle. Even if you are so hot guys ALWAYS approach you, it's always good to know how to make even more money out of them, surely?

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    Tempest on the mark and very true. The fact is yes the most beautiful girls may not make money while the ugliest might. It comes down to selling. Also, the one thing I rarely see dancers mention is that you need to know what groups find you hot. Many dancers think they will appeal to everyone and this isn't true. I had more of an exotic look along with being heavier (not overweight, more muscular)and generally speaking college boys didn't love me. However older professional men did and they had money. To deal with these guys you not only had to be beautiful but you had to be very personable. They often wanted a hot girl they could tell their troubles with. Young guys generally didn't care about this they just wanted what they considered hot (usually blonde, thin with breast implants). Of course there are exceptions (I had a couple of frat boy regulars)but for the most part I experienced this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicc View Post
    FACT: every single woman on the face of this earth is beautiful in one way or another.
    Sounds good but that is not what men at the strip club think. They're looking at physical beauty NOT inner beauty. Let's not blow smoke up each other's ass.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovelyme View Post
    Sounds good but that is not what men at the strip club think. They're looking at physical beauty NOT inner beauty. Let's not blow smoke up each other's ass.
    True when men walk in before they talk to the girls they want to see hot women, women better looking than those they know. Strippers are supposed to be hot. Granted what is hot can vary but most men would not find a woman who is overweight or has an ugly face as hot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Being hot is like having a gun. If you don't know how to fire it and hit your target you're fucked.

    Fuck am I fucked or what. So true. Well said.
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    Default Re: Eh, maybe you're just ugly??

    If an incredibly hot, solid 10 girl slumped down, spread her legs and said, "man...I am ouuut of shape. So, you want a dance, or what?"

    Would YOU buy one from her?

    (I totally would.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frenchie View Post
    It seems all these hustling tips factor out looks, as if all any dancer needs to fix what is wrong is to just upgrade her hustle, rather than her body.

    Just a thought!
    Maybe beauty is in the eye of the beholder and none of us are in a position to judge another.

    Just a thought.
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    This has been my experience by observation and personal account. I work with a solid 10 and another about a 6-7 at best. They both are solid top earners despite the 10 being the requisite "apex predator" (skinny, bleached blonde hair, breast implants). She doesn't have a bad personality, she's just very quiet and businesslike. However she always makes bank. I don't think I need to explain why.

    The 6-7 is a little chubby in the midsection, sweet but plain face, brown hair. She is a HUSTLER. She has the best personality of anyone I have seen in a LONG time. She talks to everyone, laughs, makes them feel special. I see her in the couch dance room almost the entire night.

    Now for me: It's no secret that after I got my guns my ego inflated along with them. For the first few months I was like "Hah! fuck all those bitches with the saggy tits, the small tits, etc! They don't have shit on ME!!!" I got a pretty rude awakening. Yeah my earnings have gone up and the new additions do help but ultimately what makes a quality regular vs a quick "wanna dance" is him getting to know you. So the looks do help lure them in but once you get past them you better have something to sell other than "I'm so hot, blah blah"

    By the same token all this stuff about inner beauty being the only factor doesn't go very far in a SC environment. Inner beauty is the 2nd step IMO. When they are seeing you for the first time they're not gauging to see what's underneath. They want to see what the wrapping looks like.
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    A somewhat attractive face/body is step one. You can get by without it, but you really have to make up for it in other departments.

    A great personality, sense of humor, an edge of mystry, being a classy lady, snobby bitch, whatever your niche is....that's step 2 and if you don't have it, you've got nothin.
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    Frenchie, maybe you're just ugly on the inside. You should post a pic though so we can see the outside for ourselves.

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    Default Re: Eh, maybe you're just ugly??

    Frenchie
    there are numerous threads on sw where a girl has asked for feedback about her looks.
    But if that's not what's being asked, then why would anyone answer a HH question with... well the problem is you're just an uggo. otherwise there wouldn't be any problem making $$$ because you would just walk in the door and they would just hand it to you. So if that's not happening, don't bother improving your sales skills, just quit your job or better yet lay down and die! No point even trying!
    Please.

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    Some of the best hustlers I've worked with have been pretty unappealing, to the point that men always asked me about one particular top hustler, if she was actually a man because of how unappealing her face was.

    Didn't keep her from being in the top two spots most nights and she was a clean dancer, honest to God, because I danced doubles with her often enough.

    I would say that hustling is more important than what you look like though of course, being good looking gets you hired (though, at some places it doesn't matter) and doesn't hurt.
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