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    After 4 years in the biz, i finally did what i swore that i would never do. Ive been fuckin and suckin in the champagne room.

    I'll explain further here because I can't tell anyone I know. I swear I will take this to my grave because no one can know that I went back on every promise I ever made to myself, my family and my friends.

    I deplore extras girls!"Take that shit out of the club!" "We're a fantasy, not the real thing!" "These bitches make it harder for the rest of us!" Yet here I stand.
    I started doing this for several reasons.

    1. Im a little heavier than I'd like, and too intimidated to apply at an upscale club. Therefore I work in a club outside of the city that while nice, is known for being a whorehouse.

    2. It's a full contact, full nude, full liqour club. Boob grabbing and heavy grinding come standard with the $30 dance.

    3. We have around 25 girls on a saturday night, and most of them arent that attractive. Our customer base is mostly local young guys who come to buy a few dances and drink beer.
    We get the occasional baller. The girls who are attractive mostly spend their nights in the CR because the floor guys hook them up with customers. The floor guys are basically
    pimps. They only hook u up if they know you give extras.And they take 20% of the room $.

    4.I just moved to a city on my own, no family, no day job (im in school). and no way to eat or pay rent if i dont make money at this club. Its very stressful knowing that i have no safety net and im on my own.

    5. Ive been poor all my life. I moved to the big city so I could lead a glamorous lifestyle and get all the things I never had like groceries that were bought with cash not food stamps.

    6. Our house fees are stupid high. They end up taking more than half of everything u make. 200-300 was my average take home with lots of 0 nights sprinkled in. its hard to sell dances in a whorehouse.

    7. Since I started doin wht i do in the back ive walked with 500 to 1200 a night.
    I charge 500 plus the cost of the room. (175 for 15, 300 for 30 min. I get 120 or 170). I have let 2 guys get away with giving me 300 plus the room because thats all they had and i had already spent alot of time talking to them I didnt feel good about selling my pussy for that cheap. I wont do it again.(but who am i to say what i wont do? I said I wouldnt turn into a prostitute too..)

    The first time i crossed my boundaries a few months ago, was when this really drunk guy came in after winning at the casino.
    He bought dances, then said yes to the CR, he said he wanted to eat my pussy. I jokingly told him it'd be $500. He paid it.

    Since it was a cash tip, the club didnt know about it, and i didnt have to fork over half of it.
    It was all mine.
    Plus at the end of the night, the club gave me the 170 for the room. (which i did have to tip out on.)

    Thats when i realized the only way to make real money at this club was to make money they dont know about...

    The first time I fucked was the next day.
    I hadnt even made enough for my 200 flat rate and was gonna go home empty handed ( I have a 3 hour one way communt on trains and buses, and often miss class or homework in order to go to work. Im usually exhausted. To talk to guys all night, show my tits, get naked for dances, and have my knees and back in pain from stage, then have a 3 hour ride home with nothing is soul crushing.)

    Anyway, this guy wouldnt get a dance because he said he wanted more.
    I had a few drinks and i dont know wht came over me but i said lets do it.
    in all of 4 years i had always said no, but in one sweeping moment all my morals came crashing down.

    In the room i got naked, he put on a condom, and i sat down on it and grinded just like i was giving a normal lapdance.
    his dick was small.
    it didnt feel any different from giving regular lapdance. i was shocked at how something i had been adamantly avoiding for so long felt exactly the same as something i do millions of times every night.
    5 seconds later he was done, we hugged and i walked with 500 that night, when i had been crying earlier because i thought i was going home with nothing.

    Ever since then pussy has been on the menu.

    its been all tourists, guys just passing through.
    no local wants to pay 700+ for cooch. So im like a novelty they can regret when they get home.

    Even though all the guys have came (yes, i use condoms, even for oral), i feel like he's dissapointed at the end.
    It's like after they come they realize the ridiculous amount of money they just spent.
    I feel guilty like I'm not a good enough time.

    But then i realize that i just let an old fat white guy put his dick in me.
    so i deserve to be compensated. sorry if it wasnt worth it to u...

    regardless, i am officially a prostitute.
    I realized that maybe i should look into escorting, but i checked it out and the prices are just too low to risk my safety like that.

