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    My S.O. has about a month before his new job starts so he is home all day instead of leaving for a good chunk of time. I've been camming for so long with him gone that that is how I'm used to camming! He said he doesn't mind if I cam from the other room (and that he thinks that's hot!), but that makes me so nervous! Like super aware, and it makes me perform less enthusiastically than I usually do in privates.

    Since I have to work to pay the bills this month, I've just been kicking him out. But I feel bad because he's running out of things to do and places to go. So I know I'll have to suck it up sooner or later. lol.

    Does anybody have any advice on camming while your man is home? I would be super appreciative to hear any insight!

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    Quote Originally Posted by FelixGirl View Post
    My S.O. has about a month before his new job starts so he is home all day instead of leaving for a good chunk of time. I've been camming for so long with him gone that that is how I'm used to camming! He said he doesn't mind if I cam from the other room (and that he thinks that's hot!), but that makes me so nervous! Like super aware, and it makes me perform less enthusiastically than I usually do in privates.

    Since I have to work to pay the bills this month, I've just been kicking him out. But I feel bad because he's running out of things to do and places to go. So I know I'll have to suck it up sooner or later. lol.

    Does anybody have any advice on camming while your man is home? I would be super appreciative to hear any insight!
    My man is usually in the room with me. He helps me out. Boot this guy, things to say, etc. We even laugh as I cover up the screen when I get C2C. He will watch me use the dildo, he gets horny, I finish a pvt, then we fuck. If a girl cant have her man in the room with her (off cam of course) then she probably has something to hide.
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    Some women just find it awkward as fuck. My husband used to try and be in the room with me, but I'd lose it when he'd waggle his eyebrows and eventually just made him leave the room. But maybe you two should work out a chart or something. For example, I usually work in the evenings after he's already come back. I'm not physically able to do most of the chores, so he'll do some and play videogames and maybe cook while I'm working. Get him a pair of headphones to plug into the TV or an iPod and point him in a direction, and he should stay distracted long enough!

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    Those wireless surround sound earphones that hook up to the tv!! omg! Didn't even think about that! So good! thx!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evhottie View Post
    My man is usually in the room with me. He helps me out. Boot this guy, things to say, etc. We even laugh as I cover up the screen when I get C2C. He will watch me use the dildo, he gets horny, I finish a pvt, then we fuck. If a girl cant have her man in the room with her (off cam of course) then she probably has something to hide.
    Is it even ok to have someone else in the room with you, even if they are off cam? i was under the impression you couldnt do that unless they have all their paperwork too.

    Also i am wondering do your custies ever hear them? and if they do how to they react? genuinely curious cause ive always made my dude leave and go be quiet somewhere else LOL

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    I have no advice but mine usually just watches tv while I work. No matter what job I have had while working from home, I prefer to work alone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evhottie View Post
    My man is usually in the room with me. He helps me out. Boot this guy, things to say, etc. We even laugh as I cover up the screen when I get C2C. He will watch me use the dildo, he gets horny, I finish a pvt, then we fuck. If a girl cant have her man in the room with her (off cam of course) then she probably has something to hide.
    Sorry, but I categorically disagree with that! I mean, really?!?!?! The vast majority of girls who don't do couple shows don't involve their other half...

    I absolutely HATE working when my SO is home, but luckily we have it worked out so I very rarely have to. We do also have an office/cam room, so I can just close the door and shut myself away. If he IS home, he ususally puts on the headset to play games online, or he might watch tv - because I am upstairs, he doesn't need headphones.

    Even so - I still feel really uncomfortable with him around, and he is not a fan of it either! And it DOESN'T mean that I have anything to "hide", thank you very much! LOL. I don't like it because, like you, I don't feel like I can perform to my fullest ability - I'm pretty "method actor" when it comes to my shows (LOL), meaning that unless the customer is giving me specific verbal cues, I talk dirty the way that I actually talk dirty in bed. And there is something very...weird....about having my SO hear me say the same stuff to HIM as I do to customers. I just find that it blurs the line between my work life and our personal life, which is something that neither of us want!! I am a VERY different person from my on-cam alter-ego, and I want to keep it that way.

    He also recognizes that this is my JOB, and that I need to put in the hours that I set myself, and that I don't get turned on 90% of the time. I am in the absolute opposite headspace that I want to be in when I fuck my man - thinking, working, focused, and in SALES mode. I am NOT horny. And I seriously doubt that it would make him horny watching me, seeing as over half of what I do is fetish stuff. I would actually be kind of disturbed if he got turned on when I am describing to someone how I would use them as a toilet slave, foot slave, or little sissy bitch!!

