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    Question Escorts: have you ever been shortchanged?

    Have you ever been shortchanged? What happened, and what do you wish you did differently?

    Here's my sucky experience- I'm a fairly new escort and I recently offered incall for the first time. I saw 2 clients and both of them put money on the dresser and then moved on to me and we started our session. I wanted to count the money but wasn't sure how to go about it. Do I count it in front of the client? Or do I tell the client I'll be right back and go count the money the restroom, hide it somewhere there. Well, I didn't do any of that and later found out my 2nd client shortchanged me $75. He was my hottest client so far and I enjoyed being with him but still it sucks. In order to prevent this from happening in the future, I guess I will go count it in the restroom from now on. Or is there a better way to handle the cash transaction?

    Please share your thoughts/stories/rants.

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    Default Re: Escorts: have you ever been shortchanged?

    Nope. Never in 3 years. I have found it happens more with some than others. It's all about the type of clientele you attract - I strongly believe.

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    Default Re: Escorts: have you ever been shortchanged?

    ^ How do you go about counting the money at an incall?

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    Default Re: Escorts: have you ever been shortchanged?

    Quote Originally Posted by Monisha View Post
    ^ How do you go about counting the money at an incall?
    I ask the guys to take a shower ask soon as they come in. They also knew to leave the donation on the bathroom counter (the rules were clear on my website). I would then excuse myself to the bathroom to change into something comfortable AND count the money and make sure the donation is correct. I have only waited till AFTER the appointment to collect my donation with one gu (but he's someone i really trust).

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    Default Re: Escorts: have you ever been shortchanged?

    Yeah, I instruct them to place it down without mention, and then at some point Ill ask them if theyd like to freshen up. It takes me less than a min to check the envelope and tuck it away somewhere, so even if they just go in there to wash their hands, Im set by the time they come out. I generally only do that with new guys though.

    I have some established regs that dont leave the env til hes about to leave...Ive grown to trust them on some level though havnt had any issues with that yet. Only once did a guy genuinely forget to leave the envelope, and I just stood there at the door smiling at him like...and he was looking at me like...are you going to let me leave? lol Then it dawned on him and he was so embarressed, and left me a tip too just for the trouble of having to "hold him hostage" til he paid

    Definitely though, make sure you report this guy on the blacklists for shorting you...that disrespectful and no one wants a client like that.
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    Default Re: Escorts: have you ever been shortchanged?

    Quote Originally Posted by Monisha View Post
    Have you ever been shortchanged? What happened, and what do you wish you did differently?

    Here's my sucky experience- I'm a fairly new escort and I recently offered incall for the first time. I saw 2 clients and both of them put money on the dresser and then moved on to me and we started our session. I wanted to count the money but wasn't sure how to go about it. Do I count it in front of the client? Or do I tell the client I'll be right back and go count the money the restroom, hide it somewhere there. Well, I didn't do any of that and later found out my 2nd client shortchanged me $75. He was my hottest client so far and I enjoyed being with him but still it sucks. In order to prevent this from happening in the future, I guess I will go count it in the restroom from now on. Or is there a better way to handle the cash transaction?

    Please share your thoughts/stories/rants.
    I'm guessing you're not prescreening your clients or have a website. Take care of that!

    Be sure your rates are clearly stated - then ask if they understand you. Sometimes the gent can make an honest mistake.

    There is nothing wrong with checking the money in the front of the client- they cant accuse you of lying. Just make sure its checked before they had a chance to stay too long. Looking overcautious is better than getting ripped off.

    Clients created the whole, "counting money ruins the fantasy" so they could get away with crap like this.
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    ^ I asked for 2 references and both of them gave me the okay. This guy was a sweet gentleman throughout the appointment and I almost want to believe it was an honest mistake on his part. But I don't want this happening again so I will definitely be counting the money from now on.

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    Thanks for the great advice everyone. You guys are awesome.

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    Default Re: Escorts: have you ever been shortchanged?

    one time this guy tried me but I counted it and actually told him to give me more and he did. I know it's awkward but we shouldn't feel like it is. I mean I can't go to Bloomingdales and give them $170 for a pair of jeans that costs $240. I usually say 'let's get the business out of the way' when they act funny. Be ure of it or they will take that same mentality that they can do anything with you and carry it through the entire booking.

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    ^ Wow. What excuse did he have for giving you less than your fee? I had a guy once tell me his ATM maximum is 200 that's why he forgot to give me the money in his other pocket. He eventually did pay up though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Monisha View Post
    ^ Wow. What excuse did he have for giving you less than your fee? I had a guy once tell me his ATM maximum is 200 that's why he forgot to give me the money in his other pocket. He eventually did pay up though.
    I guess this guy felt like cause he was cute he didn't need to pay me the $400 he was supposed to. He was trying to be slick about it, too. I had seen him twice before that and that time, he didn't turn the lights on and was like 'the money is on the table'. I could tell it was too little it was like 288$ wtf, so I told him 'that's not enough', so he gave it to me. I guess he was trying to see how far he could take it with me. Some guys still feel emasculated when they have to pay for sex.

