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    Default Saying hello,thank you,and ranting a bit!

    Hello ladies!i have been lurking here and everywhere to do with camming for almost a month now,researching.Let me first say THANK YOU! to all of you awesome ladies for all your posts.Seriously thank you for sharing your advice and experiences.This has been the most helpful site.I first applied to 5points..but after reading some things on here..i dont think im going to fax my final signed information for them.too many negative comments..not enough positive ones.so maybe i dodged a bad time there!

    I did join MFC.Ive been on cam twice now.It was fun however I didnt make much.100 tokens the first night..on about an hour and a half.The second night however I made 460 tokens.I did the white board tip thing and was on maybe 2 and a half hours.Had no meanies.all great compliments..but I was really nervous the first night..a little better the second.I did notice some of the same guys coming into my room both nights.(hopeful regulars!!)The thing is I dont want to do to much in free chat.Maybe I have to build up to not doing that,I dont know.Maybe Im being a bit negative when I think..will I actually make money here??and am I doing this right??only time will tell I guess.I do however think Im a bit too nice. Not demanding enough without seeming demanding..There is also a girl (or at least says she is) that keeps mfc mailing me(like 5 times now) asking if my husband and I swing..I politely declined..but she keeps mailing me these sexy scenarios.I feel like telling her if she wants to continue this conversation then go pvt with me.i dont want to come off as rude..and make potential customers go away..but also this is something im doing for money as well as fun.Im nervous that MFC might not pay well if im not doing free for all cum shows for some measley tokens..but alot of you do fine without that..so maybe i should just hang in there!I still havent went pvt..and am nervous..but ill get over it!(also all your hilarious stories of embarrassing moments made me feel better.were all human!)Also i've been looking into AW..but seems a bit confusing to a new cam girl like me..and a little worried about not being able to block my location well ya know.

    Anyway sorry so long..just introducing myself..hello ..and thank you all for your posts!

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    I will never understand why so many new hosts seem to choose to start out on MFC. Why?

    It's probably the worst site you could possibly pick unless you really don't need much money and can devote a ton of time.

    I notice that even hosts who have a following on there have been moving to other sites.

    Sometimes a host will do well there from the start if extremely young looking (site seems to cater a lot to guys who want barely legal) but it seems to be rare.
    Quote Originally Posted by OJenni! View Post
    I second this!

    I think many newbies like the layout of MFC and how it can be personalized. Oh and that community like feel to it.

    This is the way I look at it though:

    Personalized layout-more for customers to look at. Can be good or bad, but IMO when you give too much to look at you are giving too much to the freeloaders. Remember they are there to spend, not look at fancy writing on a wall. Some may argue that this actually helps you sell more-but you have to be very skilled at what you are doing/saying on your profile and how you present the sale.

    As for the community like feel to it-really who gives a fuck? At the end of the day I am online to pay my bills not chat to a bunch of broke ass men who can't seem to figure out how to add their credit card or need hand holding to sign up. I can't tell you how many times I have seen girls on here say that everyone there was nice to them, yet they only made a few tokens. Hate to break it to all you new girls, but they are not being nice to you if all they do is sit in your room all night complimenting you. In fact in my books that is VERY rude behaviour. I will even add that I would much rather deal with dudes that come in to my room saying "you a nasty ho" then the quality assholes that seem to think my time is valueless.
    Like the two recent quotes above from another thread, I'm don't think mfc is an accurate barometer of your earnings potential in camming, so it's smart that you're branching out. Some chicas consistently (consistency is key if you don't want to go crazy with frustration) bank on mfc, but they are by far the minority, and that's the reason why alot of mad successful camchicas have abandoned that site for better $$$$ elsewhere.

    AW can be a bit confusing, but any problem you'll have there has been experienced here before by somebody, so doing an advanced search for 'AW + insert sign up issue here' will probably bring up a solution. Some other good $$$$ potential sites to check out are streamate and cams.com- there's tons of info about those sites here as well.
    Good luck, and welcome

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    Default Re: Saying hello,thank you,and ranting a bit!

    Thank you so much for the reply!Being new to this,I am really into browsing around different sites.All the threads here are so helpful!I really dont want to sit around in free chat for free compliments like one of the quotes above mention...nice for the ego..but not for the piggybank.I will certainly check out the sites you suggested.Reading through many posts I realize alot of girls have accounts with a few places and find ones that they make money and stick with them for a while..and so thats my plan!thanks so much for your suggestions and the nice welcome

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    you're welcome

    Just one other thing, regarding what you wrote about not wanting to appear too demanding. Remember always that you're on cam to make $$$$. Yeah, in this job you can have alot of fun and meet some great peeps while you're making $$$$$, but if you're afraid to make it clear that you exchange your attention (in any form, in free chat or in private) for $$$$, the losers will flock to you. This is true on any site; mfc is just more freeloader-friendly than most. Guys who don't want to spend are more than happy to conspire in the lie that you're only online for fun. It's awesome for them-they don't need to spend cuz they're gracing you with their company!!

    Part of figuring out your individual game will involve figuring out the strategy that works best for you in rewarding good customers and ignoring the freeloaders. You don't need to be rude (unless you want to be) and some shy guys may come around and evolve into customers, but you should always prioritize your needs over theirs. That's not rude, that's being honest about why you're there.

    This is your job. You require an income. Guys who refuse to understand that don't deserve your attention

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    Default Re: Saying hello,thank you,and ranting a bit!

    Well said loveshooks!!!

    Also wanted to add the couples do seem to contact models heavily on the site. I can understand a guy harassing women to come and meet them but I never really get the couples. I keep thinking since there is a woman in the group that she will wise up her husband that women are not on cam sites to fuck them but for some strange reason they seem to be equally clueless. I would suggest to block them from your profile if you can and never open up their messages. Just ignore them when they come in.

    Guys that generally have no money but want your attention will send messages to you to your inbox while you are actually online. Don't ever check them EVER. Only check messages that come with a tip. Take a month or two to delete all others. Some of these guys just get off to you looking at their message, whether it be to say " hi" or ask a dumb question. If you're online they can ask all of that in free chat but generally they are too selfish to tip or the question is not that important.

    Again: Ignore all messages that do not come with a tip.
    You will even get guys that will send you a message saying " do you want to go private". It's just bullshit to get you to respond while he has his hand firmly on his cock. He will not be taking you private. If he wanted to , it would have already been done. I don't care if the message says in the subject " I'm tipping you 10,000 tokens on friday" again it's bullshit. He just wants to get your attention for free.

    So do not open any inbox messages unless they come with tips and you'll know the difference because your room will show "offline tip of xxx". Some guys will send you a message in free chat and wait to see your facial expression. If you don't look then they'll tell you in chat" go look at your inbox". Again just tell them I'll do that when I log off and still don't waste your time.

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    You gals are awesome!That is definatley my mindset on doing this Loveshooks.Im sure I will stop being "too nice" after I get more used to it!Im not a pushover..just unfamiliar and feel kinda like the new kid at school or something..but with each log on I get more comfortable!

    Also great advice Cherry!I am totally sensing a person getting a few kicks off trying to get me to do some free erotic chat thing here.I actually did say "i read my mail after I log off".It just started pouring in before I said that.So yeah!note taken!I wont be responding or opening that stuff anymore!

    Our attention and time IS worth money at this job..and I dont wanna waste any of it!

    Thank you both so much!!

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