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    Default Strippers that enjoy giving lapsdances drunk or stoned

    I'm not talking about that ones that do it just endure something they find unpleasant, I'm talking about the ones they think its fun to give a lapdance drunk or stoned. Am I the only who tries to avoid girls like this, I excepted a couple of dances once from a girl that didn't seem sober, not to the point of completely wasted, but somewhere inbetween, but I stopped after two dances because I felt wierded out. One minute she seems really into it, the next, space case. Another girl told me she loved lapdancing drunk, she was sober at the time. I read I review from a guy that got stoned with a dancer (weed) before he got his lapdance and it seems to have made her horny and very wet. I'm no saint, proud pervert, but am I wrong to feel like accepting dances from dancers in this condition is taking advantage of them when they're in no condition to consent? Where's the line? If thier just buzzed, that's not a big deal, but beyond that? Weed I'm not so worried about, I've been around pot smokers my whole life, although don't touch the stuff myself, but E and booze I don't know.

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    Default Re: Strippers that enjoy giving lapsdances drunk or stoned

    There are plenty of girls who don't treat stripping like a job.

    I think many women who strip aren't even really conscious of how they are treating their "job", or they begin using drugs or alcohol to get over their self-consciousness, doubts, fears, uncomfortableness, or the rejection, harsh treatment, assault.

    I think most people believe that life happens independent of their choices and the longer one lives that way the harder it may be to take control of one's life. Drugs and alcohol abuse gives a person even less control over their life.

    I watched a girl get totally drunk last night. It was a rough night. Though it wasn't easy I stayed sober and kept opening oysters until I found one with a pearl in it and then I gave him all my attention and he paid my bills. I would be happy to give you a lap dance anytime ^_^ !

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    Default Re: Strippers that enjoy giving lapsdances drunk or stoned

    I tend to avoid drunk or otherwise impaired strippers. I also have my doubts as to weather any actually "enjoy" giving dances in that condition or just prefer it as a way to get through the night without letting their emotions about the job get to them.
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    [QUOTE=lifetravelergirl;2339954]There are plenty of girls who don't treat stripping like a job.I think many women who strip aren't even really conscious of how they are treating their "job", or they begin using drugs or alcohol to get over their self-consciousness, doubts, fears, uncomfortableness, or the rejection, harsh treatment, assault.I think most people believe that life happens independent of their choices and the longer one lives that way the harder it may be to take control of one's life. Drugs and alcohol abuse gives a person even less control over their life.I watched a girl get totally drunk last night. It was a rough night. Though it wasn't easy I stayed sober and kept opening oysters until I found one with a pearl in it and then I gave him all my attention and he paid my bills. I would be happy to give you a lap dance anytime ^_^ ![/QUOUR] Truth be told some customers get lapdances for many of the same reasons. Lack of confedence, loniness, rejections, distraction for the pain, even abuse, or isolation over a unique fetish, or a marriage that grown stale, fear of commitment, self loathing. See we custies are just as hurt and damaged as the dancers. Dancers are the drug for some. And thank you for being so nice, that was nice to hear, you seem like a great person. But in fairness to you because you seem so sweet, I'm no white knight nice guy. I'm a pervert, I talk really really dirty with the girls I get lapdances from, sick dark fantasies. I once had two real life sisters rub thier tits together while talking about fucking each other. I also like playing with girl tits (with permission), spanking her (with permission), boob and ass grinding. I don't force my finger up an unwilling bum, cum in my pants during a lapdance, stiff on a bill, or pull my cock out, and I don't accept lapdances from someone completely trashed, so I like to think I few redeeming qualities. I don't know why I felt I like I had to tell you all that, its just I felt like you deserved the truth. Still back on topic I wish thier was some system of assertaining thier level of intoxication and how intoxicated they could become before it becomes wrong. Sadly naked girls don't come with a manual, there's no where to put it.