    At the club i can always run out the room and be surrounded by a bunch of huge floor guys within 5 seconds.

    Also because my club is so dirty, im not hurting anyone elses money. 99% of the girls there do extras. And most of them charge alot less than i do...some do it for the price of the room...

    Maybe i should try to work at a nicer club where i can make good money without sex. im liking this money right now though and im scared to leave it.

    Sorry for the ramble, i just had to tell someone.

    Thanks for listening, and I'm sorry for contributing to the decline of our industry.
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    You're too good for this and can change your situation if you really want to.

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    People may give you a lot of shit for this... be prepared. At least you're admitting something that's common. I highly doubt you're the only girl that has fucked in vip that frequents this site. This is stripperweb afterall, being open and honest is what this site is all about. I understand and care about where you are coming from,

    It seems so me that you don't really enjoy doing what you're doing, and that there's some guilt behind this. Regardless, you are worth every penny. It doesn't matter if you fuck him and chage 500 or sit and talk and charge 500. He's lucky to have a beautiful woman like yourself shower him with attention. Perhaps a new club would suit you better. I know the money is good, but I believe you can do just as well without it if you choose. Just like the old Rittenhouse poem goes "For Life is a just employer, And gives you what you ask, But once you have set the wages, Why, you must bear the task."

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    What bothers me about this post is not that you're openly admitting to being a prostitute.

    What really gets under my skin is that people will pat you on the back and tell you it's ok, then probably turn right back around and bitch about club hookers.

    I'm not going to do that. Whether you're open and honest makes no difference, IMO. We have a woman who admits to sucking and fucking in the back...it disgusts me when she leaves with a thousand or more every night. BUT, we're also a clean club and it does hurt my money. You said you work in a whore house, so obviously you're doing what's expected of you. Again, not patting you on the back....a 3 hour bus ride, making no money, etc are avoidable obstacles. Move to a different city, transfer schools and find a better club. Better yet, start camming. The beautiful thing about this job is it travels everywhere.

    The point I'm trying to make is there ARE other ways and you don't HAVE to do it if you don't want to. Believe me, I don't blame you....I've been tempted by the idea of walking out with a quick and easy 1000. But if we're all going to be open and honest, the one and only logical reason why someone would do extras is for the really great money. What you do with that money is irrelevant. We're not going to try and find some bullshit justifiable reason for prostitution.....you love the money. I get that.

    I'm not going to condemn you for doing this, and it's only because I think it's crap when girls hate on prostitutes for selling what they're giving away for free. This whole "you're better than that" is fluffy bullshit. None of us are "better than that." Pretty sure 90% of the girls on this forum have hooked up with some random they met at the bar....at least you're getting paid for it. If this is what you want to do, then do it. No excuses.
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    You run a risk of getting locked up too, with a raid/under cover cop. Brothel like club or not. FYI

    ETA - If you want to change this, you can switch to a clean club & see how you do there or try out camming.
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    This is sad... Especially considering this is a well known member here. You don't have to do these things. You have something as great as SW to be your guide and help you be one step ahead of the game so you don't have to do shit like this. The worst thing in the world is waking up the next morning and being ashamed of yourself. I have nothing against prostitutes, escorts, etc... but if you're going to do this then do it right. Don't add to the bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    This is sad... Especially considering this is a well known member here. You don't have to do these things. You have something as great as SW to be your guide and help you be one step ahead of the game so you don't have to do shit like this. The worst thing in the world is waking up the next morning and being ashamed of yourself. I have nothing against prostitutes, escorts, etc... but if you're going to do this then do it right. Don't add to the bullshit.
    I agree. If you want to be a prostitute take it out of the club. Why do this to the rest of us? Especially when you know better.

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    7. Since I started doin wht i do in the back ive walked with 500 to 1200 a night.
    You know something, I take back the seething hatred I have for you. Now I just feel sorry. I make between four and five hundred on a decent night and the guy is never allowed to put his hands on me. I make well over a thousand dollars at least once a month and still there is only one way contact.

    Up your game the real way or get a different fucking job if you can't hack it. There's no excuse for this.
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    Well I got the impression she wants advice and is venting, & not looking for approvals. It's not like she is bragging, ya know?

