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Last edited by Kisca; 06-06-2012 at 11:09 PM.
Well I'm not dancing but me and my husband have conflicting schedules and what makes it worse we always want to have sex when the other one doesn't want too lol. I try to have sex with him before work, he's happy and has a better day and i can just go back to sleep after and shower when I wake up.




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Could you do a day shift once or twice a week? It sucks that you can change your schedule but he can't really change his. Can he arrange with his boss to do a half day and make up the half day on the weekend? I only mention this because I hate when I'm the only one in the relationship to "compromise" which really isn't a compromise.
Also, why not quickies? He doesn't have to have an orgasm for sex to count. My bf takes forever to climax, so sometimes I just jump on him for ten minutes and then even though neither one of us has climaxed, it's still accomplished some "together" time in an intimate way.
Otherwise, hell-- buy him a gift card to an Asian massage parlor.you might not have that sort of relationship with your hubby though.
I'm actually on the other end-- I want more sex than my bf BUT he's stressed with school, and not in the best shape which affects his sex driveBut, he's going to the gym with me once school's on break.
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Invite him to ambush you in the shower as he pleases, perhaps? It'd have to be quick, but I'm fairly certain that in this matter the male mentality values something far more than nothing. Maybe you could do that once a week, then wake up before he leaves for work another day. Between that and the weekends/Monday, I think he should be fine.




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I would have a conversation with him about how he takes forever to come. Mine is exactly the same way. He explained to me that he doesn't have to come every single time. I mean, Lord knows I don't-- so it's not like we should be bending into a fucking 360 to accommodate their climaxes. So, start doing quickies--ten, fifteen minutes tops, and see how bitchy he gets when you end it (granted, takes some finesse and a sense of humor. I find telling him that I'm going to sex him for ten minutes and then even if it goes to fifteen minutes, I still feel okay ending the sexins.)
Does your guy freeball or wear boxers? I think guys who do that versus briefs desensitize their dick which makes it harder to orgasm. Plus-- how often does he masturbate?
This is yet another reason why I hate circumcised peni. My boyfriend has his circumsized and they are SO LESS SENSITIVE than dicks with foreskin.
Pisses me off, especially the bias FOR circumcision. Like guys who had this done to them as babies don't know any better and don't want to feel like they've been deprived so they act like their dick is all better than ones with foreskin.
pfff!
/rant.
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I know my bf also has heart issues and extra weight on him. I think if there's vascularity issues
It might also be hard orgasming. My boyfriend and
I have chatted about how the amount of red meat
he eats which affects heart health might berelated.
Also he carriesall his excess weight in his belly which someone here wrote has a lot to do with
packaged food so chemicals or fat/sugar/empty calories might have some influence.
I was really surprised that he actually started that
conversation since it had to do with sex and being overweight which are two touchy subjects.
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That is how it worked in a past relationship for me. Our Schedules weren't radically of but mine of the Army life with PT at 0630 and the day lasted to 1630. Hers was 1000 to 1800 to 2000.
Translation mine 6:30 to 4:30. Hers was 10:00 to 6:00 sometimes 8:00.
So I just set the alarm clock earlier with a half an hour for sex. 30 minutes was good for us both to get off and an enjoy it during the week with the weekend (when I was not in the field) for the extended cuddling.
So I set the alarm for 5:15 and that worked for us both.




in the meantime a quick BJ will keep you clean and satisfy his needs
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