    We DO talk about work, laugh about funny stories, talk about good nights or frustrating times, ideas for clips, etc etc. I'm not hiding my job, and its not like he doesn't like what I do or has a problem with it, I just would never have him sitting around while I work. (Not to mention - he kinda has better stuff to do with his life than hang out at my work for hours at a time!) When I work at the tattoo shop as a piercer, he doesn't come hang out at the counter, does he?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lum View Post
    Is it even ok to have someone else in the room with you, even if they are off cam? i was under the impression you couldnt do that unless they have all their paperwork too.

    Also i am wondering do your custies ever hear them? and if they do how to they react? genuinely curious cause ive always made my dude leave and go be quiet somewhere else LOL
    It depends on the site. Some aren't too strict, but some can be SUPER strict about hearing someone in the background - some people have been suspended.

    And I wouldn't think that the guys would be too appreciative of someone sitting watching their private sessions with you...or they would want them to join in! Lose lose...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Evhottie View Post
    My man is usually in the room with me. He helps me out. Boot this guy, things to say, etc. We even laugh as I cover up the screen when I get C2C. He will watch me use the dildo, he gets horny, I finish a pvt, then we fuck. If a girl cant have her man in the room with her (off cam of course) then she probably has something to hide.
    Are we dating the same guy? This is so me and my BF lol. I LOVE working whenn my BF is around. He actually motivates me to stay on cause he has this energy about him that just makes me happy therefore makes me more money. But all my regulars know he's around...they even ask about him when he's not here. And we also get a lot of requests for couple shows so...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evhottie View Post
    My man is usually in the room with me. He helps me out. Boot this guy, things to say, etc. We even laugh as I cover up the screen when I get C2C. He will watch me use the dildo, he gets horny, I finish a pvt, then we fuck. If a girl cant have her man in the room with her (off cam of course) then she probably has something to hide.



    LOLZ. Ridiculous generalization statement.

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    Not me, I hate when my bf is around. I try to go in another room and shut the door but I'm always afraid he is going to walk in... Makes me nervous.
    It's not that I'm hiding it, I just don't want him to see me that way.
    Ya know?

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    I actually just came from Best Buy with the bf and we bought the wireless headphones because I cant stand him hearing me work. Its just awkward and he says it annoys him when he watched tv lol. We're trying them out tonight. Let you know hoe it goes ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Sorry, but I categorically disagree with that! I mean, really?!?!?! The vast majority of girls who don't do couple shows don't involve their other half...

    I absolutely HATE working when my SO is home, but luckily we have it worked out so I very rarely have to. We do also have an office/cam room, so I can just close the door and shut myself away. If he IS home, he ususally puts on the headset to play games online, or he might watch tv - because I am upstairs, he doesn't need headphones.

    Even so - I still feel really uncomfortable with him around, and he is not a fan of it either! And it DOESN'T mean that I have anything to "hide", thank you very much! LOL. I don't like it because, like you, I don't feel like I can perform to my fullest ability - I'm pretty "method actor" when it comes to my shows (LOL), meaning that unless the customer is giving me specific verbal cues, I talk dirty the way that I actually talk dirty in bed. And there is something very...weird....about having my SO hear me say the same stuff to HIM as I do to customers. I just find that it blurs the line between my work life and our personal life, which is something that neither of us want!! I am a VERY different person from my on-cam alter-ego, and I want to keep it that way.

    He also recognizes that this is my JOB, and that I need to put in the hours that I set myself, and that I don't get turned on 90% of the time. I am in the absolute opposite headspace that I want to be in when I fuck my man - thinking, working, focused, and in SALES mode. I am NOT horny. And I seriously doubt that it would make him horny watching me, seeing as over half of what I do is fetish stuff. I would actually be kind of disturbed if he got turned on when I am describing to someone how I would use them as a toilet slave, foot slave, or little sissy bitch!!