    She obviously knows it's not right and feels bad going there? Am I right? Either way, I hope she can take some good advice/tips.

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    But I want to add that I would never ever ever out someone either. I said what I said earlier just to make a point in my post. This member obviously made themselves anon because they don't want to be judged. So like Vyanka said, they are looking for advice and support.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    This is sad... Especially considering this is a well known member here. You don't have to do these things. You have something as great as SW to be your guide and help you be one step ahead of the game so you don't have to do shit like this. The worst thing in the world is waking up the next morning and being ashamed of yourself. I have nothing against prostitutes, escorts, etc... but if you're going to do this then do it right. Don't add to the bullshit.
    Deleted what I wrote earlier... Now thats odd.

    Try the other clubs in the area, if you arent happy doing this, then consider working more hours, changing up your hustle --Im sure this will improve your income. even applying for a new job if you are having problems.

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    Thought this was a troll when I read it hours ago, guess not...... Lose weight you are ruining money for others! Even if you work in an extras club word get around! I've always(10 years done phenominal in myrtle beach) though it was a different bunch of guys this year, plus election year( which notoriously suck) every time I was in a room doing a 25 dollar dance(that we get 20 out of) there was a fucken girl across from me practically giving the guy a hand job! Like almost every single time I was in a room the girl across at least a few times would use her hand for a few seconds on the guy! Wtf, I noticed this happeneing the year before last. Your allowed to grind, straddle grind why use your hand? I was in a room once with 4 girls doing it and yea it affected me because I mostly kept my back to the guy as for him not to bitch I wasn't doing what they were( had it happen before) not to mention the girls guys were telling me were allowing pussy play for a 20 dollar dance. Oh and it was true I saw the one girl get fingered on the stage for crying out loud. Anyways you sound like you lack self esteem hence why you started doing this. You sound smart enough to not have to do this! Hell in New Orleans I got 3800 off a doctor who reserved me after we did 5 dom rooms the night before but point is he payed 8000 I brought in another girl and all we id was talk I think I danced 3 songs the whole time and she didn't do any. Your better than that!

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    is it easier to fuck guys in what is essentially a brothel than to hit the gym, get on a diet and look good enough to get highed at a nice club? if your answer is yes then good for you, but IMHO if you have t suck cock just to sell a dance, this isnt the business for you, you can avg a grand a night and be clean, but you need a hot body, better personality, and great sales skills. That is too much work for so many girls that end up taking the "easy" way out. but is selling your pussy for 300$ and the guilt that comes with it really that easy?


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    Thank you anonyoushooker for posting your experience.

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    If you don't like doing, then don't do it. Find another job. Find another club. Lose the weight and do what you have to do in order to get hired at a nicer club. Learn how to hustle to make money cleanly. Or take your "fucking and sucking" OUTSIDE the club.

    You may think you're not hurting anyones money, but look at the big picture outside your club. You say many of your custys are travelers. Guess what they probably do in OTHER cities? They'll begin to expect the same treatment at other clubs as well, or refuse to spend money elsewhere because they KNOW they can get more bang for their buck somewhere else or with someone else.
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    You guys are right. I can't keep doing this.
    I am so horribly wracked with guilt when i think about how many times i've reassured my mom that "i only dance, nothing else".

    But when I'm at work, sex for money seems like the most natural thing in the world.
    everybody else is doing it, I have a fat stack of cash, and im in that exclusive clique of top earners who the floor guys hook up.
    I just lay on my back and wait for the money to roll in. I'm one of the prettiest girls and i suck dick so of course i do well

    Its so hard to make money from dances here cause the club takes half. Id have to make a thousand every night just to leave with 5.

    unfortunately, our clientele is mostly young, broke guys who are only good for 1 or 2 dances. If I cut off sex, then I wont even have access to the Vip guys anymore because the floor guys will hook them up with someone else.

    this is not a club where clean dancers are rewarded for their efforts. Either you make big tips, or you go home broke. Most people who cant secure a room are hard pressed to leave with more than 100 after all the $ we have to pay out (200 minimum + 40% of dances).