    BTW this was when I first started, I probably would've just left if this happened to me now.

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    Yeah I've been doing this for almost 3 years and the only time it happened to me was from a regular (he had like 60 okays on p411 so I guess he felt like he could get away with it). Anyways, maybe this wasn't exactly professional of me but I threatened to post him on every blacklist site under the sun and I got my money back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yellowrose25 View Post
    Yeah I've been doing this for almost 3 years and the only time it happened to me was from a regular (he had like 60 okays on p411 so I guess he felt like he could get away with it). Anyways, maybe this wasn't exactly professional of me but I threatened to post him on every blacklist site under the sun and I got my money back.
    OMG this just totally sparked the idea in me that we have just the same 'blackmail opportunity' as they do with TER and such with the blacklists!

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    Default Re: Escorts: have you ever been shortchanged?

    i was completely ripped off once. this guy handed me an envelope at the end of our session and it felt like it had the right amount in it. he left and i looked and there was no cash just some folded up paper. i was super pissed and scared because i was working for an agency at the time. lucky for me they actually gave me the money for the appointment and of course sent out an "alert" for other agencies.

    i know i should have tried to discreetly check before he left but i really didn't have a chance to...also i wasn't "allowed" to ask for the donation upfront. as far as i know i still couldn't.

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    Default Re: Escorts: have you ever been shortchanged?

    ^^^^
    ALWAYS check before you start your 'session'. Dismiss yourself to the bathroom if anything to check. I also recommend buying a counterfeit marker to make SUPER sure of things. Guys can be assholes.
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    I totally got this the other day from a guy who's become a regular.I'm sure it was an accident because he only shorted me $30 on a $1200 appointment, but I was still like arghhh when I got home. I counted it too quickly when I was there and I didn't catch it until I got home.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    I totally got this the other day from a guy who's become a regular.I'm sure it was an accident because he only shorted me $30 on a $1200 appointment, but I was still like arghhh when I got home. I counted it too quickly when I was there and I didn't catch it until I got home.
    I think I wouldn't even say anything in this case cause I'm sure that was a mistake.. Now if th next time it's less again, that'd be another story..

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    ^^ yeah I agree. I saw him for three different appointments this week, all 3hr+, so I'm not going to cause any issue with him while I can make money like that off him. If it happens again, I'll have to find a way to gently remind him or something.


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    Default Re: Escorts: have you ever been shortchanged?

    I think in some cases it can be regional, too. When touring in some areas I've had guys try to do the "pay at the end" thing, and then I have to ask, and that always makes me uncomfortable. Etiquette is clearly stated on my site but habit is a strong force.

    When I first started I had someone honestly forget until I reminded them mid-session, which was hilarious. The look on his face was priceless. If you've ever seen a man jump around a room with his pants around his ankles, looking for his wallet while apologizing profusely...

    I had someone stiff me completely once. It made me furious, because a) it was a multihour and b) he lied about it, saying he put the money in the wrong book and would come back with it. Kept me waiting hours. It was such an insult - it was an emotionally healing session for him, and to see the joy and relief on his face, and then have him spit on that gift like that... Ooh, I just have no words. Since then if they hide it in a book I always surreptitiously check to make sure it's present. I'd been spoiled before. Kept the book he "hid his donation in" as a reminder not to let naivete trump common sense, as well as a reminder that people are both bad and good in surprising ways (one of my Twitter friends sent me a little something to restore my faith in humanity that eve - such a touching gesture).

    I've never been shorted more than $50 and frankly I think that was a rate mix-up. On the other hand I've been tipped, had clients extend our sessions, received thoughtful gifts and touching notes. Shortchanges and rip-offs happen; it's sometimes just a matter of time and luck... but keep moving, blacklist if it was intentional, and always get your cash upfront (whether or not you choose to count it).

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    I was shorted once ($75) and in retrospect, I should have seen it coming. He was way too friendly from the get-go: talking about he wanted this to be a "long-term relationship" and the "amazing connection" he felt with and how he hoped I would feel like I was "coming to spend time with a friend". Note: he had yet to lay eyes on me at this point. Apparently my charisma is just that good.

    After, I told my booker and she put the word out to the other bookers and indy girls in the area. I imagine he had problems getting much action from local girls after that.
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    im not an escort but- he did it on purpose just because he is hot. there is no way he was off THAT MUCH by an honest mistake, hell no. i would think diff if he was off less than $20, like maybe he miscounted the amount of $20 bills- its the good looking men that always try us. and $75 is A LOT, i would never do a 3 for $100 room for only $25. i would dump his ass and never see him again.

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