    We DO talk about work, laugh about funny stories, talk about good nights or frustrating times, ideas for clips, etc etc. I'm not hiding my job, and its not like he doesn't like what I do or has a problem with it, I just would never have him sitting around while I work. (Not to mention - he kinda has better stuff to do with his life than hang out at my work for hours at a time!) When I work at the tattoo shop as a piercer, he doesn't come hang out at the counter, does he?
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    Definitely let us know DiamondCupcakes!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evhottie View Post
    My man is usually in the room with me. He helps me out. Boot this guy, things to say, etc. We even laugh as I cover up the screen when I get C2C. He will watch me use the dildo, he gets horny, I finish a pvt, then we fuck. If a girl cant have her man in the room with her (off cam of course) then she probably has something to hide.
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    LOLZ. Ridiculous generalization statement.

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    Ugh, thank you. That has the worst generalization I've ever heard. Do I want my SO around while I cam? NOPE. Doesn't mean I hide anything, in fact I tell my SO everything. We even call each other BB jokingly. I don't want other people around me while I cam just as much as I wouldn't want them around at a vanilla job. I just don't like it.



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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessLuna View Post
    Ugh, thank you. That has the worst generalization I've ever heard. Do I want my SO around while I cam? NOPE. Doesn't mean I hide anything, in fact I tell my SO everything. We even call each other BB jokingly. I don't want other people around me while I cam just as much as I wouldn't want them around at a vanilla job. I just don't like it.
    This x10000!!! She may not have meant it how it sounded, but it definitely took away from the rest of the post.
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    Quote Originally Posted by haydenblue View Post
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    lolz. Ridiculous generalization statement.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessLuna View Post
    Ugh, thank you. That has the worst generalization I've ever heard. Do I want my SO around while I cam? NOPE. Doesn't mean I hide anything, in fact I tell my SO everything. We even call each other BB jokingly. I don't want other people around me while I cam just as much as I wouldn't want them around at a vanilla job. I just don't like it.
    Touchy, touchy. It's a riot getting a rise out of elitist camgirls.

    It is probably the worst generalization anyone has ever said about anything. Ever. So it's not for everyone. Big deal. UGH!!!!!!! Now go back to your fancy little exclusive club and do whatever it is that you fancy elitist people do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Evhottie View Post
    Touchy, touchy. It's a riot getting a rise out of elitist camgirls.

    It is probably the worst generalization anyone has ever said about anything. Ever. So it's not for everyone. Big deal. UGH!!!!!!! Now go back to your fancy little exclusive club and do whatever it is that you fancy elitist people do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessLuna View Post
    What on Earth are you talking about??
    Ignore her. Ridiculous girl is being ridiculous.







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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post
    Ignore her. Ridiculous girl is being ridiculous.
    Being the cliche goth girl outcast my entire life I've never been called an elitist. I feel as though I've been inducted OH EMM GEE does this mean slumber party time?



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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessLuna View Post
    Being the cliche goth girl outcast my entire life I've never been called an elitist. I feel as though I've been inducted OH EMM GEE does this mean slumber party time?
    Welcome!! The Elitist Camgirls of Canada (ECC) is proud to have you as a new member! Come get your pin and learn the secret handshake at the Ivory Tower....then we can sit and have expensive wine and talk about how much better we are than everyone else while riding our unicorns...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    Welcome!! The Elitist Camgirls of Canada (ECC) is proud to have you as a new member! Come get your pin and learn the secret handshake at the Ivory Tower....then we can sit and have expensive wine and talk about how much better we are than everyone else while riding our unicorns...

    I LOVE THIS CLUB!! Being elitist is freaking awesome! When do I get my Unicorn?? But for real though, the next time I'm in Vancouver we should hang out or something lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessLuna View Post
    I LOVE THIS CLUB!! Being elitist is freaking awesome! When do I get my Unicorn?? But for real though, the next time I'm in Vancouver we should hang out or something lol.
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    Honestly, I don't think anyone is elitist, or has a fancy 'club'... I'm not sure what that's about, unless you're talking about the verified section, which is open for any camgirl to join? If there's some kinda fancy club, I'm missing out, damnit Either way, I'm not sure, so I'll move on... I find it really awkward for my guy to be actually in the room, although he sometimes jokes with me later about what I say in privates (I'm super-loud sometimes). Usually I'll try to work the same hours he does (we both work from home), but if not, he usually plays games, etc, although sometimes I want to punch him because when I come out of my cam room to take a break, he giggles and says something like "Oooooh what was THAT one about?". A cool alternative is having him sign on with a members account and talk to me in the chat that way, so he keeps me entertained when it gets a little slow.




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