    What the fuck has my life come to? I have to get out of here before i lose myself completely...I can't go down this road, i mean whats next? drugs? backpage?
    i need to find a new club. this isnt me

    and thanks for not calling me out mods, i really have nowhere else i can talk about this...
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    Beyond all the prostitution stuff... I'm going to say wtf are you doing working in a club that takes you three hours to get to one way? Maybe if you're making a lot of money per shift that'd be okay, but if you're working a seven hour shift, plus three hours both ways... You were making a few hundred for how many hours of prep + commute + actual work??? You're a student. Find somewhere closer to work.

    Good luck with everything.

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    Forget about what anyone else thinks.If YOU are not comfortable with what you are doing DONT do it.
    Have you tried auditioning anywhere else or do you just presume you will be rejected?
    Could you travel to a different city at the weekends?
    Maybe you could try bartending/waitressing?
    There are always options....you probably wont be able to make the same money but at least you wont feel gross/guilty etc.

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    I urge you to try out a club where you can make a decent living without being a prostitute. I mean, you can't use the excuse that you didn't have enough money to feed or support yourself if you were making $200-300 a night prior to the extras. While that is a low average for a dancer, it is enough to feed and support yourself. I don't buy for one minute that you were starving and that doing extras was a last-resort thing. I feel like you gave in. You went into the business firmly saying that you'll never do extras, and you let yourself down by going against the morals you had.

    This is amusing because I was literally just ranting to my sister about extras girls, and last night at work I was bitching all night to the bouncers, DJ, (etc) about the whores. I'm not usually bitchy at work, but competing with extras girls was starting to get overwhelming and I was too frustrated to be quiet about it. When I counted my money at the end of the night and saw I had made $700 I stopped bitching, because I consider that a very solid night.

    I also went into the business completely against doing extras. I have never done extras and never will. I average about 500, maybe less right now, but I've had nights where I walk out with $100 or even less. I always make house fee/tipout, but if a night surfaced where I didn't, I'd rather leave the club empty-handed or even owing the club money than suck or fuck for money. That is lowering myself. I went into the business with boundaries and they will not be crossed.

    I don't care how much money is offered - I'm a dancer, not a prostitute. And I know what it's like to work in a club full of extras girls - I dance in Detroit, one of the worst cities in the country in terms of extras. I hustle through it, and you can too. You say you're a pretty girl, you shouldn't have a problem making clean money. The money you're making by doing extras may be good, but is it worth your overall sense of self-worth and and peace of mind? You seem to be ashamed that you've done extras, so you shouldn't lower yourself by succumbing to what you said you'd never do. Is it really worth it? Ask yourself.

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    You obviously must have hustle skills if you work in a high extras area and are regularly charging $700+ for extras. Try modifying your hustle and tweaking your contact? I don't do extras but I work in a pretty intense club and most girls here promise guys stuff like "oh baby I'm going to do whatever I can to make you cum," charge an appropriate amount (so for you, $700), and them just do a masturbation show or heavy grinding.
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    Put on your big girl panties and either a) stop tricking, grow up and move on to an upscale club or b) stop justifying why you decided to make a shitty decision and just own it.

    And you don't HAVE to hook in an extras club to make money. Ask BOTM up there... I've read reviews of hers online by customers that she doesn't allow much touching, and she still makes money and works in one of the dirtiest clubs in her city. Have some self respect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    And you don't HAVE to hook in an extras club to make money. Ask BOTM up there... I've read reviews of hers online by customers that she doesn't allow much touching, and she still makes money and works in one of the dirtiest clubs in her city. Have some self respect.
    It's true. My club would make most of you shit your pants while breaking into tears. I only allow touching in VIP and there I am very selective. I'm not much of a hustler, I have a fairly overweight body right now, and I still do pretty damn well. I don't break $1000 nearly as much as some of the girls I work with but I don't have a kid or a pimp so $1000 isn't necessary every single night. I actually prefer working in extras clubs but then again, I'm not tempted to adjust my boundaries. If I wasn't so sure I would stick with cleaner clubs.