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    Default Re: Strippers that enjoy giving lapsdances drunk or stoned

    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I tend to avoid drunk or otherwise impaired strippers. I also have my doubts as to weather any actually "enjoy" giving dances in that condition or just prefer it as a way to get through the night without letting their emotions about the job get to them.
    There is no way to tell for certain, your choice are take them at thier word or assume thier lying. I tend towards assuming thier honest, because that's how I'd like to be treated. I'm inclined to believe girls on e and pot, because it seems more about enhancing the experience, but less inclined for girl boozed out, on crack, or coke. Of course a red bull can cover how intoxicated a girl really is too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omegaphallic View Post
    There is no way to tell for certain, your choice are take them at thier word or assume thier lying.
    Actually the choice is mine to observe the lady and decide if I think she is impaired or not. Lol, I don't ask them. As to why they might be intoxicated (or high), I have my theories but, again, it's really not important to me. I stay away from impaired dancers on principal after a few too many bad experiences. I'm 54 and I've spent half of my life working around bars and booze as well as hanging in strip clubs. I can generally tell when a woman is drunk. How drunk is not all that important to me. I don't administer field sobriety tests, I just go with my gut. Dances are not going to happen. The only exception would be a fav who may have become a little buzzed while sitting with me for a few hours.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    The only exception would be a fav who may have become a little buzzed while sitting with me for a few hours.
    ^This is another reason why a girl may seem overly "merry"! This is often why girls, who may not normally get drunk at work, will be intoxicated lol.

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    Default Re: Strippers that enjoy giving lapsdances drunk or stoned

    I don't want to be judgemental either and as someone who doesn't do drugs and hasn't gotten drunk since he was eight, I can't say I understand what thier experiencing accept in
    pure imagination.

    I lack that gut instinct such as well, I just don't have your experience around booze Yoda, I can't tell for sure unless she's super drunk. But can tell usually when someones high,on crack, because my parents are former (hopefully former) crack addicts (a big reason why I don't experiment with drugs). Oddly they don't drink much. I can smell weed on someone if its,strong enough.

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    Often times it is difficult for me to tell if someone is drunk though I am getting better at being able to tell. I think the reason I initially had trouble telling if someone was drunk or not was because my father was an alcoholic and was usually drunk when he was around us so growing up with that.. it just seems "normal", no red flags go up, it wasn't noticeable to me when others around me were drunk unless it was real obvious, like falling down drunk, face flushed or covered in sweat/oil shine, vomiting, strong slurring...

    So while I am better at being able to identify drunk or intoxicated people.. I still have trouble sometimes. For instance I couldn't tell if the pearl I found the other night was drunk or not. I think he was... I noticed that the waitress was asking us to buy drinks before we had even started drinking the ones she had just brought us. I of course was expected to drink as fast as I could so the bar would make money. Anyway... I thought to myself, "Why am I not asking for private dances the way the waitress was asking us to buy more drinks?" And I began asking instead of waiting for him to suggest it. Non-alcoholic drinks are the same price so that is what I was drinking. That guy left with a wallet full of twenties though, so I must not have been doing my job.

    I made the mistake of going to the dressing room while they were closing up and I got stuck talking to a nosey, sketchy stripper who was asking too many personal questions, wanting to know about my boobs, wanting to feel my boobs, wanting to know how old I am... Next time I will sit in a bathroom stall until the place is clearing out. Anyway.. One of the waitresses who seemed (on the floor) like she had her shit together... Well in the dressing room I saw her in a whole new light. She was talking about how she needed to go outside and smoke some meth. One of the bouncers who is always high on meth no doubt provides it for her. They were smoking together outside when I left.

    Good times.

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    Default Re: Strippers that enjoy giving lapsdances drunk or stoned

    It's a good thing to hear that you're not "that guy". There are those that either try to get dancers drunk or high or they will not even take them to LD's if they are sober. Glad to see you're not into pushing up on dancers specifically because if they're drunk or high you'll get away with it.

    Great post Omegaphallic

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    Quote Originally Posted by lifetravelergirl View Post
    Often times it is difficult for me to tell if someone is drunk though I am getting better at being able to tell. I think the reason I initially had trouble telling if someone was drunk or not was because my father was an alcoholic and was usually drunk when he was around us so growing up with that.. it just seems "normal", no red flags go up, it wasn't noticeable to me when others around me were drunk unless it was real obvious, like falling down drunk, face flushed or covered in sweat/oil shine, vomiting, strong slurring...So while I am better at being able to identify drunk or intoxicated people.. I still have trouble sometimes. For instance I couldn't tell if the pearl I found the other night was drunk or not. I think he was... I noticed that the waitress was asking us to buy drinks before we had even started drinking the ones she had just brought us. I of course was expected to drink as fast as I could so the bar would make money. Anyway... I thought to myself, "Why am I not asking for private dances the way the waitress was asking us to buy more drinks?" And I began asking instead of waiting for him to suggest it. Non-alcoholic drinks are the same price so that is what I was drinking. That guy left with a wallet full of twenties though, so I must not have been doing my job.I made the mistake of going to the dressing room while they were closing up and I got stuck talking to a nosey, sketchy stripper who was asking too many personal questions, wanting to know about my boobs, wanting to feel my boobs, wanting to know how old I am... Next time I will sit in a bathroom stall until the place is clearing out. Anyway.. One of the waitresses who seemed (on the floor) like she had her shit together... Well in the dressing room I saw her in a whole new light. She was talking about how she needed to go outside and smoke some meth. One of the bouncers who is always high on meth no doubt provides it for her. They were smoking together outside when I left.Good times.
    With the guy I think your okay, it sounds like he was aware of his surrounding, understood what you were asking for. Still it brings up an interesting question, reversing the question how drunk does a patron have to be before giving him lapdances becomes sexually abusive? Like if the guy doesn't know where he is anymore or doesn't understand what he's doing?

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    Thank you Cherry. It actual reminds me why I prefer to get lapdances from smart chicks. Getting a lapdance from a ditzy dancer you may as well get one from your cat, but a smart dancer is more aware, more cognazant of all the dirty shit she's doing and saying, makes it way hotter, because she understands how filth and naughty she's being. Plus she's more adaptive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Omegaphallic View Post
    how drunk does a patron have to be before giving him lapdances becomes sexually abusive? Like if the guy doesn't know where he is anymore or doesn't understand what he's doing?
    When his penis finally falls off.

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    Default Re: Strippers that enjoy giving lapsdances drunk or stoned

    This thread is a bit offensive to me. I enjoy having a few drinks at work. I'm more sociable and I enjoy my job alot more. We deal with alot of assholes and such, so a few drinks ups my tolerance of them. Just because I drink at work doesn't make me stupid or any less smarter than any of the other girls. I really hate the 'holier than thou' b.s. because you don't drink. We work in a bar. Having a few drinks is common. Of course you don't have to get dances from girls that drink, that's fine. But please don't insult the girls that do.

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    Agreed, there is a big difference between drinking at work and being drunk at work. All of my favs drink a bit during their shift.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    This thread is a bit offensive to me. I enjoy having a few drinks at work. I'm more sociable and I enjoy my job alot more. We deal with alot of assholes and such, so a few drinks ups my tolerance of them. Just because I drink at work doesn't make me stupid or any less smarter than any of the other girls. I really hate the 'holier than thou' b.s. because you don't drink. We work in a bar. Having a few drinks is common. Of course you don't have to get dances from girls that drink, that's fine. But please don't insult the girls that do.
    My goal wasn't to insult anyone, I just don't want to take advantage of anyone too wasted, plus I was curious if moderate drink or drug use really does enhanced a girls lapdance experience. I apologize for any offense given, I'm not making any judgements.

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    Thank you
    I think it mostly bothers me because these kinds of threads pop up once in awhile and turn into a whole "I don't drink at work so I'm better than you.." argument. Or "if you can't do this job without drinking then you shouldn't do it.." mentality..ugh..