    I'd like to add that a nice lingerie set will make up for a few extra lbs at a nicer clubs. Looking expensive doesn't work too well with getting customers but it definitely helps get you hired. Since the OP is already making hella money she can afford to go to a nice department store or even do some shopping at Agent Provocateur and pick up a full bra+ panty+ waste garter belt + stockings with a little sheen to them, along with a simple but elegant bracelt and pair of earrings. Hair in soft curls, lip gloss, and a smokey eye. I did this for my first audition and got hired at the club with the highest standards in the city even though I was inexperienced and overweight. Im still surprised I got hired there...I looked really terrible compared to the rest of the girls.
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    thanks ladies ineeded a reality check that no this is not normal. because im surrounded by people who act like its normal. im scared to go in tonight. im scared to leave with nothing and im scared to turn tricks. im afraid of what either of those things will do to my mental state. i just wanna stay at home and cry.
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    I can't stand the attitude of some of the posters on here.

    1. The girl shares her story and then the "whore", "no self respect", "no one touches me and I still get paid" blah blah comments come rolling in. At the end of the day, we are all whores to normal folk. We get nude/semi nude for money so there is little room for us to throw around derogatory words at other women. It amazes me how quick people are to put each other down especially in this business. Not saying that she should get a pat on the back for this but most of the comments here are anything but helpful. We all live in glass houses on this site. The way some of us strippers or cam girls can talk about a prostitute not having any self respect is an absolute joke.

    2. Cry me a river with this "extra girls" ruin it for all of us crap. This girl isn't giving blowjobs for $20, she's fucking for $500. If you can't sell a $20 dance to a man that is willing to pay $500 for a few minutes of sex then you need to up your hustle. When men are able to buy sex for cheap (anywhere, ITC or OTC), our industry is going to be hurt. Go check what prices girls charge on backpage. Now THAT'S hurting our industry but everybody wants to just bitch and moan about the girls doing it in the safety of the VIP rooms meanwhile, in "other work" everybody's giving advice on escorting. It's the same exact shit. Sure it's easier for a guy to buy pussy in the club if he's currently in there but if his only goal was to buy pussy, he would completely skip the club and stay home on craigslist or backpage where there are a plethora of girls for ridiculously cheap. Guys that come into strip clubs are there for a reason. Sure, every guy would loveee to be able to fuck but if he likes you and a dance is all that's on the menu, he'll get the dance. And if he won't get the dance, he didn't like you that much. Don't blame other people for you missing out on sales.


    OP, idk why you would post this on here at all unless you wanted people to further your guilt trip. It sounds like you need a new club and not just because the one you work in is a brothel, but having it 3 hours from your house is a giant no no. No one needs a 6 hour work commute, that's 6 hours that could be used to study/do homework/sleep, etc. Your first post was just a list of excuses trying to justify your actions and the second post after reading the responses you were getting was remorseful and kind of illogical. So because you started fucking you think you're now on the road to doing drugs? I mean, does that make any sense to you? They are not one in the same. The slippery slope you're on is fueled by money or at least that's how it seems. If you could find a club with a higher end clientele then it would be easier to sell dances and you could make the same money you do now by doing way less. That being said, since you like money and you see how easy this is, maybe you would still fuck and suck at the nice clubs cause $1000 wouldn't be enough and you would want to make $2000. Only you know if that will be the case or not. Also, think about your future. Would a prostitution charge ruin your chances at the career you're in college for? If so, is the extra money worth that risk?

    Either way, the bottom line is if you don't like what you're doing then don't do it. But stop with the excuses. You know the risks you're taking by doing this stuff. The only justifiable reason for what you're doing is if you can go home, look yourself in the mirror, sleep comfortably, and wake up happy the next morning. If you can't do that then you need to stop for the sake of your sanity.


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    Oh.my.god.No. it is not worth a prostitution charge that could prevent me from finding ajob after college.Ive worked so hard on my degree for so many years, and i have so many years left, and then to not be able to get a job because of a stupid mistake...oh my god. my whole life would be ruined.
    I quite honestly dont know what i would do anymore, i would hope i wouldnt have sex at an upscale club but who knows? i never in a million years thought i would be hooking at all. i dont even know myself anymore.
    i have to find a new club. ive obviously lost my grip on reality here.
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    ^ Welp, there's your answer. You've been lucky so far that you haven't bumped into an undercover cop. Quit while you're ahead.

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