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    When his penis finally falls off.
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    ^_^ !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omegaphallic View Post
    I was curious if moderate drink or drug use really does enhanced a girls lapdance experience. I apologize for any offense given, I'm not making any judgements.
    All I am thinking about when I do a lap dance is getting another lap dance which revolves around customer satisfaction. I am not trying to satisfy myself. I will do things that are not comfortable in an effort to give the customer the best experience possible, sometimes causing myself cramps and exerting myself. The money and a job well done are my reward.

    I like to have a couple of drinks when I get to work but I would never pay for them myself. I paid for a drink once and I will never do it again. I am thinking that it is better for me to avoid even those first couple of drinks and instead focus on mental preparedness by meditating, the night before work. I like being alert and aware. The temptation to buffer myself from customers with booze is always there but I make more money when I am alert and aware. Also I notice that when I drink regularly during the week I suffer from depression.

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    Wow when you ask for a tip you mean it
    This was witty. Well done, sir, well done.

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    Default Re: Strippers that enjoy giving lapsdances drunk or stoned

    It's funny that you say that weed doesn't concern you, because when I danced at a dive, that was the most common way that girls who hated the job would get through the night. I would see girls use coke and alcohol to have more fun at the job, but I would see girls specifically abuse weed (as in, I can't do this job unless I'm high) and alcohol (beyond the normal drink or two level).

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    IMHO the girls who smoke weed are the worst. This is not because I have any moral objection to it, but because they are often spacey and just bore me to tears.

    In terms of alcohol or Coke, I'm not sure that I always know exactly what condition she is in and, unless she is falling down or slurring, I really don't care. More often than not, I am anywhere from tipsy to slightly drunk myself. Also, I am often part of the reason that she IS tipsy, so am I then going to penalize her by not spending money on her after she was kind enough to spend a couple of hours drinking with me?

    Now I don't mess around with any girl who is clearly fucked up and unable to make informed decisions, but I'm not exactly walking around with a breathalyzer in my pocket either. If the special gal of my choice seems steady and ready, then all systems are a go as far as I'm concerned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I tend to avoid drunk or otherwise impaired strippers. I also have my doubts as to weather any actually "enjoy" giving dances in that condition or just prefer it as a way to get through the night without letting their emotions about the job get to them.
    I've known many dancers who had fun giving lapdances after getting drunk. But probably quite a few more who drank in order to deal with the nastier aspects of the job. Some girls like giving lapdances more than others. For the ones that do like it, and smoke a little weed, I'd actually want them to be a little high I think. But I never get dances so maybe I shouldn't be posting my opinion here.

    'Omegaphallic', that's quite the name. You wouldn't be trying to drop any subtle hints to the women here, would you?
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    I choose the name Omega Phallic years ago as my author name for a bunch of porn stories I wrote, fuck up shit, in exchange for free porn. I still write stories somethings. Bad spelling, sadism men, weirdness, milk squirting titgasms (realism isn't my specialty). See writing is the one play I get to be a God and the universe unfolds to my will and I can be as evil and depraved as I want and no on gets hurt and anything is possible.

    The other reason being is I find it exciting that thousands of people are masturbating to my imagination, I mean I making people cum and I've never even met them. So that pretty cool. If 10,000 people have read a story I wrote and half masturbated to it, I just got 5,000 people off. Of that 5,000 people if 30% are female I just made 1500 women cum, if half those are hot chicks 750 hot chicks cum to my stories.

    In RL I'm a landscaper, a boring painful job, a job that's not sexy and not dirty in the fun way, so this makes me feel like I matter.

    @kiairose your welcome, sometimes I type impulsively and I say things without thinking about how it may sound to other people. And I don't drunk and smoke not because I think I'm better, but because I'm scared. Addiction runs in my family. Also I have alot of inner demons I do not want off the leash.

    I have many people in my life that do drugs and sometimes I feel like a blind guy hearing people talk about colours and thier individual experiences with blues, red, purples, greens, oranges and pinks and I try to understand what they're going through, but I don't really know.

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